Sweet Love text messages, love quotes and Relationship quotes

Sweet love text message, love quotes and relationship quotes

Looking for romantic messages or sweet love text messages that you can send you partner day and night? You can find lots of them in this website, that I can assure you. Check below the inspiring sweet love text messages that are listed here and if you’re not still satisfy with all these, look down in the link below and click any them down there, they will surely lead you to more than you want in a sweet love text messages for your romantic partnersweet love text messages

  1. The fate of love is that it is always too little or too much. Don’t live your life with someone you want to live with; live it with someone you can’t live without.
  2. “I trust you” is a better compliment than “I love you” because you may not always trust the one you love, but believe me, you can always love the person you trust for the rest of your life.
  3. You might find it easy to fall in love with someone, the hard thing is how to keep that someone forever. But that is the challenge of love, fighting, without knowing how to win!
  4. We never know how this closeness has started. We will never know how it would end. But whatever happens, when our closeness is gone, I will never forget how you made me smile once in a while
  5. I had been believing that there is a paradise beyond the skies. But now I realized that heaven is just right here on earth, because what would an angel like you be doing here if heaven is somewhere else?
  6. We are all a little weird and life’s a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.
  7. A great love? It’s when you shed tears and still you care for him, it’s when he ignores you and still you long for him. It’s when he begins to love another and yet you still smile and say I’m happy for you.
  8. If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it.
  9. Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.
  10. In love, very rarely do we win but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself.
  11. There comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that they’d be happier if we let go.
  12. If you really love someone never let go, don’t believe that letting go means that you love best, instead fight for your love, that’s what true love is.
  13. It’s best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that’s available. Best to wait for the one you love than one who is around. Best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.
  14. Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most, and sometimes the friend who takes you into his arms and cries when you cry turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.
  15. Many believe that love is forever, that love never dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts longing. We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled, but love is only a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands, for we may never find the strength to let it go when it decides to leave. We should only embrace its warmth and glow while it lasts and freely open our arms when it’s time to say goodbye.
  16. Don’t tie your heart to a person who has nothing to offer you. You may say you’re in love, you might even say he/she is your soulmate. But is that enough to fill your need for love? Let go. It might hurt for a while, but when you get over it, you’ll find it’s for the better.
  17. You deserve to be happy not in the arms of someone who keeps you waiting, but in the arms of someone who will take you now, love you forever, and leave you never, right?
  18. Never doubt someone’s love for you. If you find some imperfections, let it be. If you survived the pain, the happiness is satisfying. Never find the perfect love, because love without pain is impossible.
  19. 70 million people are having sex right now! 40 million are planning to have sex. 30 million are dreaming of it and one expert is busy reading this message! =)
  20. Love can never be wrong, sometimes, you blame the situation or even the person. But no matter who you blame, if it really wasn’t the will of God, it just wouldn’t be.
  21. If I never met you, I wouldn’t like you. If I didn’t like you, I wouldn’t love you. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you. But I did, I do and I will.
  22. Someone misses you so much, its not your family nor your relatives. Its not even your best friend nor your closest pal. Its just the simple ordinary me, who misses the extraordinary.
  23. You are the reason why I have sleepless nights. You’re the reason why I tend to hold my pillow tight. It’s you that I’m thinking of when I lay down at night. And you’re the reason I can’t sleep without saying goodnight.

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About Anthony

Anthony Adeokun is a full time blogger, Affiliate Marketer, inspirational speaker, and writer. Though studied Biochemistry but love writing and sharing his knowledge on matters of the heart. He also have a special blog at Come Show Love, where he discuss real men’s issues. You can hook him up on Facebook Fan Page, Twitter, Google Plus. You can also Get his daily update.


  1. This is such a fabulous post about love and relationship. It is very much difficult to maintain the relationship with your loved one because you have to become honest and trustful person if you love someone as well as you should give respect in every work of your partner.

  2. Wow, I never heard it said so well! “In love, very rarely do we win but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself.” Thanks for a great post

  3. @Jenny thanks for your comment

    @Digital, you’re welcome

  4. Love the third one it’s cool

  5. This is such a wonderful list of text messages & quotes Anthony. The number 1 & 23 are one of my favorites. Looking forward to more great text messages and quotes for our love ones.


