Romantic Love Messages For Him | Passionate Love Messages For Her

Romantic love messages have really help lots of relationship turn around from being boring to exciting relationship. I can’t imagine how the world of lovers will be without love messages that lovers keep sending to remind their significant other, the trust, love, care, and feelings they have for them at all.

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These deep love messages have actually helped me to turn my relationship around and I know several of my friends too, that have used the same love messages to bring life into their relationship.

There are enough love messages under different categories as shown in the table of content below. This include; Romantic Love messages, Deep Love Messages, Love Messages For Him, Love Messages For Her, Good Morning Love Messages, Good Night Love Messages, Touching Love Messages For Her and even Heart Felt Break Up Messages

I want to guarantee you, the collections of the  sweet love messages on this page are going to wow you, and you will want to bookmark this page, so that, you can always come here over and over again.

Just feel relax and go through them, but be careful, you head might just explode with so much love.

Romantic Love Messages

1. Being in love with you is so special that I can’t imagine ever losing you. I’m glad we’ve found each other and together we will stay for longer and enjoy the fun of two hearts who are meant for each other.

2. Sweet heart, the love I have for you is ever growing everyday and it has grown to a stage that, at every point in time, I feel your presence even if you’re distance away. I’ll surely be committed to this love until eternity.

3. The king of my heart, if you didn’t come to my life, I may never have experienced the best love you’ve showered on me, I might be miserable somewhere on the island of hopeless and unredeemable love promises. You being here have given me best of love I can ever ask. I’ll always cherish you, pray for you and love you all the days of my life.

4. Why do I text you? It’s my choice. It’s my way of saying I remember you. Why do I remember you? It’s my choice. It proves that I care. Why do I care? I don’t know, it’s not my choice but my heart’s. People like you are found only once in a lifetime. I want to be sure that I’m not going to spend that lifetime looking for another you! I’m happy I met you!

5. Permit me to say this to you sweet heart; try and find a place for me somewhere in your loving heart. I do not really care where that place might be. Just a little corner may not mean so much to you but that little corner would be enough to see me through.

6 As I lay down the cards in the game of solitaire. I see the king and queen of hearts side by side, I remember you and me and how you left me for the jack of hearts.

7. As you admire the wonderful things God has made today, remember you’re one of them – wonderful inside and out. You’re blessed. You’re special. You’re loved.

8. I did try hiding my true feelings, accepting what you really want me. I thought it will be easy. For you, I’ll just try harder to accept and face the reality that you will learn and appreciate my love. It will only happen in my dreams but if that time comes, I hope not to be awakened. I rather sleep a lifetime just to prove how much I love you.

9. Don’t ask the sun to always shine, the clouds exist, don’t ask the leaves not to fall, the wind exists, don’t ask me to just forget, I can’t, you exist.

10. I look at you and I realize just how much you’ve been a part of my life, how special you are and how much you’ve made me happy. I look at you and I realize that heaven must be missing an angel.

11. I wished on a star one night, wished to have a friend I will love for life, days passed and I started to cry, I didn’t know that my wish came true coz the person I wished for was you

12. What else can a lover ask of her partner, you have been more than a blessing to my life. I will continue to love always and will never compromise on the journey of love we’ve started together.

13. When you are running after the person you love and you’re too busy to notice me running after you, don’t mind me. But when you stumble and fall, take my hand and let me be the one to help you get up again.

14. Somewhere in your heart, try to find a place for me. Somewhere in your heart, I don’t care where it might be. One little corner may not mean so much to you but one little corner would be enough to see me through.

15. You eased the pain when I faked the wound. You calmed me down when I faked the mood. You are instantly there when I faked the call. But why didn’t you catch me? I did not fake the fall!

16. They say nothing in the world is perfect. But I know one exception, the joining of our two hearts.

17. The person meant for you is the person who will love you even when there’s no more reason to love you. For in your nothingness, the one meant for you will find what’s lovable in you.

18. I think that sometimes we love a person so much that we have to be numb to it; because if we actually felt how much we really love, then it would kill us.

19. Convenient, isn’t it? But at the end of the show, you know you’re still yearning for something genuine. You realized that what you are really looking for is someone who can look at you straight in the eyes and tell you he/she loves you, someone worth every risk of pain, someone who will stay, someone who will simply make a difference.

20. I wish I was a tear in your eyes so that I can roll down on your cheeks, touch lips and die happy but if you were a tear in my eyes, I will try hard not to cry coz I’m afraid to lose you.

Love messages for him

I Love You Messages

1. I want my eyes to be your eyes so you could see how wonderful you are, I want my heart to be your heart so you could feel how much you mean to me, and I want my ear to be your ear so you could hear me whisper “I love you.”

2. I love you so much but you said we’re better off as friends. I cried but it didn’t help much coz’ you love someone new and because of her, you forgot that you once said you love me too.

3. Don’t be afraid to be loved more than you can return. Be afraid that you didn’t give back the love that you can. Love need not be equal to be fair, it only needs to be true. I truly love you and you’re my everything.

4. What else can I ask for when I already have you? You’re everything my heart could ever ask for, you’re mine and forever I’ll continue to love

5. You will never know how much I actually love you, since I met you, you’ve help me to smile more, cry less, be happier than I could ever thought. I just want you to know that I love you from the deepest of my heart.

6. Every day I feel so honored to have angel like you in my life. I could have been living in a much darker world but you presence illuminate my world. I love you.

7. In the most dreaded situation, the encouragement I got is from your love only. It keeps me going and brings me the much needed optimism until the turbulent time was over. You kind of love is rare.

8. I don’t want to look back to what life was without you, and I believe I will have no reason to ever look back. You mean the whole world to me.

9. Right now, the only real thing in our world is the love we both shared, in it, I have found live and more reasons to live my life with you. Words are not just enough to describe how I love you.

10. I don’t know how I can measure the love I have for you, in fact, it’s immeasurable. All I just know is that, my heart is full of it.

11. Sweet heart, I love you so much that, If you ask me to choose between you and my mother, I will gladly choose you over my mother. Why because, my father has already chosen my mother.

12. I can do anything for the sake of the love we both shared. With your love by my side, I can sacrifice everything just to keep us together.  Our love is my greatest treasure.

Deep Love Messages

1. When torn between two lovers don’t choose the one who makes your heart flatter but the one who fills it with laughter coz the excitement will just fade away but the smile in your heart will always stay

2. My dear, you should never ever take your relationship with your partner for granted, you never know, someone somewhere must be dying to take your place.

3. My silence for a long time doesn’t mean that I’ve forgotten you. My being hush is a simple symbol, a promise that even if I’m being quite, I’ll always be here for you.

4. Staying with someone you really like even if you know you can’t be together for a lot of reasons are like standing under the rain. It feels good but you know it’s going to make you sick.

5. There will come a time in your life when you will fall in love with a single soul. For this person, you would do anything and not think twice about it, but when asked why, you have no answer. You will try your whole life to understand how a single person can affect you, but you’ll never find out. And no matter how badly you hate it or how badly it hurts; you will love this person without regret, for the rest of your life.

6. Love is not a matter of finding the right person but creating the right relationship. To be in love is to be living in a dream come true.

7. You will never realize how much you care about a person until the thought of him/her being with someone else is enough to break your heart.

8. Sometimes, we dream on ideal love we wanted. When it comes, we give the best to hold on to it, but though we gave more than enough, they still hurt us for the reason we don’t understand.

