Sure Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love You

Sure Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love You

Relationship love at times can be confusing when you get to a certain stage of your love life, you will begin to wonder if the relationship you’re into really worth it. You will come to think of it that does this guy really mean this love and question like this will want to help you to know where exactly you’re standing in his life.

There are signs that show if your boyfriends truly love you and these signs are all you need to know to really access the kind of love he’s showing you.

Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love YouWhen you first get into relationship, issues like this, don’t even come to your mind really but as time goes on, even if it is infatuation kind love, it get faded away before seems to be true love can set in.

But you need to be sure of your position in his life, you wouldn’t want to waste your life and time with someone who doesn’t have a future with you. The earlier you know these sure signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you the better if can be for you.

Feeling insecure sometimes is a part of experiencing love, it’s normal and at times all of us feel it now and then. But what matters is what your lover does to reassure you, and make you feel more loved that will build your confident level toward your relationship.

Signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you

Take a look at these signs that show if your boyfriend truly love you and make your decision on where exactly is your position in his life and this will help you to get more focus as to concentrate on the love or move on to secure a better relationship that has something positive to offer you.

1. Communication

If your guy really love you, he will want to communicate with you at every point in time no matter what. He will talk more often to you than any other person in his life, even his friends will receive much less communication than he talks to you.

2. He gets captivated by you

Have you ever caught him in the act staring at you when you’re busy doing something else? It’s a sure sign that he really love you and he want to get more of you and can’t wait till you’re free.

3. He can goes all the way for you

if a man truly love you, he can do all things for you to make you happy at all time even if it’s something he does not enjoy doing ordinarily. He can even go all the way with you to the market and help you in your shopping.

4. Together time matters to him

A guy will go all the way to look for how he can spend more time with you than any other person in his life, spending time with his best friends or family will surely take a back seat and the time he’ll be spending with you will take the front seat.

5. The impression Continue

The impression he gave you that won you over will not stop after you’ve become his girlfriend, he will continue to make it happen again and again and even extend it to your family members as well.

6.  He Love hugging you

He will hug you for no reason at all and hold you more than a few second thanking you for being part of his life though he may not open his mouth to say this but right there in his mind is making the statement.

8. Your thoughts always on his mind

He can’t stop thinking of you always because he has you as top priority in his life. For you to know this, call on his attention at times when you know he will be busy doing something elsewhere to come assist you in sorting something out, he will go all the way to come around and help you out.

9. He flaunts you

Because he love you, he can talk about in front of any damsel that he knew before and make you proud because he is sure of his love for you, something guys who don’t really love you cannot do.

10. He let out his secrets

He will share with you the secret he has never share with anyone before, the secret that he’s afraid of telling his friends so that he will not be mocked. He will be opened to let you know those secrets because he trust and love you.

11. He’s not judgmental

He will not scold you even if you’ve done something wrong, he will just let you understand in a friendly manner what you have done and at times he may even try to pull your leg but is just to make fun of it.

12. He’s changed his world

If a guy truly loves you, he won’t mind changing his lifestyle all because of you, he can miss a crucial game of football that even you yourself know very well that he love. He can as well miss a movie he wants to watch and put you first to attend to your need before his.

Now I believe, you have no further doubt about the love he has for you when you see these signs that show if your boyfriend truly loves you.

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422 thoughts on “Sure Signs that Show if Your Boyfriend Truly Love You”

  1. My ex as i see him loves me so much but i don’t love him tho he still thinks we’re dating i’ve made it clear to him that i don’t love him any more but tends not to realise that, he has all these 12 characteristics and more pls what do i do cause i love some one else, i need your advice please???

  2. Hi, am Merit, am 18. I’ve been in a relationship with this guy 7 months now, though he has almost all the characters listed above, he’s caring but he easily get angry. When we newly knew each other, he calls and text me everyday, but now it seems things has being changing. Though we stay far from each other, and we hardly see each other. We met online, and since we’ve being dating, we only saw each other twice. But there is something i want to understand, most times when he’s online, he hardly reply my chat, and am worried. Also, there is this girl that always comment romantic words on his post, and he also add this same girl to his story sometimes. I want to know, do he really love me or he’s just pretending. Cus each time i ask him if he truly love me or he is just pretending and if he is cheating on me, most times he gets angry. And i really love him. Do he love me.

    1. Hi Merit,
      I understand how you’re feeling and it’s normal to feel that way.
      You see, sometimes guys are like that, especially at the youthful age in their twenties.

