Top 10 True Love Signs of Relationship

Have you ever experienced true love in your relationship? Are you sure it’s not infatuation you call true love? I never once doubt true love because it exists but true love doesn’t just happen the way many people thought of it. If you want to really know if you’ve experienced or you want to experience true love, you may consider taking a look at these top ten true love signs of a relationship.

True Love Signs of RelationshipIt is possible to see someone for the very first time and the person makes your heart skip, then you fall into the popular belief of love at first sight which is not real love but an infatuational kind of love. This kind of love is not real because it’s a strong surge of emotional and sexual emotions that overwhelm you.

Before you can begin to experience relationship success, you need to take it slowly and that is when true love character will begin to manifest in your love and relationship life. I know that many of chase after true love but only a few really find it and experience it in totality.

How do these people experience it? Simple, they are not bound by the laws of human behaviour because human behaviour is easy to understand, for instance, human instinct will tell you to react immediately such as when someone hurts you, you get angry with the person, when someone steps on your ego, you will want to retaliate, these are human behaviour that true love doesn’t follow the such pattern of lifestyle. But when you experience true love with someone, your primal instincts and behavior change only towards this person. True love transcends typical human behaviour. It makes you a better human being towards a special someone.

The 10 True Love Signs of Relationship

Though true love may be hard to define, its signs are easy to read in every successful relationship. These are the true love signs of a relationship to for in your relationship.

  1. There should not be a give-and-take situation in your relationship, when you give, you do it without expecting a return from your partner.
  2. No matter how you’re feeling, the happiness of your partner will set you too in a happy mood when you watch your special one smile or laugh, that’s pure happiness.
  3. You sacrifice for their happiness and well-being even when they don’t notice it.
  4. You get hurt when you’re upset but their action never offended you.
  5. You’ll never want to hurt them in any of your actions, when you’re truly in love with someone, you can’t even think of hurting them either emotionally or physically. True love is a completely selfless act but revenge is a strong human instinct which can’t be found in true love
  6. You share in their burden even if you have yours to carry.
  7. You celebrate their achievement, even if it is a thing you’ve not been able to achieve. It’s normal to feel jealous of a friend when they achieve what you find difficult to achieve but in case of the true love, you rejoice in their pride.
  8. You will never want to fail in your promise to your lover, you’ll ensure you keep to your promise no matter what it takes to do that as far as you can feel happy doing it.
  9. Always think from your lover’s perspective and not your own always, you’ll think about their point of view before you make any decision that may affect them
  10. It is no more a single you in all your achievement but “we”, and ‘we’ will replace ‘me’ since he or she has become part of your life. In true love, that’s how it works, though you will need your personal space to grow at the same time you need your partner to grow together.

These are ten true love signs of a relationship, perhaps you’re in a relationship and you’re not feeling these, don’t worry, it is possible that your level of relationship hasn’t grown to reach that state of true love, it develops over time as you move on in your relationship toward emotional maturity that surpasses physical attraction or the stage of infatuation. If you find this post helpful, please like our Facebook fan page below

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  1. This publication has actually answered some of my questions regarding how I can know it is true love. I believe it’s going to help me deal with that issue and to recognise if he truly loves me. Thanks a lot.

  2. dia was a gal……. I luv so very much….. all she does is to hurt me every minute of the day……I keep on enduring it….. till she slept with my friend……I have no other choice than to ask her to leave my house nva to come back again………… but I still love her so much……. Pls what should I do?

    1. Save your heart ache now and allow all thought about her to be completely off you. If according to what you write here about how she treated you, then she’s not the right woman for you, let her go and look for another woman who will not be hurting you.

      If a girl should sleep your friend, then she’s not worthy to be call your woman and that your friend too is not worthy to be called your friend, both of them are your enemy. Just do away with them now and find another person, once you’re able to find new woman, the old woman’s feeling will soon left you and you’ll be free from the hurt she’s always bring you.

  3. i have a girlfriend and we both in love each other but people dont like us to continue our relationshpi since weve both very complicated persons . we have been trying to break it off our relationship but its seems we will die soon . what shall we do to stop this feeling without feelin pain…

    1. Both of you need to sit down and be honest with yourself, if it is right for both of you to go separate ways or not, you can’t base the judgment on what people say, you know yourself better and you’re in the position to determine if the relationship is going to work out for both you.

      If you agree to part ways, then go ahead and stop seeing each other, yes the feeling may not be good initially but overtime, everything will be alright. It is better to experience the awkward feelings now than regretting to make the decision now.

      Nobody has ever die for going separate way which come from the heart of both partner. You won’t die and if you can’t cope with it, you’d better stay together because people’s opinion does not matter if you really love each other.

  4. Am a shy guy bt i love one gal bt i dont knw hw to tell her nd am also her friend bt am feelin shy to tell her nd i dont want lose her,pls help me out

    1. Face your fear and tell her what you feel about her, she can’t beat you, just be bold and approach her with confidence, it is very possible that, the way you’re feeling nervous withing you, she will also feel nervous when you want to approach her too. There’s nothing to lose but rather many to gain. Just face your fear and be man enough to face her.

