I Love Relationship

Relationship and Dating Advice

  • Home
  • Relationship
    • Relationship Tips
    • Relationship Advice
  • Fashion & Beauty
    • Fashion Tips
    • Beauty
  • Wedding & Accessories
    • Marriage
    • Cakes
  • Family & Health
    • Parenting
    • Healthy Living
    • Inspirational
  • Love Messages
    • Love sms
      • Love text messages
      • Love quotes
      • Relationship sms
      • Relationship quotes
    • Birthday Wishes
    • Christmas Messages
    • Valentine SMS
    • Easter wishes
    • Friendship sms
      • friendship text message
      • Inspirational sms
  • Dofollow Sponsor Post
    • Advertise
    • Contact Us
    • Write For Us

Ways to Effectively Handle Your Short-tempered Girlfriend Without Bailing out on the Relationship

One thing you’d learn from relationships is how to make sacrifices. Your short-tempered girlfriend, assuming you have one, will really test the limits of your ability to make sacrifices.

your short-tempered girlfriend

Your short-tempered girlfriend just doesn’t make you feel like strangling her sometimes, her attitude can also affect others in your circle.

Friends and family may decide to avoid you two because they are scared of her abrasive personality. Colleagues and bosses too would avoid you when she is around.

To put it mildly, your short-tempered girlfriend would impact your life in more ways than you can possibly predict. And the situation never gets better unless you do something about it.

You might think you will get used to it. But unfortunately, because you are not the only one suffering the brunt of her attitude, getting used to it is never going to happen.

To save yourself from one day exploding and doing something you would regret, you should consciously put in motion plans to stop that attitude.

So what can you do to deal effectively with your short-tempered girlfriend? Read on to see some workable measures.

You need to work on yourself first

your short-tempered girlfriend

Dealing with a person with such a short fuse can bring out the worse in even the best of us. Unfortunately, if you lose it with your short-tempered girlfriend, you are just compounding the situation.

Basically, two wrongs can’t make a right. You’d constantly need ‘calmness’ in large doses.

So you need to work on your attitude first. You would need to train yourself to be perennially calm in the face of her tantrums.

And if you don’t have a calm personality, make a conscious effort to develop that part of your nature. That is the foundation of dealing effectively with your short-tempered girlfriend.

Improve your communication skills

your short-tempered girlfriend

One of the bedrock of any long-lasting relationship is the ability to communicate very well with your partner. That is non-negotiable.

However, with your short-tempered girlfriend, your communication skills would be put to some serious test. Not once, not twice, but several times.

This is the time you need to learn some lessons from professional crisis managers and diplomats. These are people who are versed in the art of dousing tension with the right words.

Communication though, also refers to knowing when to just shut up.

You need to be patient with her

your short-tempered girlfriend

Again, patience with a partner is one of the bedrock of normal, happy relationships. In this case, you would need a new level of patience.

Here is the thing about short-tempered people, as quickly as they get angry, they calm down in a hurry.

Sometimes, they calm down so fast you even wonder if you dreamed the whole thing. Don’t be surprised if you begin to think she loses her temper just to tease you.

So no matter how tempted you are to do something drastic to her,  be patient. Her anger would dissipate with time. Then you can use communication skills to talk to her about what just happened.

It is important you don’t try to engage with her when she’d lost it. She would beat you silly with her experience.

Don’t react to petty issues

your short-tempered girlfriend

In long relationships, it becomes natural to be irritated with something we used to ignore. If your girlfriend is short-tempered, learning to ignore these small irritants would be wisdom personified.

It wouldn’t take you long to realize that your girlfriend reacts on impulse. She hardly stops to think before flaring up. Reacting to her irritating quirks in any way is a sure trigger for her caustic temper

So one good thing your short-tempered girlfriend would teach you is how to ignore petty issues. After all, these are things that even in the short run, are not even important.

Know when to take a step back and simply walk away

your short-tempered girlfriend

Sometimes, with people like this, nothing you do can calm them down. Forget you top-notch negotiating skills. They won’t be of any help in certain circumstances.

As a matter of fact, your presence is likely exacerbating the problem. This is the time to take a step back. And if possible, just walk away calmly.

Walking away doesn’t mean you quit the relationship though. It is just to give her space to calm down. And to give yourself peace to get in the right frame of mind.

You would need that ‘right mind-frame‘ for the time you have to confront her later when you come back. Because ignoring her and not talking about the issues would not make them disappear.

