Has someone ever loved you so much but you do not feel the same way? How did you react to such behaviour? How did you treat him or her without acting weird or arrogant?
Do you know you should not take some things for granted in situations like this?
When someone loves you, it is very possible to take a lot of things for granted and if you are not careful, you might end up losing out on that kind of love.
I see a lot of people behave anyhow to someone who shows interest in them probably because they do not feel exactly the same way.
Even though you do not love the other person as much as he or she loves you, it is not okay to just treat people the way you like because it can have repercussions.
So if someone loves you, do not take the following things for granted:
The person’s love:
If someone loves you, the best thing you can do is appreciate the person for showing you love. Doing this does not mean that you are leading the person on; it just shows that you are humane.
If you do not see yourself being in a relationship with him or her, you can politely let them know rather than dashing their love against the wall.
The person’s genuineness:
A lot of people who love someone go through life not being able to express that love or let the other person know how they feel.
If someone loves you and is bold enough to admit it to you, you should not take it for granted. So many people wish to have this chance in life and at love but they do not have it.
What if this is the only person that will be so genuine to you in terms of relationship and true love?
Many people miss out on finding their rightful partners if they do not see how real this person is.
The person’s actions:
When someone loves you, he or she can do anything to make you happy and through their actions, you can know if they are real or not.
People tend to take such actions for granted because they know the person that loves them will over look their behaviour and still do more for them.
This should not be so because if he or she gets irritated by you with time, you might just lose him or her for good.
Life is short:
You might think you have all the time in the world to do whatever you want and treat people the way you like but do not forget that life itself is short.
If someone loves you and you do not acknowledge it, know for a fact that time is passing you by. Love is something that grows and nurtures if given the time to. All you might just need to do is to be patient with him or her and allow that love to grow.
Some people end up regretting some things they do such as neglecting an act of love or letting go of someone that showed them love.
What goes around; comes around:
If you think you can treat someone who loves you the way you like then that might just happen to you as well.
This is not why it is good to be nice to people who show affection to you because you do not know who you would meet tomorrow.
Instead of being nasty, arrogant and disrespecting, there are ways of going about things like this if you are not interested.
Just be plain and let them know how you feel.
All of these and more should not be taken for granted when someone loves you. Do not forget the things listed above when next someone shows a slight bit of interest in you because it might be you sometime in the future.
I asked him whom I am to him n he said I am a special friend. Pls what does he mean by that?