There may be times you feel insecure in your relationship. When those times occur, what do you do?
Often times, certain situations or events make one feel like they are losing out in their relationships, what do you do when this happens?
Whenever you feel insecure in your your relationship, it’s best you do the following:
Talk about it:
Sometimes what you feel might not really be what it is. The reasons you may have for feeling insecure in your relationship might not be the real reason so talk about it.
Talking about it will not make you look desperate but only help shed more light on what is happening.
If your assumptions are real it’s only when you talk about it, you will know.
So when next you start feeling insecure in your relationship, talk to your partner about it so that doubts can be cleared.
Study your partner:
There will always be a reason you feel this way so it’s the best time to take a closer look at your partner.
Has he or she done or said anything to make you feel insecure in your relationship?
Is he or she acting strange or different towards you?
I believe you know your partner well enough so find out what is different this time around.
Have self confidence:
People fear a lot and it is fear that makes them lose. Whenever you feel insecure in your relationship, be confident about yourself.
As long as you know within you that you have done nothing wrong, those feelings should disappear.
But if you have done some things wrong then you need to check yourself.
Stop over analyzing things:
When you start feeling insecure in your relationship, it means you have started reading too much meaning to things.
When everything little thing or detail start meaning something to you then you are becoming insecure.
This has to stop because you might just read the wrong meaning to something that could ruin your relationship.
Learn to trust:
I know trusting someone takes a whole lot but learning to trust your partner will ease the insecurity you feel.
One of the reasons people feel insecure in their relationships is the lack of trust eminent.
Stop comparing your relationship with others:
This happens a lot but the truth is that just because you see couples who are dating looking happy, cuddling or holding hands doesn’t mean that their relationship is perfect.
Don’t be deceived as every relationship goes through rough patches.
If you therefore feel insecure in your relationship, try letting go of that feeling because your relationship might even be better than theirs.
Stop judging yourself based on what your eyes can see.
Stop being negative:
Feelings of insecurity come from having negative thoughts and believing that things will always go wrong.
If you live like this, you’ll keep feeling insecure in your relationship and it would be hard to do away with that feeling.
Stop looking for the ideal relationship or partner:
No doubt everyone wants to have the ideal guy or lady to love but don’t go bothering yourself if you do not find one.
You will surely see or notice that your partner does not have one or more qualities you want in them so what will you do? Send them packing?
If you therefore feel insecure in your relationship because your partner does not do what you want or doesn’t make you happy, then you need to decide what you really want.
Do you want to remain single and unhappy while searching for the ideal one or will you work with what you have, make it work and enjoy your life?
I can’t answer that for you as only you can. So when next you feel insecure in your relationship, think about all these and decide if it’s worth it.
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