9. Three people you will meet in life: First is the one you love most, second is the one who loves you most and the third is the one you spend the rest of your life with. Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person. The one you love most doesn’t love you. The one who loves you the most is never the one you love the most, and the one you spend your life with, is neither the one you love nor the one who loves you the most. He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

10. He said, “I’m sorry if you can’t love me the way you loved the one before me, so I’ll let you go to find him and hope someday, you’ll see that the one true love you are looking for is the one who set you free.”

11. In my life, I learned to love, to smile, to be happy, to be strong, to work hard. But I did not learn how to forget a nice person like you!

12. You may have someone in your heart and in your mind, you may have someone in your dreams and someone in your life but I am your someone when you have no one.

13. I wish I was a tear in your eyes so that I can roll down on your cheeks, touch lips and die happy but if you were a tear in my eyes, I will try hard not to cry coz I’m afraid to lose you.

14. Life gives us lots of things to learn. Things we should keep and we should let go. Things to forget and sometimes regret. We get hurt and cry, but why should you cry? When I’m still here to remind you how to smile. Take care!

15. Ten things to consider in a relationship: 1. Never both be angry at the same time. 2. Never yell at each other. 3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate. 4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly. 5. Never bring up mistakes of the past. 6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other. 7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled. 8. At least once a day, say a complimentary word to your mate. 9. When you have done something wrong, admit and ask forgiveness. 10. It takes two to make a quarrel, but the one who’s wrong does the most of it.

16. Falling in love is never a decision – always by chance. Staying in love is never a chance – always by choice. Falling out of love is never a choice – always a decision.

17. Getting into a relationship is not a contest of who is almost always right. It is becoming like what the Japanese call as wise bamboo, meaning, you bend so you don’t break.

18. He should know that the great aim of every human being is to understand the meaning of total love. Love is not to be found in someone else, but in ourselves; we simply awaken it. But in order to do that, we need the other person. The universe only makes sense when we have someone to share our feelings with.

19. If you’re having a really hard time in a relationship, you still can turn that relationship around. Take a piece of paper, sit down and write all the things that you appreciate about that person. Think about all the reasons that you love them. Do you appreciate their sense of humour? How supportive they are? When you focus on appreciating and acknowledging their strengths, you will get more of it and the problems will fade away.

20. When you miss someone, your heart starts to shout that person’s name. For some reason, my heart just won’t stop shouting your name. I guess, you are smart enough to figure out what I mean.

Love Messages For Him

1. One night the moon said “If he makes you cry then why don’t you leave him?” I paused for awhile then looked back at the moon and said “Moon, would you ever leave your sky?” You’re mine and we are for each other.

2. Five reasons why I text you. You make me feel welcome (I assume). I make you smile (I suppose). You appreciate my thoughts (I hope). You spend time reading my message (I guess). You think I’m cute (I’m sure).

3. The more silently love is expressed, the more it is deeply bound to impress. No wonder God loves us in silence and gives us the miracles of having lovely friend like you my love

4. Love is not a matter of finding the right person but creating the right relationship. To be in love is to be living in a dream come true. Thank you for making my dream comes true.

5. I’d rather be with someone who loves me more than I love him. I’m 100% sure that my happiness is his priority, and no more sleepless nights.

Love Messages For Her

1. Alone? I’ll be your shadow. Afraid? Stay behind me. Wanna cry? Here’s my shoulder. Need a hug? I’ll embrace you tightly and say, “Whatever happens, you have me.”

2. Accidents do happen, I slip, I trip, I stumble and fall, usually I don’t mind it at all but now I don’t know what to do coz I slipped and fell in love with you.

3. Use your lips for truth, your voice for kindness, your eyes for compassion, your hands for charity, your figure for uprightness, your heart for love and for anyone who doesn’t like you, your middle finger!

4. Never ask why the heart is red, the sky is blue, the cloud is white cause it’s like asking why of all people it’s you I care about.

Good Morning Messages

1. I know nothing lasts forever and maybe we won’t always stay together but every smile and laughter we shared convinces me that the memories of our friendship will last for the rest of my life. Good Morning!

2. Since I met you, I go to bed every blessed day imagining there is no possible ways I can still love you tomorrow more I did love you today, but when I wake up the next day, I’m been proven time without numbers that I’m very wrong. The love of you grow every day in my heart

3. Love is not blind. It sees but it does not mind. Good morning my love.

4. Love means trusting yourself with someone who has seen you at your worst and loves you in anyway. It means teasing each other and laughing at jokes nobody but only the two of you understands. It means feeling safe enough to talk about anything and having the patience to work out disagreements. It means counting on someone who sympathizes when you had a bad day, worries about you when you’re gone too long and always welcomes you with open arms no matter what. Good morning!

5. Chance or choice? When you meet the right person to love at the right place and at the right time, that’s a chance. When you meet someone you’re attracted to, that’s a chance too. Being caught that there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate and yet you decide to love your mate just the same, that’s a choice. Attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. Listen: Fate brings you together, but it is still up to you to make it happen. We may meet someone by chance, but loving and staying with that someone is still a choice.

6. Sometimes people give up on love that’s why God made the earth round so that if two people who are meant to be would decide to walk different paths, still at one point of the world, the end of their roads can meet.

Good Night Messages

1. You might be sending messages that I might erase. But the thought that you cared and spent your time for me is something that will last forever. God night dearest.

2. Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile. See you in the morning when you wake up, lovingly yours.

3. Life’s greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved. Sweet dream my love – Victor Hugo.

4. Being happy with the person you love is the great climax of life. Do you know what climax means? It’s the best feeling and yet it’s the shortest. Sweet dream!

5. Sometimes people decided to be just friends even if they still love each other. Ever wonder why? Maybe because it’s not the love that’s hard to sustain, it’s the commitment that complicates everything!

6. You have always been in my mind every time I wake up from sleep and I’m confidence you will still be there in my dream when I go to bed tonight

Touching Messages of Love For Her 

1. Do you know why God created gaps between fingers? So that someday, the one who is made by God for you will come and fill those gaps by holding your hands forever. This is why I’m here holding your hands together.

2. You eased the pain when I faked the wound. You calmed me down when I faked the mood. You are instantly there when I faked the call. But why didn’t you catch me? I did not fake the fall!

3. Love is a song not only played on radio. Instead, it’s a song played in a person’s heart. If you’re in love, sing that song and go along because you might find out someone is also singing your song.

4. If you really love someone, you wouldn’t have the heart to hurt that person no matter what it takes. You will always find a way to make her happy. That’s what constitutes love among people because love is absolute. You are overjoyed when you see her happy, that’s true love. Seeing happiness in her eyes is enough to prove what love is.

5. One cannot question the existence of feelings; they are there undeniable. But one can choose to not nurture what is felt. Yet, no matter what they say, what has been felt will always be more honest than what was chosen. True realities are not built by the mind but by the heart.

6. They say the sweetest word is “I love you.” and the hardest is “Goodbye.” But what if you discovered that he doesn’t really love you? Would you choose the bitterness of goodbye or choose the sweetest lie?

7. 7 days makes 1 week; 7 days of sex makes 1 weak; but no sex in a week makes 1 sick; however, good sex once a week makes 1 seek.

