Love Alone Can’t be Enough For A Successful Relationship
Love play major role in a striving relationship no doubt but love is not enough for every successful relationship.
We think that the toughest thing is finding a person that is compatible with us, love the person and thereafter live happily ever, but the truth is that we cannot be guarantee with just finding love of our life and expecting to live happily thereafter.
Those that are already in relationship know that love over sometimes fade if other thing we are going to mention here are not allow in their relationship.
Don’t get it twisted here, we are not saying love is not important in every relationship but it has to be accompanied by other good attributes like respect for individual because of individual uniqueness, ability to accept changes and effective communication which to us is very much important just as love and host of other great attributes.
1. Support and Trust For Each Other:
This is one of the great ingredient on which love strive, if couple would learn to support and trust one another in their relationship, there will be little differences arising from their being together.
When we are down, we need somebody to stand beside us and support us so that we can be on our fit again. No one will be in the best position to help us stand other than our partner, so support and trust very crucial in all our relationship.
2. Willingness to Accept Changes:
There is no one that can be right at all time, we are not perfect because of the human nature in us, and we can only try to be perfect like our father in heaven. Because of this imperfect nature in us, we should be ready to accept changes whenever we are wrong in our relationship life.
If we are able to accept changes, we will have less battle to combat with. Accepting changes will help us to see things in different dimension and in the proper view. When we do this, we surely see some improvement in our relationship.
3. Effective Communication Skill:
In our previous article, we discussed extensively why effective communication is the most important thing in every relationship. To be factual, no relationship can survive without the ability to communicate effectively in our relationship.
For our relationship to grow properly we cannot really on ready the mind of our partner, we have to communicate and communicate effectively.
Our desire, needs, likes and dislikes are needed to be said and this will enhance a better understanding of each other. To see more highlight on this, see our previous article here on why effective communication is the most important thing in every relationship.
4. Other important attribute for a successful relationship include;
Ability to work together, ability to compromise, showing maturity, and showing when to back off. The open expression of feeling in any relationship is vital to the continued growth of the relationship.
Lovemaking should not be overlooked in a relationship, but it need not be the only ingredient that exists in a relationship either. Lovemaking is the icing on the cake and it gets there by mixing all of the above mentioned ingredients. Good lovemaking starts outside of the bedroom.
If you want to increase the frequency and intensity of your lovemaking, try to increase the frequency and intensity of your communication, willingness to work as a team, sharing of self, being kind and supportive, give space and freedom to explore individual interests.
Beautifully said. I wholeheartedly agree.