Support and encourage her to seek help

your short-tempered girlfriend

Fortunately, short-temperedness is now recognized as a clinical/psychological problem. For that reason, it can be treated or managed.

In her quiet moments, try to convince your short-tempered girlfriend to get help from the experts.

Make her understand you would be there for her each step of the way. Anger-management classes would also benefit you too.

Though you kept it together up to this point, you know the stress you have gone through to suppress your anger. So, while she is learning to be a better person, you can also learn a thing or two from her classes.

So these are the ways you can handle your short-tempered girlfriend with positive results. If you have anything to add, please feel free to do so in the comments section below.

And don’t forget to share this with your friends on Facebook or Twitter. We would appreciate it.

Cheers.

1.3k
752
471
348
1.8k

Related Posts

  • Dating Your Friend’s Ex: 4 Rules You Must ObserveDating Your Friend’s Ex: 4 Rules You Must Observe
  • 5 Ways To Live With A Nagging Girlfriend Without Going Insane5 Ways To Live With A Nagging Girlfriend Without Going Insane
  • Dating Your Best Friend’s Ex: 4 Reasons It’s A Bad IdeaDating Your Best Friend’s Ex: 4 Reasons It’s A Bad Idea
  • 6 Common Bedtime Routines To Make Your Relationship Stronger6 Common Bedtime Routines To Make Your Relationship Stronger
  • Girlfriend Goes Abroad: Keeping It TogetherGirlfriend Goes Abroad: Keeping It Together
  • 5 Simple Tips For Your First Blind Date To Avoid A Disater5 Simple Tips For Your First Blind Date To Avoid A Disater

Filed Under: Relationship Advice Tagged With: Communication, female, Handling relationship issues, Male, Relationships, Short-tempered girlfriend

Austin Cyril

About Austin Cyril

I read. I brood. I write. In between all that, I ponder one of the biggest existential questions of the modern era: would Arsenal ever win the league again?

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Best Promo Codes Online

Recent Posts

  • Analyzing The Major Perks Of Having A Friend With Benefits
  • Capture Memories Worth Keeping: 5 Steps in Finding the Best Wedding Photographer
  • Do Valentine’s differently with 4-pc Prosperity Gift Set with Clarins’ Malaysia Chinese New Year promotion
  • Surprising Health Benefits of Sleep
  • Tips For Gaining Confidence With Women
  • Three Tips for Picking the Perfect Wedding Jewellery
  • The Most Common Online Dating Mistakes That You Should Avoid
  • Zodiac Compatibility: 4 Ways Your Star Sign Can Find You a Partner
  • What To Expect From A Wedding Dress Designer
Am I enabling my loved one's addiction? Take the am I an enabler addiction quiz here

Trending

  • 12 Sure Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love You (376)
  • NYSC 2015 Batch A Tertiary Institution Senate Approve List Confirmation (300)
  • Love Text Messages For Girlfriend or Boyfriend (272)
  • HOW TO UNLOCK YOUR 3G MODEM AND TURN IT INTO UNIVERSAL 3G MODEM (272)
  • Sweet Love text messages, love quotes and Relationship quotes (252)
  • Romantic Love Messages You Will Love (252)
  • How To Talk To Girl You Never Met Before And Impress Her (173)

Products

“How To Overcome Frustrations Of A Single Guy And Begin To Get Girlfriend Effortlessly”

Inspiring Love Quotes About Life, Love Message For All Lovers

Relationship Advice

How to Set Up a Budget When You Are Getting Married

Three Tips to Ensure You’re Not Moving too Fast in Your Relationship

How to Stop Being Jealous: 5 Great Tips to Save Your Relationship

Fashion & Beauty

The Best Tips On Using Fashion Jewelry

Off The Wall Places To Buy Jewelry

7 Of the Most Common Hair Loss Causes and How to Treat Them

Lifstyle

Do Valentine’s differently with 4-pc Prosperity Gift Set with Clarins’ Malaysia Chinese New Year promotion

What Subjects to Choose at the University?

Why You Should Get Ordained On The Net

Health

Surprising Health Benefits of Sleep

Acting as United Body: Recovery From Addiction for Couples

What You Need To Know About Prediabetes

Refund Policy | Privacy Policy |Free Coupon Codes |Copyright © 2019 I Love Relationship, All Rights Reserved DMCA.com Protection Status