8. Love is a contradiction, it’s hard to find but easy to lose, makes you feel good but hurts so bad, opens your eyes but makes you blind, fills up your heart then tears it apart.

Hearth Felt Break Up Messages

1. It’s not easy to let go of something you’ve put everything. But it’s harder to realize later on that you’ve been holding on to something that wasn’t there…anymore.

2. It’s wrong to hurt those who love you, but it’s worse to love those who hurt you. I began to make a step the moment I knew where I stand. Then I moved on.

3. If all the science in the world could explain everything, could Physics explain why we fall in love with someone without being affected by gravity? And why can’t Logic help us to make things right when we are in love? Would Chemistry give us the chemical elements of love and its formula? Or could Anatomy and Physiology locate the scars in our heart?

4. I’m letting you go even if I love the idea of being with you! Because love doesn’t trap you in an unhappy life! – Kaiserin.

5. One day, we’ll wake up falling in love with a wrong person in a wrong time and place. But one day, we’ll realize that it’s not the person, time and place that is wrong but our expectation for a perfect love story.

6. Sometimes, it’s not about whom I deserve; it’s about who I want. Regrettably, the person I badly want turns out to be someone who just stole my heart away and left it out in the open to bleed. It’s unfair and at the same time, stupid. Because I did let her do so and for a moment, I actually liked the feeling of falling and being fooled. What is sad is that after the crying, when I’m already tired, I would still let her take my heart.

7. The leaves of trees just keep falling. Lesson? You can’t always keep someone to yourself forever. Sometimes, you have to let go. Yet, you have to remain standing, like trees do.

8. Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew.

9. You told me you miss me, but you don’t. You told me you care for me but you don’t. You told me I’m special but I’m not. Then you told me the truth that you don’t love me, I smiled and said, “I know.”

10. In love, never put yourself on a situation where you’re not sure where you stand in a person’s life. Never assume, never expect, so that if they choose to drop you, you have enough strength to move on.

11. I love you so much but you said we’re better off as friends. I cried but it didn’t help much coz’ you love someone new and because of her, you forgot that you once said you love me too.

12. You don’t force love to come in your life, for love comes freely and chooses no one. One day, you might wake up falling in love for the person you least expected!

13. You can close your eyes with the things you don’t want to see, but you can never close your heart with the things you don’t want to feel. Sad, but true.

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252 thoughts on “Romantic Love Messages For Him | Passionate Love Messages For Her”

        1. You can’t tell a lady you love her at first time. Where do the love develop? You can only like or use other romantic words for her. But for love, it shows you’re faking it.

          1. First… Learn to love yourself and compare ur first 3months of goingout wit ur present… If dos love is no longer der, that means sm1 else is holding ur place. As a matter of fact you av to act like u dnt care though, that way u cud figure him out

  1. What about if you love someone and you shared a beautiful things kissed , best conversions ……but he has a girlfriend and he’s a big big player wht u think abut that ? 🙁 🙁

  2. Am in a relationship with a guy whom i love too much and he also tells me that he does the same and when we are together he really shows me that he loves me.But what worries me is this,he has never said that he will marry me nor telling other people about our love like friends ,relatives like as i do .so i don’t know what to do because though i have been with him him for a long time and i can see it in his eyes that he loves me.what should i do because time is going……………..

    1. I won’t want to jump into conclusion here, but I can smell rat. If he really loves you, she should be able to tell family and friends about you, failure to do that, look like he’s having another girlfriend somewhere else. Seriously, time is going, sit him down and tell him about your fear in the relationship, ask him why he didn’t want to tell his family and friends about the love he said, he has for you. Mandate him to do that, and let him know that failure to that mean his love for you is not real anymore, and then sit back to listen to him and hear his excuses.

      If a man cannot be proud of his woman, then, there is something hiding somewhere, he didn’t want you to know.

    2. Rest assured cute girl that your BF is simply making fool of you. Hope you are not in physical relationship with him.

  3. Malele Lung'wecha

    the love is determined by the way a person care, respect, value and warm about you. but if you have a partner who not practice these. oooooooooooh! my dear you have lost your choice. but every person have own erotic that’s why the love is not selective and there is no beauty in this world. try to examine you relationship!!!!!!!!

  4. love is giving…without expectations..but man is a social animal n selfish..so true love hardly exists..imgination seems beauty abt love but things r different..lack perfection

  5. nothing like love, is business, you can only tell someone you have spent almost all your life with that i love you. E.g your wife can not tell you she love you, is not real, she only doing that for sake of partnership, which is the nature of human to have partner. Love come after all struggle in life to make a home. Your Children is your investment and when the investment is successful { you have trained your children and they are independent) you can now say i love you.

    Everybody protect what he or she like most in a relationship, Women need a husband and like the Man need money. Any hard working man spend time looking for money to take care of his family, the woman make babies and manage the home. these is where the business start. A good wife should always pray for her husband to be successful even when she work.Her top priority is the Children, they need time and care and the Only person to do that perfectly is a mother. not just a woman.
    after all this you will count your blessing and look at your husband and tell him dear i love you. Love can not be build in 20 year. you get tired of yourself, some time you feel like killing her, She will remember her old boy friend wish she married him because at that time she Hate you, so my own mind is that no love is business. Women know what you want and do not get carried away and Men should work hard to take good care of his investment (investment)

    For Husband to forgive his wife after knowing she have extramarital affair, this are part of the business and woman to pray for her husband not to look out side the home and forgive him and bless him always.

    Ocean Red.

  6. Hello there, my name is April and this is for everyone out there, though I’m young still, I’ve been with the same man for 8 years going on 9, our relationship wasn’t all sunflowers and rainbows, we had storms and hurricanes, sometimes I was to blame, others was his, but there was nothing stopping our love, no matter what happened, we were madly in love with each other and still to this day were are happy and strong, apart we are 2 but together we are 1, loving someone means loving them more than you love yourself. Trust, respect, honesty, joy and love is all needed in a relationship and more. My love wrights me love poems and songs for me, everywhere we go he wants to tell every one I am his, the first time we started dating he took me to his family and we spent the whole day by the lake, laughing and just having fun, my family loves and respects him for he has my heart and I have his…… We were meant too be!!!!

  7. hey dere am inlov wid dis girl,first saw her at the market so I kinda fell fo her…I think she noticed me somehow dat I’ve da hots fo her but I aint sure,the problem is “Icant man up to tell her ma feelings” how can I tell get to tell her?

    1. Be bold enough and tell her, the worse she can say is no and you’re mind will be free, then you can approach other girls you desire. Waiting on a girl that you fear to approach will make you look immature.

      1. hello mr anthony how are u doing i hope all is well out there if so glory be to god well That good tell me how can i toast a lady cos i a boy and my mum always lock me inside i dont go out that much so i find it difficult to appraoch a girl so now i want to be bold enough to have the woman i love ,and i am a one kind person i fall inlove easily even she has not says yes ,,just add me on facebook so that we can have alot of conversation sir here is my email rasheeddauda43@yahoo.com hope to hear from u soon sir have a nice day

          1. Bro, am hapi I got u on dis site n I will b happier if I can get ur contact n talk 2 u directly. Bcos I have been having problems with ladies all dis while, they said I am too jealous n they break up with me, n me I easily fall in luv. pls my contact is in my website.