      Let me ask you this question.

      Has he ever added you to his story on Facebook?

      If no, but he’s done that with other guy and not hiding it.

      My assumption is that, he is not really into you as much as you’re into him.

      You can ask him the question of if he’s in love with as often as you like but don’t ask him if he’s pretending as if he really loves you.
      I can see from your narration that, he get angry easily when you ask him the obvious question (cheating on you and pretension).

      My take is, don’t give him everything, reserve the precious, don’t be too emotionally attached to him. Just as he met you online, he actually met other ladies too online and all I can say is that, he has not made up his mind yet, he just want to test around.

      Devote your emotional energy to something that gives you joy and if you met another person, that you like, don’t hesitate to give the person a chance too.

      I hope this help.

  3. Good afternoon, I have a boyfriend and we love each other,we start dating last year. Am confuse because we have issue last night and he said that he don’t want our relationship again. But this morning he was the first person to wake me up and start coming me sweet names and asking me about my night. I want to know if he is real or not

    1. Whether he’s real or not I cannot categorically say for now, but I can say is that, he still loves you.

      When temper is high, lots of thing can be said, which actually are not coming deep down from the heart.

      You both had issue last night and this morning all is well again.
      Even in marriage, everything cannot go on smoothly.
      At some point, there will be disagreement and later it will be settled and the love will ever remain as solid as ever.

      So, focus on working together to get your dating and relationship going.


  4. Hi am mirah
    I have dis boyfriend we ave been dating for 3yrs nw… I love him he loves me but d problem is he ask for sex anytime we are together, tho am always complaining is too much… But is nt every time we are together… So any time I refused he will start begging for it and later got angry.. so now he told dat anytime I refused he gets stomach upset, kinda funny… So I don’t knw if dat is actually possible to get stomach upset cos I refused him… And also i don’t knw if he’s attracted to me or is jst lust he has for me after all dis years.. Help pls

    1. Mirah, stomach upset has nothing to do with refusing him sex.

      It’s just a pretense to coaxes you into giving in and let him have his way.

      Having sex with a guy every time you’re together is not a guarantee that he’s truly in love with you.

      This may not be true but in my own opinion, he’s still handing around because of the sex.
      If you can hold yourself, refuse giving him sex for your next 3 visit, the outcome with determine if he’s there for the sex or otherwise.

  5. There is this guy I’m dating
    I feel he is dating me for sex
    Whenever we are in a conversation he always brings sex matters. I feel he is so obsessed with my ass. He doesn’t want to show me to his friends and whenever we are together
    He always finds his way to hug and kiss me and even ask for

  6. There is this guy I’m dating I feel he is dating me for sex and he always bring up sex matters whenever we are in a conversation. He doesn’t want to show me to his friends
    He hasn’t spend any money on me yet. Whenever we are together he always find a way to get intimate with me though I do shove him off
    He is fond of asking not only me but girls around him nudes, twerk videos e.t.c
    Buh he is being honest with me and tells me his secret, he loves having a conversation with me. He calls whenever am offline
    He seems to care about in a bit but also seems to be interested in having sex with me
    So am confused
    I don’t really know if he truly loves me or he only want sex from me

    1. Your guess is as good as mine.

      He’s there for the sex only.

      I’ll advice you to stop dating him if all he cares about most is in having sex with you.

      If a guy is not proud of you, he will not want his friends to know there’s something between you both.

      What he’s indirectly telling you is that, you’re not good enough for him other than sex.

      Start denying him sex whenever he ask for it for at least 3months if you can hold yourself.
      Within this period, watch him closely and you’ll see what you consider as being honest with you, is just a ploy for you to continue staying around for the sex.

  7. Princess Miebaka

    Am in this relationship for more than six months now, whenever am with him I see every reason to believe he loves me, but my doubt is during our chats on the phone he doesn’t say I love u, even on call he hardly says I love u too me,my room mates said he does not love me,bcus most of the time when I tell him I love him his response would be love you too, like am so confused pls what do I do?

    1. Hey Princess, don’t be confused.

      There are some set people that don’t easily tell you “I love you” just for you to believe you’re being loved.
      Some cherish that 3-words and they hardly say it to someone who they are not 100% sure of their love.

      There are certain people too, that are shy away from telling you I love you and they never consider it as anything.

      I understand that women generally love to hear their love ones tell them “I Love You” often and often because it make them feel better and being loved, even if their men saying it are actually not saying it deep down their heart.