  7. Thanks for sharing! Nice collection

  8. Thanks for sharing this Anthony :) There’s a mix of both sentimental and funny texts here! Love it.

  9. jim franklin says:

    It Is a lovely text.keep it up my brother.


  11. crossfavour says:

    hello bro…yur text messages saved,and made my partners love for me stronger…..thanks

  12. Hello
    I am marzieh
    I love my Cousins
    but he dont love me
    he said me: I like you
    but he do not want marry me
    I do not know what can i do
    he lives In another country
    I really love him
    I wanna stay whit him Lifetime
    please help me


    • Since your cousin don’t want to marry, you just have to let him be. He has his reason why he did not want to marry you, maybe you should ask him what is it why he didn’t want to marry you, and let him know how much love you have for him.
      But if he insist, let him go, you can’t marry him against his wish.

    • Did you ever think that every night before I go to bed, I raise my hands to God with my loneliness and pray, that one day I will have you and your love for me only, I pray to God to release you from all your sorrows, take away all your tensions, give you all my happiness…

  13. thanks may Allmighty God bless u

  14. Karunanidhi says:

    Anthony, awesome line buddy…thank i loved it

  15. Being honest to a situation and being honestly attached to a situation are two different things. If you were honest on your part , never think of results because they may be different. Confine your satisfaction to your role only….

  16. Nice words Mr Anthony. Lv ur quote. D trust part realy inspire me becux thatx wat matter in relationship. Tanx

  17. Mr Anthony am becoming the best reader of your sweet messages and at the same time Iam getting more and more love from my wife due to your love and sweet messages. May the Good good Lord continue to bless you and give you more wisdom to write more and more

  18. Never read a better one that discusses love like this….Never knew such an awesome blog exist. You simply amazing with this writeup. Thanks a bunch Anthony.

  19. oladimeji sherif says:

    xup bro, gud pm. Hw i wish i cn b god talented lyk dis, bt all dsame weldone an keep it up , may god bless ur hand work an u shall never wipe b4 it is been given to u. Lov u bro.

  20. D 15th nd 16th one hit me nd intoxicated me most. Well done bro.

  21. Awesome txt u gat on here. All ur txt are so lovely. Keep it up bro. Tnx.

  22. Hello Anthony, how are you doing hope all is well, pls I need ur help I am a man of two kids, but I have a problem with my wife and she said she is no more interested in our relationship pls advice wat can I do , but I still love are sooo much pls advice.

    • You woman that has already has two kids for your want to get out of your relationship with her. If she cannot stay on in that relationship because of you, she should be able to do that because of her children. If none of it will make her to wait, then there is serious problem underlying your relationship.
      With just this your stamen here, I cannot actually tell you what to do because, there are more fact I may need to know before I may say this is what you need to do to make her stay.
      However, you should first of all look into yourself and see those areas where she does not want or some certain behaviour she cannot cope with, and amend your way. You should have her sit down and discuss the issue together, find out what has gone wrong, why do she want to live the relationship and see how you both can compromise in making everything work out. Remember her of the children as well, I know women don’t joke with their children and that maybe a point where you can calm her down.
      Every issue she raises must be addressed without any reserved. If she is not yielding, you may have to consult marriage counsellor within your locality to help you out of the situation. I pray she stay back

  23. super love this message
    “Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.”


    • Yes, that is very possible and again you will need to let your partner understand this so that there won’t be any fighting because of that. Although it is very difficult to do but I have seen it happening. If you guy could understand it, there will be no problem but if not you will continuously be quarreling as a result of it.

  25. thanks for advise. I believe i’ll testified soon

  26. Fuaada bazz says:

    My girlfriend has decided 2 leave me 4 someone else.what should i do?

  27. steve benson says:

    I love my girl so much tht if I don’t see her I can cope,
    D fear I have if she really me in returned. Why can I do to knw

  28. Captain Goodrich says:

    Thank you a lot, these wonderful message help me build my 15 years relationship back. I owe you much thanks dude

  29. Ibrahim G.Olakunle says:

    Tnks did ur msg contribed positively to my relationship.

