Have you ever felt like you were bored stiff in your relationship? Do you sometimes feel bored just been with your partner?
Whether you choose to believe it or not, there will be a lot of times you and your partner will feel bored not because you want it to be like that but because things just happen to be that way sometimes.
To make your relationship super interesting, you may need to put in an extra effort to spice things up from time to time. It is only then you will be able to fully enjoy your relationship.
So what steps have you taken to ensure you no longer feel bored in your relationship?
Change the way you do things:
At times you can feel bored with doing the same thing over and over again. How can you have fun by just doing something the same way? Don’t you ever get tired of the status quo?
If you always go to Ikeja City Mall to watch movies, why not try going to other malls. Do you know that some malls have 3D effect while some do not have?
If you are used to just eating out in one restaurant, try other cool restaurants. You will discover that other restaurants or cuisines might have delicacies you haven’t tried before.
If you are used to eating just rice whenever you hang out, try other meals. There’s shrimp, yamarita, salads, Chinese and lots more. If you do not give it a try, you will never know so give your taste buds something new and exciting to relish on.
When was the last time you and your partner played some games? If you play games from time to time, you will not feel bored too often. Playing games is also a way of making the bond between the two of you stronger.
Some games you can engage in are scrabble, monopoly, chess, ludo, Uno, video games and some others. Games never go out of fashion so ensure you both indulge in it regularly.
Have dinner dates:
If you both set time apart to go on dinner dates, it would help reduce feeling bored in your relationship.
If you both have it at the back of your minds that you have a date on a specific day, you would both look forward to that day and cherish that moment when it eventually comes.
It can be twice a month or as you both like it. The bottom line is in making arrangements for such outings.
Give yourselves some alone time:
The reason some couples feel bored sometimes is because they see too much of each other. In as much as always being together makes your relationship stronger, it also has its setbacks.
When you give yourselves some time apart to be alone even if it is for a short time, when you eventually meet again, it would seem as if you have not seen yourselves in months which would be really cool.
This act will not break your relationship, it would rather make you miss each other more and the feeling of boredom will disappear.
Don’t you feel like letting loose sometimes even if it is just for a few minutes? When you feel bored at times, it is good to let loose. Play some nice rocking music and practice some dance steps. You can have some drinks so you feel tipsy a bit and just let go of everything else.
As long as you are both having fun together, you should not feel bored anymore.
It is very possible for two people to feel bored with each other but it also depends on how much you let it get to the two of you.
Feelings of boredom can destroy your relationship if you are not careful so in order not to lose your partner, endeavour to indulge in the tips listed above and I am sure you would enjoy doing them.