Talking to a strange girl could be tense or tension soak at times because she is someone you’ve never met before and you can’t be comfortable around her if you don’t know some clues on how to talk to a girl you never met before and impress her. 
It is not something that cannot be done by anyone but it requires you to learn a few things that will make you look comfortable and be a smooth talker.
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Ways to talk to a girl You Never Met Before and impress her
There is a difference between talking to a girl someone introduces to you and talking to girl totally strange to you with no introduction from anyone.
The formal is much easier because the first brick has already been cracked down for you but the latter requires you to crack down the brick by yourself which will put you in a tense position if you’re not a master of the act. If the girls are in a group, this is how to approach them and win them over
How do you talk to a girl you’ve never met before and impress her to win her over? The following suggested ideas have been very effective in talking to girls not known before that present time.
1. She needs to know you’re interested:
Walking up to a lady and start talking without her having a hint of your approach can’t walk in most situations. You may have watched that in the movie happening but in real life is not going to happen that way.
A girl needs to know that you’re interested in her so that she can assess you. Bumping on her will make her remember what her mother told her about guys to be on the defensive and that’s exactly what she is going to do if you don’t let her know you’re interested in her.
2. Staring Game should come in:
When the girl is aware of your presence, it is time to play the staring game, staring at her now and then to arouse her curiosity, if she glances at you back smiling to herself, then you’re good to go but if she stares at you back with a dirty kind of looks, there is no point approaching her because most often such scenario ends up in disaster, just avoid her, simple.
3. It’s Advisable not to use a pick-up line but make use of pick-up circumstances:
Pick-up lines will fail you in how to talk to a girl you never met before and impress her, though pickup lines are smart and cocky but not in this kind of scene. Use picks up circumstances in case of the pick-up line.
What I mean by pick-up circumstances is that looking at the situation around her or the place where you find her, just look for something that is relevant to that surrounding and say it from the blue.
For instance, maybe she is an usher in the church, you can use her role as the circumstance, ask her how she manages to play such a role well without annoying the other members of the church and standing for such a long hours.
She will feel so much interested because you’ve been able to relate your talk with the situation around her.
4. Ask her vague question to open her for your introduction:
Vague questions are the types of questions that make girls wonder for few seconds but still respond to your question. When she responds, you’re both in a talking mood.
She could have just answered you and looked away elsewhere but you just have to keep the conversation going by introducing yourself to her or asking more questions before the introduction, what is more important here is to make it lively and exciting.
Be frank, tell her you have a confession to make, that you’ve been waiting to meet her for a long time or all evening.
She obviously knows you’ve been staring at her, so why pretend like you’re picking her up? Telling her the truth may flatter her instead of making her feel like she’s being picked up.
5. Smile often and limit your time:
Making her comfortable should be one of your goals because that is when she will be happy to talk with you for long. How do you do that? Just ensure you smile a lot when conversing with excitement.
She will be willing to let the talk flow and you can use the opportunity to flirt with her while making it humorous.
Don’t forget that she has her time and there is something that brought her into such places, don’t try to use your own to waste her time away, when you talk too much she gets annoyed when she remembers that she’s there for some reasons.
You have to limit your time and let her do what she wanted to do before your appearance. One of the best ways to avoid getting her annoy is to ask her if she has to go somewhere and flatter her at the same time.
Saying something like “I’d really love to stay here and talk with you for a while. Would that be alright with you?” Try it, you’ll see the difference.
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I have a friend(a guy) who has a friend(a girl) I don’t really know but really like and i want to be able to get her to like me and kiss me. I need to know how to get her to notice me for me. I think I would like her to be my first kiss.What do i do
ps; I’m 15 she is 15
there’s this girl that I love, but I don’t know how to chat her on whatsapp for her to believe that I’m for real and her brother is also my friend too he knows that I love her sister… please tell me how to chat with her on whatsapp so that she will believe that I’m for real…
Please, there is this girl I admire I got her number from a friend of mine but we stay distance away from each other in term of destination but I like her and want to date her but the distance and being the fact I haven’t seen her before and talking to her on whatsapp makes things difficult please how can I go about that.
I need ur help I have never met this girl and I like her and I want to talk to her
Hello Mr Toni, ther is this girl I have a crush on which I met in d church am just attending, she is in d choir department, and I always find myself staring at her. Please can u tell me how I can go about getting her interested in me
Please reply soon sir cos I don’t know if dis page is still working
There is a girl I like and I don’t know how to talk to her, she is my friend and also my junior in school. Her brother also is my friend and he is my mate in school, he knows about my like for her sister which he do not like at all. Please how can I talk to this and make her my girlfriend which her brother is not going to know about.