  30. hey there anthony i need help i just wanna ask if the guy i love really love me too cause he always asked for sex with me and im thinking he might love me bc he only want to get that on me and be my first…even though i said to him a lots of time that im not ready. do u think hes serious with me?:(

    • Hi Ijalyn,
      Why would he put sex as his priority, any one that does that does not really love and after you give in easily like, he will not have that much love for you anymore. Another thing you should consider is his age, if he older like 28yrs above, then take a look at the situation around him and try to understand his background to enable you know the kind of person he is. Has he ever been in any relationship before, if yes, what went wrong?
      Just get your statement of fact before you give in, else you may not like the end result. Sleeping with you is not a guaranteed that he love you.

  31. Thanks Mr. Anthony its cleared now to me…
    thanks a lot! Have the best on you .. Godbless you had a really nice quotes.

  32. Penny Emmanuel says:

    I love my wife,true love has no end

  33. Mr anthony pls i have a question to ask and is can someone fall in deep love……and yet you cannot date that person you are deeply in love with?

    • Why not Patrick, if you fall in love with anyone, you can date the person except it she doesn’t want or perhaps, she has been taken away or her heart belongs somewhere else.

  34. Renee Boucree says:

    Love you madly passionately babe now and forever

  35. Prince S Ferdinand says:

    thanks a million times to you brother Anthony for your powerful and encouraing messages,,am very very inspired.I Lost My Fiance In November 2013 and i really want her back.what can i do?

    • Hello Ferdinand,
      Thanks for visiting my blog, your kind words will only encourage me to write more. As per your question, I have a post written on this blog where you can get your ex back and also how to know if your ex still want you. Please go here to read the 2 post. Click Here Now!

  36. Nice one

  37. Abdullahhi Aliyu Lilly says:

    At dis point in tym, i jst hv 2 confns dat dis is my 1st tym of comin acros lov tex messages dat tauches d hat nd feelins of person. tnx 4 ur nble effort.

  38. I hav a gf and i want her 2 knw i luv her so much how can i do dat brother. Coz i new true luv wen i met her pls advc me

    • It will show in the way you treat her, the way you communicate with her but you must be very careful here, don’t over trust her that she is the very true love you’re seeking for. If you start to do that now, she may take you for granted, wait until the both of you are truly mature in that relationship.

  39. hello sir,tank God we hav sm1 lyk u on internet…i toast a gal,she 1st told me she has a bf bt i dnt agree wit her i kip tryin on he until she acpt me as he bf,bt sir d gal hav nt shown me any love,if i text her wit grtings n love mesage she wont reply me,and i ask her she told me she love me even she had never cal me b4 am d 1 caling her,can u plz sir tel me what kind of love is dat.08162591674.

    • Hi Tolu,
      Some girls are just like that, the possible reason is that, she is not really into that love she profess for you. You may need to continue to show her that you really love and care for her. But after like 3 months the situation remain the same, just know that her heart belong to somewhere else where she is concentration more of her attention. I’m sorry, you may have to let her go and look for some other girl who will really have your time and show you love as much as you wanted.
      I hope this help you Tolu.

  40. idera oluwa says:

    Nice piece. God bless u.

  41. Favour Maureen says:

    My name is Favour, i am in love with this guy of 27 yrs old and am just 24 yrs old. when we started dating our focus is on marriage but now it turns out different. recently a man of 40 yrs old proposed to me and another 37 yrs old with two kids. right now am really confused. please advise me.
    Regards Favour Maureen

    • Do you mean your boyfriend of 27 do not want to talk about marriage anymore? There are various reasons why he may not be talking about it now, but is he still showing much care and love as it use to be when you guys first started dating? If yes, both of you should sit down and discuss it, there is something somewhere that will make a man not to talk about the future of his relationship with his girlfriend.
      But if he’s not showing much love and he doesn’t feel concern about the relationship anymore, you may just have to find your way out of the relationship, it is possible is heart is somewhere else and not with you anymore.

      I believe a man of 40 is already looking for who to marry and not just boyfriend and girlfriend stuff, you’re comfortable with him and you find him attractive enough to be your husband, you can go for him.

      For the 37yrs old man, with 2 kids, there is nothing wrong marrying someone with kids, but can you live with a man that already has kids and not having problem with his children, he may love you now but if you begin to have problem with his kids, the love might dwindle because he will not want any problem happening to those kids. It is not easy to live with someone with kids if you’re not mentally prepare to live such life, kids especially when they are not yours can create some feelings within you when they seems to be stubborn.
      Just think about it and go for what you believe is right for you.