  8. first time being love was like spirit dragging you to happiness and ever sweet moment u ever tasted b/4,that was happening to me right now, but i ‘m able to control my character of my attitude.That what saving me right now and with the power Allah and his prophet muhammed*s.a.w.may peace be upon him,till next time,ma sallam

    1. You can know that by how she treat you, your friend and your family. If your girlfriend truly loves you, she will love because of who you are and not because of what you have.

  9. Good day, please i am in a distance relationship with a guy i have last seen since 1999, i was his younger sister’s friend back then in the village, Presently he lives in Calabar an i live in Lagos.he was very gentle, God fearing, an responsible. we met on Facebook again late last year, he still sound humble and God fearing, anytime i am discourage, i called him for an advices he said we should get marry next year. i have this believe that any thing he tells me he his sincere about it, he never lied to me, he never stay for a day without calling or telling me that he missed me but he never told me that he love me. he went as far as getting my pictures in Facebook without telling me. he sent me recharge card even wen i never asked him. could he be real. because i have gone through a relationship that did not work, so i want to fine out if distant relationship really work out.

    1. Yes of course, distance relationship works but personally I don’t encourage it. It depends on individual involve in distance relationship, if you’re satisfy with it, there is no problem.

      I can’t tell you if your guy is real but with what you’ve written here, it is possible to work out.

      If he never told you that he loves you, may be you can find out from him why he has never said that to you since all the time you’ve been together.

    2. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness…..
      No matter how much you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her. first, You can never find love through the eye or ear,
      so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.
      my dear follow your heart because it work for me am into distance relationship and we are living perfectly because of trust and respect i aplied.

  10. did u think he is in love with me? i like him an i cannot wait to be with him. i am planing of traveling to calabar to see him he cannot wait as well.

  11. Good morning Anthony, hope your night was restful, my traveling to see him in calabar was my idea, i will be taking my leave by next month, i just want to know more about him, were he lives, then after he will come to Lagos by November that is when he will be taking his leave as well at his place of work, we are both from cross river state, an i also have an uncle that live in calabar, every body in my family knows him an he is a friend to most of my brothers. i told two of my sisters about him an because they see him more than i do. is long i travel to the village. my sister told me that the guy is a good person but she only complain about his mother because the mother is a very heartless woman even with her own son, she was the reason why the guy ran away from the village. he never enjoyed a motherly love, even till now the mother never visit or call him, about him telling me if he loves me, he only ask me to marry him early this year, i want to open my accept him when i see if his behavior is real, if he has change from what he use to be, but with the way he sound i doubt, is just last month that i tried to take him serious, he tells me everything about him, about his family, even when he knows that it could be a very deep secret. he never give me any reason to doubt him. i have a very strong feeling that he is real. i never trust guys because of what they have done to me, but my spirit just accept this guy i never have any doubt. even when i am dating a guy i never see them in my dream, but with this guy i see myself doing things together even doing things for his family in my dream. i don’t know y his like that. i don’t know if because i knew him back then as a humble person that is why i have this felling about him. can you explain a little bit if i am wrong about my felling.

    1. You might not be wrong about your feeling but you think too much about someone you feel you love, things like this can happen to you. Just be yourself and ensure he’s the kind of person you can really spend the rest of your life with.
      Forever till death do us apart is a very long time dear, so in all you do, don’t forget to back it up with prayer as well.
      Best of luck!

  12. Good day. my Visiting him in calabar was our agreement. i want to know more about him, know were he stay, an study him a bit, after then he will come to Lagos by November this year because that is when he will be going for his leave. He knows everything about me and my family as well. as the mater of fact he is my elder brothers friend. my spirit has never accept any guy the way it has accepted this one. he tells me very thing and never giving be any reason to doubt him. i never trust guys but my spirit trusted him completely.

    1. If your spirit trust him enough just as you’ve said, go ahead and visit him but I still want to warn you to not let love override your sense of reasoning. Think well about every move you want to make.

      And for his mother, hmnnnn, that’s a serious battle waiting ahead except if the guy help out and don’t allow the mother to interfere in your love matter.

      I wish you best of luck and save journey to Calabar.

  13. Im in love with my cousin . Bt u know what first i dont like him bt now i love him bcz he loves me so much pkz pray for me i need ur pray

  14. Hi mr Anthony, how are you doing. am in love with my girl friend & i love her so much but for her she dosen’t accept that i love. i can i do b’se i do everything but she told me that she’s heart broken so it’s hard for her to trust me. mwngjoel@gmail.com

    1. Sit her down and plead with her to let you what you’ve done for her that led to heart being broken. She’s the only one that can tell you what went wrong and you too may know about it. You’ve got to figure it out with her.

  15. Hello Anthony,

    I have read alot of contributions here and i did like to be part of it..

    I am this type of person that easily fall in love ..I can woo a girl properly after that i go ahead to write poems,call for mints and so on…But the girl i do all dis things for ends up telling me i am too nice that they dont want to hurt my feelings that i should look for someone that would be of match to me.(true love)..I dont just understand. As if there are more reserved onces out there.I have had several of this same advice from many girls is it that being too romantic is bad or what..i am so confused at my age i havent got any Gf.have been single for almost 4years ..as i speak to you i can tell you that i have only had sex 30 times since my birth till age 29..To the extent that masturbating is almost taking full control of my life…but i just need your advice pls tell me if there is limit in showing more love to the ladies.

    As for the masturbation the cause is pornography films..which i am doing my best to control it so i can stop this shameful habit..if also i can find a good relationship all would be controlled and stopped perfectly with God’s Grace.

    1. Girls generally don’t like a nice guy that give them all they need without any restriction or challenges. Stop being nice at all time but still be romantic. There’s something you’re doing to all the girls you’ve met that turn them off and the good ones are telling you what you need to change about the way you care for girls.
      Please look within yourself and see those things you’ve been doing for all the girls you’ve met, though nice but they want you to take them on, show them the other side of you and disagree with their opinion, a man will always be firmed and not feeble minded.
      Be good to them but take some hard decision sometimes and purposefully do something to test them and show you’re can make hard decision as a man.

      As for masturbation, it not good at all for men, every men at sometimes in their life are guilty of it but it has a really bad effect on men who engage in it for a very long time, it is one of the cause of premature ejaculation and weak erection.

      You can get more information about this by visiting my other blog for real men at Comeshowlove.com
      You will learn more on how to deal with premature ejaculation and what effect it does has on men sexual performance.

  16. I am in love with lady who after accepting my proposal. and she reviewed to me that she is suffering from elepsy or convulsion what should I do. the I love have for her instantly disappeared. Anthony is this love and what should I do. she also love dearly but I am about this sickness

    1. Epilepsy is not a child play, normally the love is supposed to disappear, but it still depend on you. If it is me, I won’t continue with such relationship, though I may stand by her trying to see how she can get treated. If you still love her, not minding her condition, you can still around but convulsion is a serious condition that can break anyone’s spirit and people often time will want to distance themselves from such person.

  17. good day, am in a relationship with a girl i love, we been friends for 7years, then last year she was always complaining i don’t care for her, so i decided to date here. this year January she invited me to her house to spend a night with her which i did, but i refuse to touch her, when she woke up in the morning she was very angry with me, i ask her is anything the matter she never said a word, so left that morning with anger. to my greatest surprise she blocked me on whatsapp she does not even take my calls. on the 302\2015 i met her again i told her am sorry she accepted. but ever since then she has been behaving strange to me, she doesn’t call me even if she see’s my miss call she won’t call, am the only one calling her. please what would be the cause and what must i do. i need your advice.