Really then relax and approach her
i met a girl on facebook,and ask her 4 friendship and she agree but i don’t believe she love me.so hw can i knw she realy love me? i need ur hp pls
Ephraimmmmmmm
Just calm down, since you’ve never met before, it gonna take some times before real love develop.
The outcome will determine how well you go with her with your personality.
By the way, how did you come to conclusion she does not love you?
Just take your time to develop your friendship with her, and in that process, everything will be glaring to you, whether to take it further or to just leave it at the friendship level.
Pls i have a girl, we are friend, and am studying computer engineer, and the girl is my boss girlfriend,but their dating is not dat sound, the girl have not say yes for my boss, bt my boss is forcing her,and the girl like to be play with me, she alway call me to come and play with her in her shop,and i also like the girl, pls how can i do it?
How can you do it?
Brother mine, just do it and do away with her.
I mean, let her be, if your boss has eyes there, please take off your eyes, look elsewhere.
Don’t let your boss know about this, it might not end well.
my name is bright and am from bayelsa state, i have issue with talking to a girl. there is girl in my church who always stare at me, but i don’t know how to start a conversation with her, please what can i do, i can only talk to girl that were introduced to me by someone, i need your advice. thank you
Put your fear behind you and face it.
The ground is never going to swallow you for talking to any girl.
Since she’s a member of your church, that even make it easier than you may be thinking.
Get started with her with things around the church and when you’re comfortable with her, you can now take your talk further and engage her.
Don’t forget to tell her what you feel.
Start from somewhere.
Sir, thanks for your replies so far.
There is this girl that just came into our lodge, she rented it. She looks pretty and and I like her. We talked and still talk but there was some days about two that I didn’t see her, do I collected her number from our WhatsApp group and chatted her up. I also called her and we talked. Now, she is back and I really love this girl to be my girlfriend.
The challenge, I have now is that I want us to talk, I chatted her and told her I want to see her but she said she was tired and sleepy, I called her today but she didn’t answer the call. Could the way I got the number be a problem? Her works start by next month but she is always inside, probably because she is new to the environment. I have considered going to knock her door, but I ain’t comfortable with the idea perhaps she finds me intrusive. I don’t know what to do now. Keep calling? Chatting? Could it be she ain’t interested? Advise me, please.
Hi,
sir i met a girl in my sch that i luv but i don’t know how to approach her because i am shy.
Hey Mojeed,
U understand, it can be difficult for a shy guy to approach a lady, but the truth is, you’ve got to sum up courage and approach her, even if you’ll make some mistakes in the way you go about toasting her.
It is even possible the babe too like you and she’s only waiting for you to just say something and she will not notice any thing you might thought to be a mistake.
Don’t just go straight telling her you love her and you want both of to start relationship and get married, that will be a sign of you being desperate. Engage her, get to know more about her and let her be interested in anything about you.
Sometimes, you can jokingly tell her you want to be her boyfriend and watch her reaction.
You can read my guide – The No Rejection Approach System if you want to move things faster.
But come to think of it, you said, you’re a hunter, use your hunter instinct to get her na. LOl
Heaven will not fall if you approach her, the worst response you can get is, she’s not interested and that will free your mind and enable you to hunt for another lady around.
hi sir,there is this lady that came new to my workplace I like her but the problem is that she always kept mute.she doesn’t talk much to the rest of the workers.
Type here.. am kind of a shy type of person talking to girl is very difficult please I need your help
I hav ma neghbour i love her but i haven’t told her but i told her to visit me and she told me that she is coming but she didn’t and the following day i told her the same thing and she told me that she is busy yet i would like her to visit me Wat can i do?
There is a girl in my area I never talk with her. Before but when we were Young we do talk but now I want to start conversation between us but I don’t know if the wil snub me
Please I’m 18yrs and I have fall in love with someone..whenever I try to tell her,I feel shy because I don’t have the bold to tell a girl and also I haven’t tell a girl that I like her before.Please help me to do this
Hey Isaac,
Thanks for your comment.
The truth is, nobody will help you to talk to the girl you fall in love with.
Just take the bold step, she’s never going to slap and it will never make you feel less of a man.
If you can talk to her or have a chat with her, just tell her casually that you love her and continue with your gist with her. You’ll observe nothing’s going to happen thereafter.
Some girl can even tell you to repeat what you have just said again, ask such a girl that, is it a crime to tell somebody that you love her? This kind of response will shift away the supposed pressure on you onto her.
Just take the bold step and by the time you do it like 4 to 5 times with different girls, you’ll be bold going forward.
I hope this help.