Why Should Men Help In Household Task Without Being Asked
In the time past, household task is majorly on the shoulder of the women in the house and the men only concern themselves with bringing into the house what the women and the children are going eat and live a good life.
In the present days, the household task is just too much for any woman in the house to single-handedly handle. Does that mean the women of the present days are somewhat lazy when compared with the women of yesteryears? I don’t think so but women of nowadays are out competing with men in trying to bring something home to assist the family.
If perhaps this is true, the household task can’t be completely handled with only women, the men need to get their hands dirty here. But how many men actually do really go out there to assist their women in proper housekeeping?
Of course there are men helping out with household duties, but it is just that the percentages are too few. But does that fair enough? If women are contributing, especially in the area of finance, shouldn’t the household task be a shared responsibility?
Well, making a household task a shared responsibility is not going to work out but that does not free men from actively participating in the proper cleaning of the house.
The nature of the kind of works men do outside, to bring in the goodies to help the family live a life worthy of living are sometimes difficult and stressful, that ordinarily, women can’t bother trying out such works that’ll drain their energy and almost render them unable to carry out other household duties necessary when gotten home after the work.
This may justify why many men don’t really help out in household task but it is not enough for men to ignore and abandon everything lying down in the house for the women. Especially if kids are involve, household task becomes burdensome because taking care of the kids alone is never an easy job. Every mother will tell you that, but it still give them fulfilment at the end of it all (the joy of being a mother).
When men help around the house, it strengthened their loving relationship share with the women. It will make your woman sees you as caring, attentive, loving and committed husband. Women is never expecting you to do as much task as they ought to do in taking care of the household chore, but your timely and occasional helping hand will be much appreciated by your women.
You can’t expect your lovely woman to be loving you when you turn blind to the numerous household chore, you must help out to ease the pressure on her. Remember, when you’re domestically attentive to the one and only woman in your life, it goes a very long ways in nurturing that strong feeling of love and connectedness.
Don’t let your woman feel guilty asking for your assistance every time in cleaning up the house. Just do it on your own because it is always right to do it, it won’t turn you to her house-help but rather, a loving, attentive and caring partner who treasure the lovely lady in his life. Treasure your woman, treasure yourself, be a helpful partner at home, and treasure your love.