  42. Kaymonie says:

    1 & 4 are mai favourite, i now know wat to do wit my gf, after readin some issue related to mine. Tanks alot and God bless u more.

  43. I am SULAIMON OLADAPO by name. I have gilfriend that stays in oo state. I am a student of mooshood Abiola Polythecnic,ojere.Abeokuta.ogun state. The girl love me so much than i do. She call me more than i do.she sacrifices more to the relationship. There is still long years ahead of us. Am afraid if i do not reciprocate she might turn her heart away from me. The distance cant allow me to show the care because am afraid i might be loving the wrong person. Other than calls and messages what are other ways of showing love to a girl at far distance. Hence,we met via one of these social networks. Though,she is also a student. I would be glad if my issue is responded to very well.
    Moreso, i love your messages @ anthony. God bless u and ur family

    • Hello Oladapo,
      I’m afraid your girlfriend will sometimes leave you, you have seen the difficulty already, long distance relationship is not always encourage. She still continue to do all that for you because she has not seen any other guy that interest her enough to forget and once such guy show face, she will surely leave you. I’m not discouraging you but the truth has to be told, I don’t think both of you have seen each other, it is a kind of blind dating.

      If you’re serious about being the real man in her life, you’ll need to find her, go to her school and meet her. Access her to know exactly who she’s, you might really be loving the wrong person just as you said. Remember that OUT OF SIGHT IS OUT OF MIND.

      That’s my little advice for you dear.

  44. Gud day sir, im having serious issues abt my rxtship nd i need ur advice. I hv a boyfriend frm a far distance dt i luv so much, i luv nd care 4 him, i called him d most, but he doesnt showed me any sign of love nd care, he never calls, pls wat shuld i do?

    • Hi Favour,
      The truth is that, there is every probability that he’s already having another girlfriend over there.
      Personally, I don’t like distance relationship because often times, it does not work out, it is not easy be in relationship with someone you don’t see for some time. Out of sight is out of mind, even if one of you is still trying to keep the second person, there is probability that the second person will not be able to hold on long for such relationship.
      Whenever you call him, ask to speak his church mind, what he thinks about the relationship, why is he not showing much commitment as it was before, if he has gotten another women, he should just let you know so that you can move on with your life.
      And one more important thing, don’t be emotional about it, because your heart will not be able to bear it if he said he’s considering ending the relationship.


      • well you write so well dear friend, but you must understand that, so many men, don’t love saying good bye ear sly like you think , yes it may be truth that he had another woman, something times wrong, i can use my self as example,, i have a girl that i have never seen she called me always, but the truth is that things are not going well with me this time i don’t even have money to eat,,earthier to call , her,, please check if that guy is in my chose right now, and remember that woman always complain so easy my name is Tony E

        • My response is base on what I was told, since we’re not talking one on one so as to ascertain what really went wrong. I can only assume base on experience and research work.

  45. i am really deep in love wit a girl call Camilla who made me to love him so much but now he doesn’t accept to date me for love but just friends i am so mad please help me .

  46. i am really deep in love wit a girl call Camilla who made me to love her so much but now he doesn’t accept to date me for love intimately but just friends i am so mad please help me .she is the only one i have ever loved .

  47. Verry interesting! Keep it up Mr author

  48. This is absolutely cool Mr Anthony.

  49. I’m Elias,21 years old I met this girl on facebook I proposed her nd she denied my proposal but a did win her nd she’s crazy about me we nvr met b4 wht can I d to save awer relationship cz a can’t affrd to luz her she mean the world t me. Help me Mr Anthony if posible you can use my email.

    • Make arrangement to meet her in person and do confirm that it is actually the person you saw on facebook and you like what you see physically.
      It is a different story when people appear in real life, they look different from what you do see in the virtual life (facebook kind of life).
      when both of you meet, you can discuss things further on how to better your relationship and that’s when you can begin to know who you’re dealing with, else you’d find it difficult to cope with.

    • fru claude ronaldo says:

      Pls i have a prob the girl i love does not want to understand my feelings what can i do to solve this

      • Prove to her how much and how genuine is your love for her.
        She has not been convinced of your love yet or maybe she’s into another guy already. Why not find out before offering your undiluted love.