    1. She want you to sleep with her on your first day you slept in her house which you did not do and she’s thinking there might be something wrong with or you might not like to have any sexual intimacy in your relationship with her. She really want it from you and since you can’t meet that demand, she decided to put you aside.

      Here’s my take about it; She’s not really interested in the relationship any more with you except maybe you have her canal knowledge before she can take you serious. It is for you to decide where you belong, if having sex with her is not in your agenda and you want to keep yourself away from it, you may have to let her go. This is because, you cannot meet her demand and she will look for someone elsewhere to meet that demand.

      If you can get her attention, ask her why is she behaving strangely to you and what exactly did she want from you. Her response may let you know the next step you need to take.

    1. YOu’ll need to repackage yourself and look presentable for men to notice you that you’re available and then any man that come along should understand you have a daughter already and if he’ll be ready to stay with with love

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  18. Am innocent form rwanda i want relotionship my contact is +250783854563 for whatspp but even call am is not bud

  19. Hi, am linda.. I met my bf on facebook when i was in 100l but he stays in malaysia while am in lagos,, During the time of our relationship i love him so much even when have not met him face to face before, But he never told me he has another serious relationship elsewhere in nigeria,, But last year i travelled to malaysia to see my brother so we met there and when i was about to come back to nigeria he said no i should that why can’t i stay with him for a while then we can go back to nigeria back..I agreed, First 3month i spent with him he show me love and care , buh now i notice he have changed to me, he block me from fb, feb 14 my brithday he can not use me for his Dp, he hardely make love to me unlike before, he prefer to chart on his phone than to talk to me, he does nt like to take me out,,, My question is, what can be the cause? he want to give me money to start up my business and buy me a car, does that means he loves me? He always beat me somethimes n tell me he was trying to correct my mistakes d is that love? there was a girl on fb that he always like her pics and still comment love, swt on … Please Advice me, i just want to know my faith

    1. I don’t think both of you love each other, after you’ve stayed with him for 3months and he started doing otherwise that seem he has lost interest in having a healthy relationship with you.
      Why will a man want to buy you a car and set-up business for you and yet not showing you enough love that you actually mean alot to him. I guess he’s just trying to bribe you with such promises. You are not a kid but how come he beat you in other to correct you a mistake made. All of these are just a pointer that, he does not love you and the earlier you understand this now the better for you.
      Let him declare to you openly, what he actually want from you. Is it just to turn you to his sex machine why still keeping another woman outside?
      My Advice, the both of you should seat down and sort it out, if he want you let him declare that to you with sincerity of heart and if he doesn’t want you because he has another woman in his life.
      You can see with your eyes, don’t let his possesion blind you and you will call it love, he does not love you from my understanding according to what you wrote here.
      Look elsewhere for someone who will cherish you and take you for who you are and not the person who will beat you before correcting you for any wrong.

  20. James Tsotetsi

    is this girl I have been in love with her since the beginning of this year and now she is telling me that she has a boyfriend so what can i do guys

  21. i ave a guy i met recently he is kind nd cheerful he introduce me to his mother d very day i visited him though it was a fone conversation bt my fear is dis, he is a street guy i mean he socialize nd dis is d first tym i datn someone like him. my question is ow do i know he loves me? nd ow can i make him stays off sex wt me tl wen i can define wat i ave for him

    1. Don’t visit him when he will be home alone. Ensure there’s always someone around if at all you want to visit him.
      Just continue to give him excuses until you’re able to define what you have for him.

  22. Hello,Mr Anthony. I am 20 in love with a man of 36 and we have date for 3 years. Now he is proposing to marry me,i didn’t give a yes answer,but i’m just playing along. I love him but scared that i am too young for him and to go into marriage by next year. He says we’ll be great cos my schooling will not be affected and i and i am 1year to getting my degree. Please counsel me on what to do,and how do i present the proposal to my family.:$

    1. Hold on please.
      Tell the man to wait until you finish your degree program at least. Even your parent will never allow you to do such thing.

    1. Don’t wait for anybody, just take the bold step and you will surprise how easy it is. Although you may not success the first time, but you’re going to learn a lots from your first attempt and by the time you give it a try again, you’re going to find it easy talking to any woman you desire.

  23. am really in love with a girl for one year now, but anytime l ask for sex she say untill
    we marry before, we have sex. and when say we should get marry she said, she not ready to marry.pls what should do.

  24. We’ve been in this relationship for 2 and half yrs nw which is my first, with both of us as a virgin . I love her extraordinarily but never trust her CO’s she skip to call and refused to say this word …I LOVE YOU…
    We r both 20 yrs of age with some months difference….

  25. Broda, i luv and admire a lady so much after dating for 2 months, her ex-gal persuade her to come back somehow she wanna consider him. what can i do?

  26. hi my anthony, how u? please i love this gal since my highest institution days. i approached her then but she told me she was with someone. so i admitted but i never left. after school days, i found out that she was actually lied about being in a relationship. when i asked her, she told me that her first love broke her heart nd it was so bad that d guy dated her junior sis. i felt sorry for her but i love her so much. since then av been showing her love but she thought i wasnt serious. please wat should i do?

  27. My gf got married last yr. Bt she kept calin me al de time. Lov doc. Advicd me on wat 2 do’ bcos i stil care and lov her even more dan b4.

    1. She’s married, take your body, soul, mind and heart away from her.
      Don’t be the problem to her marriage.

      If she loves you to that extent, she wouldn’t have gone to marry another man.

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  29. Nokubong manciya

    Hi my problm i have 20 yrs love someone but i cal him & talk 2him, i tl him hw much i fl for him he say i must chill if i chill he wl be bck or he just play with me wat can i do nw i dnt want lose him can u reply me my no 0844990557

  30. I have a galfrnd that I hardly love, but she is dating another guys while I am still in love with her…what must I do, i cant loose her.

  31. Gudevening Mr Anthony,as it is I av a boyfriend ,so gentle,respectful ,kind,caring,cool hearted,God fearing nd so on ,he takes me 2 his family house,friends place,almost everywere he goes,telling dem am his galfrnd ,he has all d qualities of a potential husband material but there ar 2 major twins dat irritates me each tym we ar 2geda,one is dat he doesn’t lik me touching his phone nd 2ndly he barely takes care of me am talking abt financial aspect,d most puzzling aspect of it all is dat he can never bear seeing me frowning talk more of crying,plz in a situation like dis wot do u suggest I do?

    1. It’s like both of you don’t have a define relationship?

      Why are into the relationship in the first place?

      You said, he has everything that will makes him worth anyone’s husband, then again, you complain on phone secrecy and not taking care of you financially.
      I think you got it wrong here, he not responsible for your finance and I don’t you love him because of his money.
      So, leave the money issue aside because, it might just be a test.