  5. I have been dating this lady for two years now.
    In the beginning, we are more than lovers…
    We joke, we share ideas and even plans for our future.
    After four month, she told me to hold onto our good old day until
    We appear before the alter which I complies till now.
    After one years of studying her, I required her to take me to the parents, guess what she said; “she don’t have any responsible family member, that she will take the bride price of herself. Which I know is a lies and insult to my demand.
    I got furious by hearing this but didn’t react to it… Another six month later I again approach her of her mind about the relationship and she got angry and said “what ever you have in mind just tell me and stops pretends” this time I became mad at her and asked what she is doing with me. She then said she is not ready for marriage…
    She loss her mother four years ago, being deprived as well. Considering all this, I always tried not to hurt her under no circumstances…
    During our argument over this issue I secretly discovered she had a child hidden from me at her village…
    A week ago I travel to that area and tempt to confirm it but she was communicated and the child being between seven years was hidden and I couldn’t see her. I later came back and she got angry over the issue and denying to the mother of the child which the acting mothe and her ex in-laws have already confirm.
    I really don’t want to hurt her cus she has no where to go but she have been avoiding and hurting me for two years now. What do I do now?

    1. If you’re sure of what you’re saying, it is time to let her go if she cannot tell you her situation. A relationship or marriage on false pretense is never going to last because, there will be lots of trouble in the marriage.
      I will beg you no to marry anyone out of pity. For that fact that she lost her mother does not make her to be the best woman for you. Before you know her, has been living her life even with other men possible and if you leave today, she will meet another man tomorrow.

      Stop giving yourself headache and tell her you want to quit the relationship if she cannot open up to you.
      That’s my advice for you about this issue.

  6. The problem i have with my lover girl is that any time i tell her about how much i love her and would like to spend the rest of my life with her as my wife and the mother of our kids,she will start up by saying that her mom may not let us been togther as lovers because she wants her to marry a rich man and am scared if her mom may decide for her whom to marry for it sees she cant make her own decision when her mom is still there, pls how can i do

  7. i lov my woman very much, but she hurt me with no reasing. on sallah day she sleep with my friend in my house on top my bed, but yet i did’t even talk anything to both of them. pls what is my solution to dis problem?
    I’m hurt with that and i love her still

    1. You better let her go. Such girl is no good for you. I can tell you, she will do it again and in other for you not to give yourself heart attach, just let her go.

  8. I have a girlfriend that i love so much, i told her about my felling,she agreed to be my girlfriend after a month i confirmed that she is inlove with my friend what shall i do

  9. Pls I think that my gf is cheap, the reason is she give her number out to anybody that ask wow, toast, or ask 4 it, I have ask her several time’s that why, She told me that she said nothing that she doesn’t like to be disturb. I’m worried!.

    1. Yes of course, you need to be worried. It shows your girlfriend does not really love you and she’s ready to go with another person that she fancies enough more than you.

      Please let her understand that, you don’t like such attitude and if she feels, you’ve done something that got her annoyed in the past, she should let you know and you need to apologize to her so that she can stop the nonsense act.

  10. please i need your advice i date my boyfriend for good six years and he request for sex and i seed he should wait for me till i married him and he sed it is not possible for him to wait for me till that time please can i divorce him.

    1. There’s no need for divorce since you’re not married to him.

      Dating someone for good six years is enough for the person to know to some extent the kind of person he/she is, I think your guy is getting it wrong, since you started it as sexless relationship, he should try and keep to it.

      If you can cope with his pressure, ask him to give you a break.

      If you give in know, you should know that, you have started another race with him, he will continue to demand for it because it is sweeter and your ability to restrict him is lower. You will lost the power of that resistant that keeps you from having sex with him in the past six years you’ve been together.

  11. i Don’t know how to talk to a girl at the first time it scared me, please help me and give me some romantic word that i can use for it

    please help me

    1. The best advice I can give you is to face your fear.
      I tell you, after talking to girls like 3 or 5, you will regain confidence and be able to fine-tune your approach without entertaining any form of fear.

      That the best advice.

  12. Goodevening sir,I have a friend that I meet 6yrs ago but we never see each other again but we talk on he ask me to visit him and that he want to marry me.please should I go.thank u

    1. Are you guys dating even if it is a long distance kind of dating?

      If not, how long did you get to know him before both of did not see again except talking on phone?

      If there is no much knowing of one another, I will advice you not to go.
      Let him come visit you first and then you can find things out with him, to know
      what his intentions is really about.

        1. If you saw once, then you need to tell him to come visit you first, otherwise, I won’t advise you to see him first.
          6 years is a long time, so much would have happened within that period.

  13. I have a guy in my chuch I love so much and I find it difficult to talk with him and each time we are aside or alone he we quickly smile with me but when we are in d church he Bon me

    1. You can initial talk with him, it shows that, he’s interested in you too, that’s why he smile at you.
      He may be shy to initiate talk with you, just find common thing and open him up with something common to both of you that you can really talk about.