  50. Larry Morris says:

    love you

  51. emmanuel victor says:

    Wow wah a gud site av been missn oooo

  52. hie mr man. am getting how to love someone through these love messages. bt most of time i become shy as aresult i failled to say what i want to my lover. help me how can i deal with it.

  53. Michael Son says:

    great work Anthony!! ur love quotes are very practical and sensible,they came to my need very greatly when I was in the hour of need!!! keep going!!! love u bro!!!

  54. tabak maxwell says:


  55. Their is girl dat I love so much bt some time she we behav dat am shetin her bt am nt doing dat to her if I told her dat am nt doing she we say is a lie so wat can I do .

    • Prove your innocent to her, she’s suspecting something and until you come out to tell her about it, she won’t belief you. You can have a heart to heart talk with her to figure out why she said you’re cheating on her.

  56. nice 1 Antony salam hamdiya

  57. tanks i really got an answer frm dis nd dis gave me sumtin 2 write on tanks i love u its inspiring though i am just 12 i knw nd undastand wat it means to doubt ur luv, love sum1, nd be hurt by love but over everything u loved sum1 tanks

  58. Charles Nlemchi says:

    There is this girl i meet on facebook we got admission in the same university the first day i meet her in the school she was such a nice girl she trusted me and i never opened my mouth to tell her that i want both of us to date, but the first day i told her that i love her but she never believed me. and she love’s me and i know that, we are even morethan that close friends but i dont actually know how to show up to her that i love her truely. What do i do?

    • You’ve already told her you love her, the game has started, the fire of love is burning right now and you don’t have to go to any extreme to satisfy, just be yourself, care for her and don’t forget to show that you’re a man too which mean not being too nice at all time. Continue to tell her you love whenever you have the opportunity, it is not something to shy away from if truly you mean it.

      You can take her out even if you think you don’t have much with you, it doesn’t matter, anything you buy for her will show you care for her, at least she knows you’re not working, the little things you do now will mean a lot to her.

  59. prince khalisoft says:

    well done mr Anthony… Really loved your write ups…

  60. king blings salvadorian says:

    love is a four letter word that takes u unaware,love is natural,love brings out the best of a person,as day gets older the love become stronger,with love ur lost nd never found,love is the key to a broken heart,love is sensitive,love finds u where ever u are.

  61. there is this girl i love so much but she dont love me back want can i do for her to love me coz i have done anything possible

  62. Hi,m inlove wif this girl m sure she loves me too….we r already dating. when we started I showered her wif love n attention, I mean calling texting n everything but nowadays she doesn’t call hardly replies my ping n get angry at little things. v tried not to call her but dude the spirit is willing but the body is week it’s like if I don’t hear from her I might die… I really need help,I don’t wanna lose my baby….What do I do

  63. I have a girl friend, I bought phone for and I will be the to subscribe on the and is using the phone to chat with another guy in my presence and when ever I said I don’t like it she said is just online chat. which kind of girl is this?

    • She’s not the serious type of girl, at least she should have given you that honour for being with her at that moment and not chat with any other person. she’s not serious, she still want to flirt with as many guys as possible. You can’t really blame her anyway, she might still be young and not ready to any kind of serious relationship you want.

      Make your stand known to her, if she try it again in your presence, then don’t pay for the phone subscription again, you deserve the respect and if she cannot give you that respect, it’s sure, the girl is not for you.

  64. i am having a serious problem with my girl friend about rejecting my calls,she normally use to reject my call,if i ask her why she will tell me she was,nt with her phone,and she has been doing this about three time,but the one she done today made me really angry,so i just want to send a text message to her,just to tell her i will never call her again.SO WHAT CAN I DO,SHOULD I SEND THE TEXT MESSAGE, OR I SHOULD JUST ENDURE?

    • Hold on, don’t send her such text for now. Confirm your finding, why is she suddenly rejecting your call. There must be something behind and until you find out, you can’t really know why she’s not picking up your call.

