Girls Don’t Ever Say These 9 Things to Your Guys
As much as your boyfriend loves nearly every word that comes out of your mouth, there are some certain words you should never say to your guy. We know that guys will appreciate or accommodate most of your words as lady and can often twist them over but some words are really heavy in their heart, they can’t afford to hear such word from your mouth no matter what kind of play of joke you may want to call it.
You may not think much about the statement you’ve made to your boyfriends, but to him, it’s like a death blow to his heart. It is necessary for you to avoid these words if you want to really enjoy the best of your guy. [Must Read: How to appear not to be needy before guy]
What this mean is that you shouldn’t be worry for having a conversation with your boyfriend. Guys are less easily offended, unless you make him feel less like a man. If there’s anything that bothers a guy, it’s realizing that the girl he loves thinks he is not man enough.
Girls Don’t Ever Says These 9 Things to Your Guys; and what are they? Read on:
1. Don’t tell your boyfriend that he’s so immature
If you make statement like this, it means you are playing with your guy ego and you know guys generally don’t like anybody playing with their ego. Immediately you say he is immature, he will change from a happy guy you use to know to a sober guy that look like someone walking into the grave, and that is the beginning of the end of your relationship with him because the statement will keep ringing in his head.
2. Don’t tell your boyfriend that his friend is so charming
You may be chewing more than you can bite here, your guy will think you are beginning to look outside of your relationship with him and you may cheat on him. If you can find his friend so charming, then, something is already reading in your mind which your boyfriend consider too bad for the relationship. [Must Read: Top 3 Beauty Mistake that Turn off Guys]
3. Don’t tell your guy that he is so insecure
Your boyfriend may feel insecure often, especially when you’re a sexy girl who gets a lot of attention all the time. But he wouldn’t want to hear that line out loud, most importantly from you. It makes him feel helpless and feeble. And if you ever say this line in the center of an argument, he’s definitely going to get really mad with you and himself.
4. Don’t your guy that your ex do this things, why can’t he do the thing
Statement like this mean that, you’re igniting the fire of hatred in heart of your boyfriend, if can still be remembering your ex and voice statement to show that in his front, definitely, your mind is still with him and you don’t consider him good enough for your relationship. You will notice a sharp opposite in his behaviour because of the power of the statement you just made. Put yourself too in his shoe, can you accept such words from your guy? If your answer is no, then, never you say it to your boyfriend. [Must Read: 12 Sure Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love You]
5. Don’t turn down his offer for assistance in a statement like this “No don’t, I will do it by myself”
With this kind of statement, you’ve made him feel like, he’s not capable of doing thing that impress you in the relationship. Guys generally love to be in control of situation in relationship and they love it by giving you advice here and there and also helping you to carry your bags, load, fix your window, door and those things guys like to do, turning him down from what he enjoy doing is a very strong statement with negative impact in his mind.
6. Don’t make the mistake and tells your guy that you’ve dated better guys
This is a low blow of the worst kind. Of all the things girls should never say to guys, this is one that will definitely end up ruining the relationship forever. It’s almost like a one way street to the end of the relationship with no place to turn back.
If you tell him he’s not good in bed or that he doesn’t turn you on, he may end up walking out of your life. After all, he’s humiliated, bitter and he’s going to remember those words every time he gets into bed with you.
7. You shouldn’t be telling your boyfriend that, why shouldn’t he accept that he is a failure
How on earth will you say that to your man, it is a statement that shows you’re already looking somewhere outside of your relationship with him or possibly you just want to make statement that will break up your relationship with him so that you can move to another relationship. Guys are pretty competitive when it comes to succeeding, especially when it comes to work or earning more money. If your boyfriend’s trying something new and you see him failing miserably, don’t tell him that straight to his face.
8. Don’t say this, “What a hell is wrong with you, you idiot”
Yelling at your boyfriend or pulling him down in front of his friend and family, means you’re entering war zone with him and never in friend zone anymore, he will surely get back at you no matter how you try to pacify the statement. You’ve already humiliated him and what you should be expecting is much humiliation from him to you soon. As soon as such statement is made, he will distance himself from you and plotting ways to get even with you in a place where you will least expect it.
9. Don’t ask your boyfriend to introduce you to any guy
Whether the person is his friends of not, you should not ask him to introduce you to the guy, if he desire it to introduce you to anybody, he will do that, it’s in his discretion to introduce you to anybody he like, and again he know them more than you can think about them. If the guy(s) worth your introduction, he will definitely do that. It is a dangerous ground to trek, it will mean to him that, you want to flirt with another guy which is a total humiliation to your boyfriend and he will surely walk away insulted and infuriated.