      Never follow what your room-mate is telling you in this regard, just ignore her and see how you can tell your guy, you notice he has never said “I Love You” since you’ve started dating.

      Besides, when you tell him I love you and he responded “Love You Too”
      He has actually said “I Love You”

      If you’re not really feeling good about his response, tell him, next time how you want him to respond.
      Maybe something like “I Love You Too”

      Anyway, whether he tells you I love you or not, that will not determine if he actually love you. There are other details you need to pay attention to.
      Build good friendship with him so that you can ask him all sort of questions that will not piss him off and you can use that good rapport to tell him what you like and what you don’t cherish.

      I hope this help you Princess Miebaka.

  8. Hello sir please i need your advice, i meet a man who is in bible College, very soon he will become a pastor, he is married since 2011 without having a child and his wife is older than him, he has been disturbing me that he wants to marry me, since the day i met him i’ve been having several dreams how we got married, leave together happily with our children but am always confused , and am really scared since all my dreams always come to pass but this actual dream is making me to be confused since the man is already married And he has all the character you listed above. He told me all his secret apart from how he married his present wife, which he said: (the secret is personal for now) and has promise not to have sex with me untill we get married. Plz advice me

    1. He will soon becomes a pastor but pastor are not allow to marry two wives.
      Therefore, forget about him and let another per has the opportunity to meet you.

  9. Pls I need advise
    I just dated him not to long ago and I think it making two weeks and this is the first time have ever dated
    Tho the guy is poor financially,I don’t have problem with that
    My problem is that he is not romantic at all, I don’t know Weda he is shy or what
    Every hard b4 he calls me
    Does he love me
    Tho whenever I call him he say he loves me

  10. My girl loves me so much, she support me and help me to stand back when i had nothing, and i promise that i can’t let her go, but since i told her i want to marry her, she never answered me, i have talked to her many times but she never reply till today what should i do? We have been 2geda for 4ys

    1. Hey Dan, there many things you can do but first of all, tell her you have something very important to ask her and you’ll be very happy to hear from her.

      Now get her seated and ask her…
      What exactly she want from the relationship you both have been having for the past 4yrs/

      Her response will determine your next line of action.

      Ensure you’re both seated facing one another, in a happy mood, hold her too hands and never angrily ask her such question.
      Just show your sincerity that you really want to step the relationship further.

      I hope this help you Dan.

  11. Michelle Blessing

    Good morning I have a boyfriend we have been dating for a month he tries to see me everyday because I work close to his house but whenever he’s away he doesn’t call except I call and he’ll always give an excuse that he doesn’t have airtime, but he’s almost always online but he would never chat me up.Am still a virgin but I don’t think he values it
    And he doesn’t want his family members to know about I overheard him telling his cousin that he doesn’t have a girlfriend and lastly he has nude pictures on his phone which he use as wallpaper even on WhatsApp.He even has a girl’s contact saved as my spec and he also saved some girls’ contact with emoji that signifies that there’s more to them like….😘😋😋 I don’t even know what to think about please help me

  12. I met my boyfriend 2years ago….he’s a broke guy and I understand that…so am always sending him money whenever he needs my help…sometimes if I offer to help he will reject it…buh the issue is that when I tell him that babe someone ask me out or I told him anything abt me…or anything that is happening to me he does nt respond to what I say…all he will be saying is that what shld I say and it getting too much of him…if we are chatting am always d one bringing topic…iffa don’t ave anything to say…then the chat will end… So I don’t really know whether he loves me….sometimes he will behave like a sweet guys…sometimes he will behave Like he doesn’t love me….am just so scared…so he won’t leave me for anoda woman.

    1. Dear Omotoyosi,

      From what you’ve narrated here, the evidence that he does not really into you is there.
      Something else is taking much of his time and this can be another woman.

      In my opinion, give him some space and watch from afar, how he behaves.

      If he’s really into you, you can tell from his behaviour when you pretend as if you don’t care anymore.

      If a guy loves you, he will not keep to himself until you bring up something to be discuss.
      He will always has gist for you whether from his place of work, home, church or school.

      The evidence is there anyway, that he care less about you.
      You’re not his priority as at now.