  65. hi friend pls i need your advice.my ex girlfriend is getting marry this year and i knw .but she
    kept on telling me she still love me that she cant forget me.she said its not her wish.but her dad’s.she said her dad dont like (YORUBA) im really confuse

    • Just forget about her and move on with your life. Don’t create confusion for yourself in the future, since you know she’s marrying this years, you don’t need to bother yourself about her. Close the chapter to free your heart for other eligible girls available else you won’t see them since you’re still thinking of your ex.

  66. You are the reason why i have sleepless nite, you re the reason why i tend to hold ma pillow tight, its you that i’m thinking of when i lay down @ nigth and you re the reason i cant sleep without saying GOODNITE… WOW NYC POST

  67. i appreciate ur quotes anthony.

  68. About a month ago,mygirl fwend’s reaction towards me has change,i decided 2 discuss wit er dat i suspected som changes bt she never told me d reason.she has stop calling me,until i call her yesterday she told me she is busy with her studies.i wondered about this,cos we both just get admission dis year in different institution.now she hardly pick my calls,pls wat can i do

  69. I love this special girl but I can’t walk up to her and tell her how I feel and I am also a type of shy person, she also is a shy person. Wat can I do in such situation.I am afraid of her telling me no.

  70. im in love wit a very pretty girl but i realy dont no were to start’ pls help me.

  71. I was datin a girl for abt 2years. Suddenly i can’t meet some of her needs bcos of financial challenges. She met someone and quit our relationship. Early dis year she came back to me beging me to forgive her dat she can’t found Joy wit d new guy dispite his money. The issue is dat i just started new relationship wit anoda girl whom i luv so well but we neva hav enough time to study each other well. Pls i need ur advice.

    • Follow your heart, you’ve seen both of them and you know the one you like most. I can’t tell you to chose one over the other but you should try and chose the one you’re sure of staying with you despite the ups and downs you’ll still face in life.

  72. excelsons says:

    thanks Mr Anthony, this posts re doing a lot in keeping relationships… God bless you sir.

  73. senator gabson says:

    mr Anthony, your love quotes are awesome and wonderful. in fact they are on point. more grease to your elbow.
    Am in love with a girl but dont feel loved in return, pls what can i do to salvage the situation.
    need your urgent advice.

    • You need to continue to prove to her that you love her, she’s taking her time before she finally accept the fact that you really love her. Women are like that and you can’t blame her which maybe due to her experienced in the past with guys. You need to prove beyond doubt that you really love and when she finally fall in love with you, she’s in for big time if you don’t fuck her up.

  74. i have a new woman and i love but how do are go about it plz help me out

  75. saucestew says:

    master authony! im in love wit a gurl but seriously anytyme i was wit her, she seems to be tinking nd if i ask her wat happen she would tell me, i always tried 2 do my best for her.

  76. Benjamin David says:

    Good day sir, I really appreciate ur effort on relationship issues. May God persist to bless u. I’m into a relationship with a lady of 26yrs old, and am 29yrs old. I love her but ain’t convinced if she does likewise for me. She had an ex-boi friend who calls her all the time begging her to come back to him. I live in lagos while she lives in osun state with her parents where her ex stays. She visit me whenever I ask her to come. She shows more keen interest whenever she’s with me or having sex with me. But the moment she leaves my place she would hardly call me. We’ve had several misunderstandings on this her ex guy who keeps calling her and sending her love text messages. Does she really loves me? Can I go ahead and marry her?

    • Hello Benjamin,

      I don’t think she really loves you. My guess is that, she’s not even sure of herself about who to actually follow between and her ex. The problem here is that, she lives in the same state with her ex which makes it easier for her to go visit him whenever she feel she really need someone.
      I’m afraid you might lose her to her ex if something urgent is not done.
      Invite her to your place and have a serious discussion with her about your intention for her and you not being comfortable with what’s going on in your absence right there in Osun State. Ask her if she really want you or if she want to go back to her ex?

      If she want to be with you, then tell her not to get in contact with her ex-boyfriend and that you need her attention more than they way is were before now.
      If she continue to receive call from her ex, she’ll definitely give in one day to the plea coming from the guy and because they are within the same state, it makes it easy for them to reunite again.
      Your case is more of a distance relationship which require her sincerity at all time because there’ll be lots of suspects from both side.
      Let her tell you who she actually want and stop wasting your time.
      Remember that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. It will only pain you for some weeks after which you will move on and find someone who lives in Lagos with you and that you can have access to her every time you desire.
      I wish you best of luck with her.