  32. Mr anthony, Good morning.
    i have a big problem and i will like you to help me find a solution for this problem. i am married for 2 years and 6 months now. but i am fade up because of the way my wife treat me. and to make the whole matter worst, she had succeeded pushing me to the wall. now i am doing things i never imagine or thought of doing. things like going to night club and going after other ladies. that is not even the case. the worst case i am facing now is this, i have fallen in love with another woman, and this very girl i fell in love to is aware of my status, she knew i am married and she knows my wife and my son. but i love her so much that i can’t even stop thinking about her. i want her so bad that i can go on to do anything to win her love. i know this may sound crazy, but it’s all true. i have told the girl how much i love her, but she said that i am married and she can’t date me. but what i cannot understand is this, she feels so comfortable whenever she sees me. she takes my calls and sometimes even call me when she sees my miss calls. she never behaved like she really meant that she don’t want to date me. she takes my calls anytime and any day. i had once excorted her to a place where she went to get something for her school. and we spent almost the whole day buy things and some of these things i paid for them. on that day she suggested we take one bike which we did, she even allowed me to hold my hand around her waist. we sat on a bike like husband and wife and she allowed all that to happen. even on that day i tried to take her to a hotel and on our arrival to the hotel, she noticed the place i brought her was a hotel, and she just said why didn’t you tell me that we were going to the hotel. and i told her that i needed a comfortable place where i can have a healthy discussion with her. but she refused to follow me into the hotel so we left to a fast food joint that day, it was there she told me that she can’t date me because i am married.

    yes she said she can’t date me because i am married and she knows my wife. but why did she sound so bad on phone the day i told her that i am traveling out because i needed to think so i can forget about her and move on with my life? why did her voice went so down the moment i called her to inform her that i’ve arrived where i travelled to because i needed to forget about her and move on? and why is she coming out to see me whenever i wanted to see her face? though i have not had any canal knowledge of her. we have not had any sex nor kiss. i have tried kissing her and she refused, but i never forced a kiss on her. and i really wish she can allow me make love to her even if she don’t want to date me. now i am asking this question. if she doesn’t want me, but why did she sound so bad on phone the day i told her that i am traveling out because i needed to think so i can forget about her and move on with my life? why did her voice went so down the moment i called her to inform her that i’ve arrived where i travelled to because i needed to forget about her and move on? and why is she coming out to see me whenever i wanted to see her face? why then is she doing all this? why is she taking all my calls and even returning some? why? though she warn me to stop sending her text messages. please can you tell me exactly what i should do. but please what do you think about this girl? did she really mean that she don’t want me? or is she pretending? but i love her and i want her, what should i do now?

    please i need your good answer, is urgent please.

    1. Benedict, if I must tell you the truth, the girl does not love you and she will not want to marry you simply because, you’ve already married.

      I think she’s enjoying your caring and attention.

      There are several girls like her, she’s more of like a friend with benefits.
      Though, emotionally she’s attached to you and that’s the result of the much care you show her.

      This is hard to say now and I don’t advice any married couples to get divorce. I always believe, they can’t work things out, if they can be sincere with one another.
      So, my point is this, there’s no problem without a solution, why not see how you can resolve issues with your wife.

      If you have tried all you could do and you’re not making headway, you can now go separate ways and nothing will bind both of you together.
      Then, you can talk of dating another woman that you intend to marry.

      As regard the present girl, just forget about her. This is because, as it is now, she’s just using you as her umbrella and with the emotional attachment, though she’s likely not going to marry you, but she loves being with you because, she’s really enjoying your company.

      You don’t want that, and so, the two of you have different mission.

      1. Mr Anthony. Thanks for your answer and advise. you have a point in all your sayings. but i wanna ask, for how long would i watch my self living a life without a happiness? i mean, for 2 years and months now I’ve not been a happy man because my wife killed those spirit that brings happiness and joy. i don’t even know if i have love for her again. but this new girl has given me every reason to live again. even if my wife change now, then it will only put me in fears of uncertainty, because her changes might be of something she’s planning which might not be of any benefit for the marriage. but why are some women like this? what would a woman gain from not respecting her husband? what would a woman gain from not playing her roll as a wife? mr anthony, i must say that i do know why that song writer wrote and sang” NO WOMAN NO CRY ” i must say that i am at the verge of calling it a quit.

        Mr anthony. i also want you to look into this matter very well and tell me if really this other girl did not have any feelings for me, because she gives attention to all my calls and she even told me so many things going on in their family. but what surprises me is that she never asked me of anything, and sometimes i would force her to make demand but she never did. i am a kind of confused here, because my heart never stopped beating for this girl. forgetting her won’t be any easy at all because i truly love and adore her.

        this girl never asked me of anything. and sometimes when i tried to give anything to her, she just refused my gift and ask me why am i doing all this for her. but my spirit is telling me that she has feelings for me and maybe she doesn’t know how to admit that. but the simple truth is that i love her so much, and i do not know what to do. leaving her is like committing suicide upon my self. is there any advice on how to win this girl? is there any advice on how to know if truly she has feelings for me? please tell me, i want happiness in my life, and this girl is my happiness now. i wait your answer.

        Thanks mr anthony

        1. If you’re not getting the happiness you deserve in your marriage and you can’t find a solution to the issue, I think, you need to go on separate ways, to pave way for the new girl to really committed to the cause of marrying you.

          She has told you that you’re married and I guess, she’s not ready to be a second wife. She actually has feelings for you but feelings are just emotional, it can pass away any time and the reality will be dawn on both of you.

          You can discuss with her, your intention, if you intend to divorce your wife because of you not being happy in the marriage. If you she agree and see reason why you should do so, and ready to come along with you. It’s all fine and good.

  33. You dont have to ultter such word to any body at the first time of seeing that person,rather you might try to get or rich to that person to the 2nd or 3rd time then she might have impact some moral of ur coming nearrer to her and then, that’s the determine time for u to say ur wish and ur mission toward her

  34. mr anthony pls help me i am dating one girl bt she is distance to me. I luv her so much sir the worse thing if i call her we start fight she want me to be angry always, before i see her the take me a year. Only on christmas period once in a year sir pls can i continue or not serious issue

  35. I had a girlfriend dat lasted 4 only one week….wat happened was dat her ex came back begging….he went to d extent of asking her mum to help him out and she did…to my greatest surprice my girl accepted….and she dumped me…she still tells me dat she luvs me….and i truly do luv her so much…nw she has a problem wit him and she wants me bck… should i ? pls advice

  36. micheal zubson

    (Good morning Author)I’m in love wit dis girl, we been dating for a 1year now, i love her so deep and since we started dating i have never don anything dat hurt her or make her feel alone, but i keep seeing her wit guys and all she keep saying is dat they’re just friends wat should i do sir, i do love her.

    1. Well, there are much you can do.
      Since she said, they are friend, take with a pinch of salt and do your monitoring.

      Though, it might be true, they are just friend, that’s why you can still give her the benefit of the doubt, and do your proper monitoring.
      If she has changed from the person you know some times back, and giving you lesser attention, then you’ll need to call her attention to it and let her that, one of the characteristic of a lady trying to keeping two guys in her life, is giving the first one she met with lesser attention, because she thought, the new one has more juicy honey waiting for her.

      If she still stick with such friends, decide to continue with the relationship or to just end it and free your mind from emotional turbulence.

    1. I believe there is true love, and that comes from deep within us ( It is that love that makes us care and help others willingly without cause of remuneration whatsoever.) but in this universe of ours true love doesn’t come in two ways, while it is often the case, I believe True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

  37. i ave a girlf and will ave been dating 4 long but we are far away 4rm eachother how can i know she love me

  38. If someone love u that doesn’t mean he or she will show it all some don’t like to show it cause of heartbreak so but tru the things he or she does u will be able to know or u ask

  39. I av a girl that I love so much,the girl is in university of Ilorin but I have try all my best to let this girl no how much I love her but all is vanity,anytime I tell this girl that I love her he will say all is in hand of God that if God say YES none can say NO and if God say NO none can say YES but still am never give up and am always send money to her anytime he need of money but now am confused what can I do…pls help

    1. God will say yes if want it to be yes and no if she want it to be no.

      So, I will advice you to stop sending her money.
      Tell her you need an answer now as you cannot afford to be in the dark anymore.