  14. Am a girl of 20 nd i find it so hard 2 feel 4 a guy bt d kep on disturbn nd proposn 2 me whch am nt ready nw cos i want 2 furda my edu bt my prblm nw is my feelns is nt steady,it cms nd goes lik a breeze nd my family dnt lik seeing me wit guys so pls wat can i do 2 build it up 4 my own gud.

    1. I think, it’s a good thing if you love to further your education and not thinking much about your feelings for the guys. Don’t bother about the feeling for now. You can just play with them but let it get over your head, it will derail your ambition.

  15. I have a someone I share my dreams with and I feel something for him and I haven’t said anything. He too, also tells me that he wants to marry me jokingly, but has never seriously said it and I haven’t taking any of those words but I feel his affections and he’s concern for me, but the problem here is he has never admitted those feelings to me seriously and he feels jealous when I chat with other guys and I want to know if he feels this same way I feel.

    said it very bold and if he sees me talking to other guys he gets jealous and he always wants to know my where about. Even when he says I love you, he jokingly says it and I laugh at it so what I want know is if he truly loves me

    1. He’s afraid of commitment, let him understand you really want to know his position, you can’t afford to waste time with any man who you’e not sure, he’s actually there for you.

      When a guy don’t show that he cares, don’t actually let the feeling be true, then you need to know, he’s not there for you, you might just be his part-time lover.

      Any time he tells you he loves you, tell him, he does not love you that he’s only pretending and when you meet any good guy that’ll prove the love to you, then you’re gone.

  16. Gud day sir, i hve been dating a girl for so long, i call nd text her everyday bt she never call me unless i call her hw can i knows that she love me too

  17. Adeyemi Matthew

    Pls sir i ave a gf that we both luv eachother but a friend of mine said he is dating with her and i ask her is she dating with my friend she said no and ask her that did she luv me she said yes and she swear that she will nv leave me wat should i do

  18. Pls sir I hv a bf that love me more then I do not know, when ever he want to express is feels for me I always ignore him ad he promised never to live me wat should I do I need ur advice pls sir

    1. Show him you love him too.

      How else do you want me to help you.

      Since you know he loves you, then you’ve got to show him love and give him your attention.

  19. Gud day sir, I av a bf that we both love each other but d truth of d matter is that he don’t open up to me ,this is going to three years of relationship. Would this lead to marriage am confuse cux I so much in love with him and he has gone to see my parent that he want to marry me. What do I do sir

    1. If you can pull up with him for 3yrs with secretive attitude and you can no longer tolerate it anymore, I think the best thing for you to end the relationship and stop wasting time with person that’s not ready to be opened to you in the relationship.

      It mean, when both of you get married, you will remain in the dark for many years of your marriage concerning what’s going on in the marriage.


      Is it that you’re the type that don’t keep secret?

      This is another reason why a guy might decide to be secretive and be waiting for when you’ll change.

    1. It all depend on you and your partner.

      There’s no wrong answer in both of them.

      Your choice determine which is wrong or write

  20. Hello author
    Thanks for all your advice and this article has already thought me all i need to know but my question is like this, ”i have dated her for 4 years now and she neither cheat or flirt but all she does is being stuborn and wants her words to be final, yet i can’t let her go even if she’s at fault I’ll always say I’m sorry, that’s one sentence she won’t say easily, i can’t live a long without her by my side so i want to know weather this is part of true love. Thanks

  21. I hv dis grl dat we both love each other for d pass 3yrs, bt nw things r nt like b4, bt she jst txt me dat hr hrt doest nt belong to me bt i still beg hr never to go away from me bcoz of d lov i hv for hr is natural n true n she finally accepted, but still things r nt lk b4. Nw my question is dis, hw am i going to dat she still truely lv me?

  22. Good day sir, I have a gf and we’ve been dating for a year now. We had serious issues and hurt feelings in the first 9months and she complained that I don’t care and we both used to give each other a lot of attitude and show of ego. We still moved on and in the last 2 months we got extremely close with a lot of understanding. We talk everyday and of recent she sent a voice note that she loves me and I told her that we should take things gently but I like really her and we both know. I am 20 and she is 19. We hope to end up together in marriage. But I am beginning to think that I am scared of commitment because I did not respond that I love her back. Pls am I? We consciously have never been physically intimate before, not even a hug or a kiss.

  23. I have a girl that love me so much over year and now and she start mishavinglove me my friend in the name of bestie what should I do now

    1. Hey Izu,

      Can you clarify what you mean by “she start mishavinglove me my friend in the name of bestie
      Once I understand what you mean, I’ll be able to respond appropriately.


  24. Daniella(a k a) crazy angle

    Type here..i don’t asually believe in true love buh all i knw is dat love and support in a relationship gives ur the strength to push and move further no matter wats happens at dat point of the relationship.whether good or bad time of our lives

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