  13. My guy has been avoiding my calls for past a month now, and he claims that he loves me and also tell my mum his true feelings for me, please I am really scared and I don’t know if he was real about the whole thing

  14. I have a bf.He doesn’t show commitment,he is not caring and he only calls at night.He always asked me to come to his house.He never asked about my life and he doesn’t care about his..He hates it whenever I tell him the truth.Tho he is not the one I loved but since he claimed he loved me I tried to developed feelings for him but he is not helping

    1. Hey Lizzy, if all of what you wrote here is true, then, you don’t need to force yourself into such relationship. Move on and make yourself available for another potential boyfriend to find you.

      I hope this help your situation.


  15. Susana oppong

    Hello sir am susana a have a boyfriend and we have been dating fo a month now . actually this guy has been crushing on me the first time he saws me when i was in shs 2 till when i completed shs we having being dating for a month now am really confuse .he told me he already has a girlfriend but he really really likes me although he knows the truth will hurt.And he always has this feeling that whatever i do he gets to know .I even ask him why and he told me it is normal .he ask me not to leave him after finding out he has a girlfriend although is a long distance relationship he hardly sees the girl twice in a year and sometimes once in a year .he is very caring ,he is really open to me , he told me everthing that happend in his past relationship .he also told me every secret of his .and whenever he is horny he always call for me and when am not able to have sex with him he will just allow me to go secof he does not want to disturb me with sex.we have also spend a whole time together before . and he is the shy type to. And he aslo calls me sweet names anytime he sees me and whenever we talk on the phone.he always tells me am beautiful whenever we meet.and he also told me he has no reason for loving sir please i want to be sure if this guy really loves me or just playing with my feelings.

    1. If he really loves you, he has to let his other girlfriend go. He can’t keep both of you in the relationship, there will be serious trouble ahead.
      Tell him, if he truly loves you, he has to choose between both of you as you cannot be sharing the same guy with another person. It is never proper even though people do it, there problem associated with it is much bigger.

  16. Hi
    Am Efia
    My boyfriend has been cheating on me of late but sometimes call when i don’t call him for days
    I sent him message that if he doesnt change his attitude i Will break up with him but he didn’t reply to my message
    And i later called him several sometimes but he didn’t pick my calls and he sent me an angry voice note that why can’t i see that he is doing something while he is not picking my calls and keeps on calling him
    Please i dont understand that statement and why he didn’t answer the message i sent him and does he love me at all?

    1. If this is true, then the love between both of you is already sour and needs urgent attention. You should try your best and have a good discussion about your relationship with him

      If he avoids discussing it with you, then, he didn’t love you anymore, he’s just there to waste your time if he doesn’t want to end the relationship.
      I hope he listen to you when you call for the discussion.

      1. Whenever i disscus it with him, he tells me he has been busy nowadays that’s yy he has not been checking up on me n promises to change,he changes for a while and repeat his bad attitude again,we have been dating for a year,he was not like dat but since he got work to do his behaviour changes always because i have heard he is cheating on me with a worker Who works at the restaurant he manages it but doesnt tell me whenever i ask him.whenever he calls he advices me to learn for my upcoming exams because am a student and always sends me when i need money.when i sent him the msg to change else our relationship will be breaking up,he has now changed his behaviour but i know he will repeat it.Am confused whether this guy still loves me or not cos he used to hide me from his friends but he has now stopped big problem is he doesnt check up on me often unless i stops chating or calling him for a while before he calls to ask whether am fine or not.

        1. Your relationship is just a year and he put up this kind of attitude, it’s obvious, he’s not really in love with you anymore. I think his heart is somewhere else and he only comes for you whenever he remembers he has not ended the relationship with you.

          If a guy really loves you, no matter his kind of works, he will surely get in touch with you within 24hrs. When the love is no more there, he tends to forget about you and check on you when he likes.

          Here’s my advice for you Rita, take your mind off him, protect your heart so that it will not get broken unexpected. Just do as if he’s not there for you anymore and be opened for a new relationship.

          1. I still can’t forget him
            Pls help me find my way out from this relationship or i should also cheat?

          2. I’m sure you didn’t wake up one day and completely fall in love with him. It takes time and your love grows day by day for him. So also, it will take time to let him off your mind completely.
            Think about the disgusting things he has done for you that made you angry about him. Things like cheating on you, not showing care anymore, etc

            Can you live with or go ahead and marry a cheating guy?
            Of course no!

            Can you stay in a relationship with no more care as it used to be in the beginning?
            Of course no!

            Go and mingle with other available guys who are out there waiting for you. You don’t have to start dating anyone now, you just need their friendship and in no time, you’ll forget about him.

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