      If she cannot decide and waiting for God to come down from heaven to tell her yes, then, I think you’ve got to forget about her and use your energy to run after another lady who will not keep you in darkness.

      Don’t let one woman hold you to ransom.
      Be the man and determine how you want it.

  40. but sir I am so much love this girl with all my heart so now won’t of if the girl say NO what can I do again

    1. …then you move on with your life.

      Except if you know that, there’s no any man in her life, you can then persist further, but if she’s not yielding, just ignore her and move on with your life.

  41. there is a girl. we love each other but there is a day that d girl said we can,t date agen and she don,t give me racing

  42. sir I don’t know m/b he have one that she is dating her because I don’t mention anything like to me ni

  43. There is this Lady I asked out, I have a very soft spot for her but she keep saying we can’t date due to the fact that am a Christian and she’s a Muslim, but If I don’t go to her a day she will disturb me with calls, she tells me most things I think should be kept secret to her. Please what can I do, I must say I love her,but don’t know what to do.

  44. Especial you don’t need to border yourself on that, continue showing her your love and never mind what people may say about that, you a warrior whose never look back on the battlefield, since you love her definitely one day she will turn back and say I love you, giving her the most suitable love messages

  45. Pls mr athony i have a girlfriend we love each other but i call her always but once she has call me because she offend me . Even if I said i love u she reply i love u too but she have not said to me i love u first but d only problem, i have not met her face to face she live at nkanu i want to meet her but my friends i should not go what should i do pplz help me i will glad if my request is granted.

    1. Why will your friend tell you not to go see someone you love.

      If the girl allow you to come visit her, please go and see her to convince her that, you’re not a ghost.

      It’s possible she want to see you in person before he can actually fall for you real good.

  46. I’m in luv wif 2 gals, they both luv me nd I luv them too. I do buy same gifts 4 dem, wat eva I gv 2 Cynthia, I buy likewise 2 Bright. guys I dnt wnt 2 lose any of dem coz they’ve bn blessings 2 me since we met. I need ur advice Joseph 4rm calabar

  47. since i was born i have never fall in love the i fall with this girl, but she been living evry rough life before without telling me, now that i find out on my own what Should i do please? Cus i might give up if i Should lose her….

    1. In my opinion, that’s her past and what really matter most now, is her present.

      In your own assessment, how can you describe her in relation to what you’ve heard about her past?

      You can continue to love her or just end the relationship if the past is something you don’t want to be associated with.
      That shouldn’t be the end of it for you, it’s one of those things in dating and relationship.

  48. Bro anthony i really need your help, i meet a girl in my guy shop we all gist, the way my friend nd d girl play i tink that they are dating, i leta ask d guy he tell me dat she is her cousin sister, so i tell him that i love her and i want him to help me, he leta agree wit me but demand i make d move wich i did. We are like dating now. Am confused.. My friend save her numba with .MY LOVE.. I dnt knw if dey’r dating or not

    1. Do you trust that your friend?

      Ideally, I don’t think if he has something with her, he will asked you to go ahead with her.
      I’m kind of confuse too as per the name saving but it can also mean nothing.

      Just be careful anyway, so that you won’t fall into their antic.

      But if you trust your friend enough, no problem then.

  49. After My Girlfriend Died, Just A Year Now, I Have Not Been Into Relationship With Any Girl Because I Love My Late Girlfriend. How Do I Find A Faithfult Girl ?

    1. Sorry for the demise of your ex.

      You can find another faithful girlfriend but you need to first get stable emotionally.

      I guess her loss is still affecting you one way or the other, so you need to first get yourself emotionally stable, then you can see other girls.

  50. iam with this girl for 3 months now and i have develope some love in her .all i the words to tell her i love her. Anthony please help me out

  51. Hello admin
    I met a girl while ago, before i proposed my love for her, i don’t notice her at all until her friend told me that she really like me…after proposing to her, we hang around with each other but shortly after our SSCE examination, we got departed and i started heard about her that she was dated by many guy and i stop calling her because my hatred for her developed everytime when i heard about her…later i met another girl but she is older than me …i was surprice that a girl far older could fall for me but she have been in engaged with someone far older than me even she had child for the guy..but dis doesnt stop me from loving her even we had sex together recently we fought and she told me that she doesnt need my attention because am heart breaking later my ex called me and she told me she was sorry …but i was confused chosing who to love pls i need ur advice

    1. You shouldn’t be going far now with these ladies.
      At most, you can just be friend.
      As a man, you still have many things ahead of you, that you should be thinking about now.
      Let women palava comes later, else, it will distract you from your future endeavor.
      Thanks

  52. Hi me and my partner broke but how can i swep her off her feet again like i did when we first meet we have been together for 8 years and got 4 beautiful kids together and they are my world my life my soul they are everything to me my love for her has never died please help

  53. Hi anthony i lov my bf but he always hurting by chtng on over n over nd i always 4gv him nw i dnt knw what 2 do anymore i tryd anything 2 make him happy but he keep chtng nd i lov him i dnt wnt 2 lose him pls help me

  54. Hello Love Doctor, there’s this girl I’m dating for four months now n I promised to be with her till the end of time… Meaning I will marry her, but she has attitude problems n I love her so much. My fear is, if I end up marrying her I foresee trouble at the end! Please what do you think I do, should I break up n look for another girl to love or I should forge ahead? Thanks Olaitan.

    1. For try to date, be in relationship with or marry someone out of compassion.

      If you’re seeing trouble ahead, just let her go.

      Don’t start giving yourself unnecessary headache.

  55. VINCENT SHAAPERA

    Hello mr anthony! I have been in relationship with a girl I haven’t seen her one on one, we met on facebook and she propose to me that she has love feelings on me, though she’s older than me but she loves me, then I accepted her.. so anytime am asking her questions to try and get the truth of what she said, she do asked me that, can we put our relationship asunder? Coz she hate when someone doubt her..after that she will call me on phone and said sorry, its anger that makes her bring the word ASUNDER..! So pls sir I need help, is it true that this girl loves me? Or what should I say when else she ask to quit our relationship?

    1. Does she repeatedly says asunder, as in more than once when issues like this happened?

      It’s possible she loves you but she has problem with getting offended easily when confronted.

      Nobody is perfect anyway, so if you know you can cope with her and not minding the way she get angry because you want to know the truth, then she’s still OK.
      Afterwards, she calls to apologize.

  56. Hi, am having a problem with my boyfriend actually we are not together anymore, but since he travelled i don’t understand him again, he hardly call i will even be the one calling him. Sometimes i will jst feel like breaking up with him but the more am thinking of that the more i love him. I know he stil love me bt he does not get my tym anymore and i don’t want to lose him.

