Tests Every Woman Must Do Before Marrying Any Man Part 1

Marriage is a sacred gift from God to man- Genesis 1-   “It is not good for man to be alone, Have many children” …..). Every man is meant to have a woman in his life just as every woman is meant to have a man in her life according to God’s plan. The issue lies in making the right choice of partner. To help you chose the man you are meant to be with, we have provided you with tests every woman must do before marrying any man.

This is series one of 2 article series on the topic tests every woman must do before marrying any man.T o get full idea of all you need to certify that a man is meant for you, try to read the second batch of this article too.

A woman is incomplete without a man. So also a man is incomplete without a woman.

tests every woman must do before marrying

See –1 Corinthians 7: 2-6:

Every man should have his own wife and every woman should have her own husband. A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other’s needs.

A wife is not the master of her own body, but her husband is; in the same way a husband is not the master of his body but, but his wife is.

Do not deny yourself to each other unless you first agree to do so for a while in order to spend your time in prayer but then resume normal marital relations. In this way, you will be kept from giving in Satan’s temptation because of lack of self control

Your spouse is an extension of you; ensure you apply tests every woman must do before marrying

Your marriage partner then should be a second part of you or an extension of you without which you would be incomplete.

This is why it is very crucial for you to carry out these tests every woman  must  do before marrying before marrying before concluding that a man he intends to marry is really his best half or somebody he is meant to live with.

The journey is not an easy or a cheap one, so when you are “intoxicated” with love for a man or when he seems to be same with you, endeavor to carry out these tests to help you sift the chaff and ensure that what you are holding on to is a substance that is meant for you.

The hard task then remains identifying who that right man or right woman in your life is. Finding and living with the right partner means that you have perfectly fulfilled that injunction of God in your life. Apply these tests every woman must do before marrying to help you decide.

It is necessary to apply these tests every woman must do before marrying because when you make the mistake of choosing the wrong partner, it may be the beginning of your doom. It also means that you both would hardly complement each other as it is supposed to be but rather would face troubles and woes, tears, heart aches, sleepless nights, agony, and any kind of trouble you can think off.

Marriage is built on love and any marriage that is not founded on true love is destined to be doomed. There must be love on both sides. The man must love the woman and the woman must also love the man. True love would show itself in many ways, – According to the holy Bible:

1 Cor 13: 4-8:

Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mattered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail.

Love is eternal”

Golden rule from Jesus about love: “Do unto others what you would want them to do unto you and don’t do unto them what you would not want done to you.” Entering into marriage because my mates have done that or are doing it or because I am of age is a big mistake.

To enable you ensure that you are getting married to the right man; we have prepared the tests every woman must do before marrying below to help you make a wise decision:

1. Is Your true lover and husband would always be dying to be with you or hear your voice?

If you cannot easily get in touch with him either physically when he lives in the same city, or through phone or text when he is a bit far from you; then something is fishing.

If a man truly loves you he can’t stop thinking about you. Instead, he would be consumed by thoughts of you. You just pops into his head every now and then for no apparent reason. He would be wondering if you think of him half as much as he thinks of you.

If you call him, he would be as happy as ever to respond to your call but if he promises to call you but doesn’t, makes dates and breaks them, shows up late or plays games with your emotions; take notes ladies… those are clear cut warning signs that he does not value you, does not love you and he does not care about you!

When you call him and he sounds infuriated or inconvenienced or only returns a few of your calls/texts, maybe this guy isn’t meant for you. Look the opposite way and escape before it is too late!

2. Does he only feels good about you when you are close and forget about you when you are apart?

You may be dating a wrong person if your answer is yes. You wonder why you and your man have an amazing time when you are together, but he hardly makes a good effort to be together, he may not be having as much fun as you think.

If thoughts of you look like it vanishes from his mind when you are not around, and he always give excuse as to why he cannot see you or be with you, it is time you called the relationship a day and walk away, irrespective of how good you feel it is when you do spend time together.

A man who truly loves and wants a woman makes the effort to be with her. He can pay every prize to ensure that you are together.

3. Does the tests every woman must do before marrying show that he cares less about you or your needs?

If your answer is yes, run and never look back or you would be trapped.

If your man truly loves you, he’d always look for minute ways to make your life better, be it about covering you with a blanket when you’re cold, charging your cell phone even when you don’t ask him, or serving you the better piece of chicken when you’re not looking. He would as well be willing to take care of your needs.

If you notice he is always low on funds and is struggling to eat daily meals and cannot keep his place clean, this man is looking for a mother not a wife.

He will not take care of you but would take from you, allow you to care for him and not value you at the same time. This is a clear sign he cannot take care of himself. Get up and run.

You are not a man and you will never be a role model for a man, a father figure, man’s mentor or man’s coach. If your guy shows lack of adequate male leadership role in his life, the earlier you sent him away the better. It is a clear indication that he has failed  to pass the tests every woman must do before marrying. It means he is not yet prepared for the responsibilities that come with love, sex, relationship and marriage.

I know of a friend whose husband is like this and even worse than this. He would always complain he is low on money, wouldn’t provide the wife and child with what they need, nor allow the wife to work and would even go behind and block every opportunity the woman has of getting work to make life better for all of them. You need to apply these tests every woman must do before marrying any man to ensure he is meant for you.

It can get as bad as that. Do not wait till your situation gets to this point before you know that he has failed that test. This is the first batch of the article series. Follow this link to read the second batch.

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