How to Attract a Girl You Really Want to Marry

How to Attract a Girl You Want to Marry

I have come across many young guys in a forum asking the question of how to attract a girl, what many of them are really talking about, is not the proper way to attract a girl you want to date and even go further and marry. The point that they all agree on in their discussion was to use pick up lines to attract a girl in which I proved them otherwise.

How to Attract a GirlThose days have long gone where you see a girl and use pick up lines to woo her and she smile back at you, ready to start conversation with you. Girls are wise up now and if you try to use pick up lines, they easily noticed and consider you not good enough for the their attention.

In the modern day of how to attract a girl that you really want to marry, the stake is higher than what it were used to be. And except you too take it further, you’ll hardly see any girls that fall to your oldies tricks, not even the one you just want to flirt with, let alone the girl you want to marry.

So, how to attract a girl you want to marry in this age and time, remember don’t try it with pick up lines. Below are what you just need to do and in no time you will get her attracted to you, from there you can start to build the solid relationship which will be culminated in marriage. [Read: How to win a girl with persistence]

1. In your approach, talk confidently and never you stutter, you know what I mean. A confident guy will always get any girls attention.

2. Have a good look with your smile; don’t force the smile, just be natural with it. It is easier to determine if your smile is genuine or otherwise.

3. Simply be presentable with your dressing; girls love guys they can be proud of and talk about among their peers. Dress nice and you will see them noticing your movement because they take a great look at guys dressing.

4. Ensure you smell nice; be identified with certain kind of scent. Get some perfume and apply it lightly, don’t overdo it so that you won’t piss her off. Take daily shower, brush your teeth and wear deodorant. She will remember you with your scent even when you’ve long gone. [Read; Women trait that mostly attract men]

5. Listen to her and use her words to keep the conversation going; it is natural for human to talk to people who listen to us. This will make her develops more interest in you and keep the talk going as long as it could.

6. You need to be fun around her, tease her, and be flirting, have a good time with her and remember you’re the man, so you have to be in charge.

7. Act natural and don’t fake yourself; girls don’t like guys that are not themselves and trying to be someone else. It a total pissed-off to them

Other vital tips for how to attract a girl you will possibly get married to include:

  • Don’t dictate the conversation alone, give her respect in conversation
  • Don’t play with your phone, text or dial number when talking to a girl, always look into her eyes
  • Ask her open ended questions, the kind of question that yes or no cannot be an answer. [Read; Flirting question to ask any girl and turn her on]
  • Don’t try to show off in her front
  • Ensure you look deep into her eyes but not with much intensity.
  • Don’t try to make any physical contact at this stage unless you’re too sure she’s going to accept, it can scare her off.
  • Don’t make your first move too soon.

With these approaches and tips, the questions of how to attract a girl you want to marry have been answered. Use the tips and the ideas above to show that you’re not in the oldies anymore and the game has really changed. You’re up to the task.

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9 thoughts on “How to Attract a Girl You Really Want to Marry”

  1. There’s this lady whom i really love dearly, though she’s older than me (some months older than me) though i don’t believe on age in love, i love her, each time i speak with her and i look into her eyes i feel not being my self. But the problem is how can i woo her and how do i make it known to her.

    1. Hi Erica, is like you’re closer to her already, that’s why you’re able to know her age. That closeness should give you a leeway in situation like this, be bold and move towards her and let her know how you feel about her. Don’t try to cram any kind of opener with her, it will not look real but just be natural about it and take it like play but with confident and tell her. You maybe surprise, if she too is nursing such feelings about you. Go ahead and be the real guy. I wish you good luck buddy!

  2. Thanks man. I’ll try to consider these while talking to her. I’ll be talking to her after 5 long years. Wish me luck.

  3. There is a lady I met,and she drawn my attention.I feel she is the type of woman I want to live with but she is too strict that she can’t let someone hangout to discuss with her.she want me to say whatever I want to say at her office.should I go on with her request?

    1. ….but how much, can you say in her office.

      Office shouldn’t be where you both should be discussing serious issues like this, except if she’s not doing anything in that office.

      Let her know that, she needs to learn to hang-out, no matter what.

      I guess, she’s not strict but somehow shy. If you really like her, you can educate her more, on the important of taking your talk outside her office.
      Don’t you too have what you’re doing?
      You can’t be going to her office during productive hours.

  4. there is a girl i want to married but i don’t know what am i going to tell her since last month i have been seen her, please advice me what can I tell her.

  5. I v dis girl that I want to marry Bt she told me earlier in our conversation that she has a boyfrnd ,so Hw do make her love me mor and to Mk her want to end up with me

    1. It’s a difficult situation, to woo a girl, who already has a boyfriend.

      I won’t advice you to even do that, go look for another girl.

      There are several of them out there.

      I’m sure, you will not be happy to see some other guys wooing your girlfriend as well.

  6. I have my girlfriend 2gether with in the university, I am seeing her now a day of being not serious like before and I luv her so much n also she luv me according to her, my question is what can I do to bring her luv back to me just like when we begun our luv?

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