  57. I ave a partner that we both luv eachother to did extend of if we did not call eachother a day we will not sleep that nite but to my suprise a friend of mine said he too is dating her but ask her she said there is noting going between my friend and my partner pls sir wat can i do

  58. Adeyemi Matthew

    Pls sir i ave a partner i love her but I’m if she love me but when ever i tell her i love u she always respond back pls sir wat can i do

  59. good day mr anthony, i have a girl friend that i love and she loves me too but before i asked her out she had a guy and i know about it, now i really want to talk about marriage and i dont know what to do please help me

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  61. Hye Mr Anthony, I av dated this particular 👧 Seens my childhood and we luv each other so much Bt we later broke up for the past one year now. Bt I luv her so much an I need her 🔙, Pls tell me how to go abt it in other to av her 🔙. Thanks I Luk ➡ to hear from you help me.

  62. I’m in love a girl & i told her but she keep telling me she is not ready for a relationship but always ready 4 me each time i call on her for help i fee confuse. is she playing hard to get or what? i’m tired of the whole tin

    1. Yes Mercy, you can be loved.

      Love does not see all of that, it comes from the heart and someone who will love you won’t bother about any challenges you’re having.

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  65. I realized that my gal has been cheating on me with a cop who has been luring her with money and gifts…am desperately in need of help guys…am so distressed and tired of life..what should I do?

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  67. i failed to tell my boyfriend HBD on the day of his birthday, i tried to plea but he said he doesn’t want to talk about it….i wanted to ask is the love still there?

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  69. Bros in the situation were we are the number of female’s its greater than the number of male what advised a you give the ladies to aloud guys to have ,2 girlfriends at one time.

  70. hello ,well am frank ,i proposal to a lady of my age mate ,after all we are all the same level of education the next thing she told me that her whatsup phone is at repiare place that i should give her money to go and take it because i proposal to her,i never answer her about weather i will give the money or not,the day she flash me and i call her we were talking and she was demanding for airtime why my brother was there with me,my brother spoken with her and he told her not ask for airtime,she end the call ,since then she refuse to pick my call ,if i call her with another number when she notice am the one she would end the call,it look as if am coming to like her ,but she do not pick call ,and i have send massage to her to pick my call but no respond what should l do ,,pls help me ,am waiting for your respond

    1. Sunday Emmanuel

      woow Mr Anthony today is my first day to be here and i have read and understand everything you say here but i want to ask a little question how will i no a wife type like a girl who is good for marriage ever since my love am this hard to love and to be loved and is really getting me made i love woman but when i start it takes only weeks then everything gos wrong so i need advice on how to handle this precious live of my

  71. Arogunre Waliu Oluwatosin

    What happened when u truly love a lady nd I’ve bn talking about marriage nd lately she started acting up nd saying all sort of things like my pastor says we’re notgonna last together all kind of excuses

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  73. Hi this oluwaseun from Ikere Ekiti State am 23yrs single cause my ex cheated on me my having secret affairs with my friend even she got pregnant for him I would like to meet and find reasonable lady who won’t hurt my feels here is my number if you wish to know more about me +2349032184135

  74. HI”bro anthony, am in big pain now and i need your advice, their is dis girl i love so much, when i tell her that i love her that i want her to be my girl, her reply is that she like me but she have a boyfriend and she dont want to double date, but we can be very close which i dnt buy the ideal, leta we become very gud friend dat my friends use to call her my girl, but i dnt like d way she answer d guy call if she stay wit me which made me to tell her not to come close to me again, but i still love the girl like mad, i dnt no what to do…

    1. Some girls can pretend to be in a relationship with another guy just to test you, and see how you’re going to react.

      Some are actually in relationship but the relationship is nothing to write about, so they just need the company of another guy to keep them going.

      If she want to remain with the other guy, she need to give you some space and if she want you, then she should forget about the other guy.

  75. My husband having relationship with a girl. They are having baby also. Recently I knew this matter. Mentally i disturb about this matter. But my husband still loves me. He is telling it is just an accident. Hi ow can I manage this situation

  76. I have girl that I love very much, though we have a little distance away from each other.. I love her so much that I’m always carried away whenever I’m with.. that kind stuffs Na… but the problem is that she have other boy friends but whenever I wanted us to go apart. she is always disturbing me that she loves me so much and that she can’t stay without me… please help me on what to do because I’m also madly in love with her.. Pls help me!

    1. It is not a problem, if she really loves you as she claimed, she will not have another boyfriend.
      You’ve got to shine your eyes well well in this regards.

      All the best.

  77. good morning bro anthony,
    i always come to you anytm i need advice in relationship nd u always gv me reasonable advice, dis time i need advice from you nd is urgently.
    Their is dis girl i love so much, but she always telling me dat she have bf but day can not stop our friendship, sudenly sometn happen, the guy her bf become very jealous, each time she see my call/sms he will be very angry wit d girl, he even tell the girl not to talk to me but she refuse, the guy collect my numba from her phone call to tell me to leave the girl, dat one no do him, he come face to face to tell me, so i tell my guys abt d matter they ask me to gv dem the guy contact/ID,
    My qustn is this will the girl still love me if she find out dat i scare the guy, i knw wat my guys is capable of doing…

    1. Santiago, don’t try to do any funny thing.
      If the girl is truly in love with the guy, don’t hurt her feeling and spoil your friendship with her.

      To be frank with you, there are many other babe out there, it is just that, you’ve closed your mind on this one.
      Please, open your mind bro and you’ll see a plethora of other fine fine babes around, this will limit your feeling towards the girl you said you love but she not available for now.

  78. hi friends, pls i need a serious single lady for serious relationship. pls whatsap me on dis number 07034424442 or call me on dis 09020606666. thanks

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  81. Anthony…I love this girl but she works at my father’s company and she has a child out of wedlock…my parents can’t allow our relationship but I think the best thing to do is to impregnate her….is that proper?

  82. Mothomotsoana jafeta

    Really true love exist, I have been with someone for five years,even now we are still in love.

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  84. Tx Mr Anthony, for all the good work u are doing on this platform. with due respect Mr Anthony, am in love with a lady since 2012, and all saids and done, this lady accepted to marry me, may 2017.. though she lived in Kaduna, am in university of Abuja, running my Master Program.. but I asked her, on what condition, can she refused me? she told me, on one condition, which is if am not working. secondly, she refused to link me up with her parent, anytime I make advance to come close to her family. she always told me, it is not the right time for me, to come close with her family.. in fact, all my family member new about her as they washed me at time calling her on phone all days long and I even told my family member about her officially, which my family are furiously waiting to see her someday. but my worries is this, y does she love to keep at distance from her family?

    1. Hi Joseph, I cannot really give the exact answer but I guess, there’s some sort of reason why she might be trying to do so.
      She may be brought up from strict family or she just want to be super sure, you’re the real person, she’s going to spend the rest of his life with, before letting you meet her family and you know, her family decision might be final.

      That’s my thought anyway.

      Sorry for the late response.

  85. Hy..m madly in love with dis boo of mine buh he doesn’t really call,text or spend enough time with me wen I go to his place like he use to buh he always says he love me and he gives me wah I want buh wen I complain he will say his sowie but won’t still change so m confused??

    1. What’s keeps him to not too stay with you as he used to, is what I cannot say as I don’t have such information, but since he has assure you of his love, I think you should just do your part and as well give him some close or secret monitor to know why he’s spending little time with you now unlike before.

  86. Hello…mr antony, 4 some years now i gone 2ru hurts in relationship! but of recent i had a guy who claims he loves me bt am cofused tough i love too. pls how do i go abt it.

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