  77. Hello mr anthony my name is kayode please I have one big problem with the girl I love, I love the girl and am trying to show my feelings to her but since last year december till now she did not accept me please mr Anthony what can I do?

    • Give her some break and if need be, just move on and find other girls who might be interested in what you want to offer. There’re lots of them out there waiting. It is because you don’t take your eyes off her that’s why you seem not to see another girls. Just leave her alone if she’s not responding and move on.

  78. Hi,i nid ur help i love sum1, hu claims to love me back,his so caring nd understndg to me,bt he has nvr talk if e wants to marry me or nt,aldough we just a mnth in d relationship,we nvr talkd abt us our relationship,but on difrnt issues aldough funny bt nvr abt us or our relationship,i dnt kno if e loves me or nt just romantic

    • Please note; if you want me to response to your questions of comment, write your words completely, I don’t like reading people’s short or abbreviated words, it doesn’t make sense to me.

      Your relationship is too young, take your time to study each other. He can tell you that he wants to marry you now until he’s convince of who you are, he does not know much about you I guess and you too don’t really know much about him. I’m sure you’ve not seen the other side of him and knows how he can handle things.
      Please take your time to know more about him. Thanks

  79. toluwalase says:

    sir thank God u ar here.i met a gal nt ùp to a 3weeks now we started dating each other,i slpt wit her on her birthday and d folowing day her behavior change to me totaly….i ask her what my offence tø her she said (have did what i want,sex is nt love)i told her i love her.since then she dnt pick my calls oo and i love her i dnt wanna löss her; please sir what can i do to please her i love her ooo,sobinng.

    • According to her, it seems you’re after sleeping with her and since you’ve done that, it’s mission accomplished. If truly you love her, then you still have more work to do. Ask her and demand to know what makes her change after you slept with her. Women are emotional being and it mean something might have gone wrong with her in the cause of you sleeping with her. You need to find out what exactly is wrong with her and promise to help her get over it and both of you can work together to help the relationship grow.

  80. toluwalase says:

    i ask her,she said she’s menstrating then although she said so when am meeting her but i dnt beliv it mean anytin,if i may ask sìr those it mean anyting and please sir what can ì do to please her cus i löve her so mush.

    • Yes, it mean something for many woman when they are menstruating, especially for the unmarried ladies, they don’t like to have sex during this period because of the bleeding involve and the fear of pregnancy, it is even unclean.

      You will need to really talk to her to convince her and apologize if truly she’s in her period as at the time you sleep with her.

  81. Mr Anthony, i can see many people love your post and contribution in love matters,you are really impacting life pls keep the good work.
    more so i have a little hitch in which i want you to intervene, i have a lady she is university in which i love her so much with passion,i love everything about her but she insisted of not dating me without any good reason always saying she is not ready to date, i have done all i could by persuading her in terms of calling, messaging and other several convincing process even to the extent of informing her sister while she agreed to talk to her on my behalf yet no straight answer and is difficult for me to let go,because each i remember my mind is always with her, plsi need a serious advice and your attention on this

    • Are you aware that some girls love to form as if they aren’t interested in the guys talking to them or guys trying to woo them. She might be playing too hard to get, which mean, you need to learn to be patient with her and continue to show her love.

      You might even device another strategy by ignoring her for sometimes, and watch from afar her reaction toward you. This will help you to know if she’s interested in you or not. If after you let her be for some times and she’s not showing any signs of wanting to talk, chat or text you, it mean she’s not interested in you. There’s possibility that another guy is in her life which make it difficult for her to give you even a small chance.
      The decision is in your hand, if she’s proving to hard for you, please let her go if after you’ve tried my suggestion above.

  82. toluwalase says:

    am confused o mr anthony,she have accpet my apology but according to what i think actualy am expecting some money in which she’s aware of it and she as been askin of it.is he not because of money .

    • You need to be careful then, if you suspected that she accepted because she’s aware the money you want to collect. If she ask you for money or demanding you buy something for her within the shortest period from now, that should raise lots of suspicion except if that’s how you’ve been with her before.

  83. toluwalase says:

    the girl just put me in thinking,i ask her that did she love mè she said no bt she wil try to love me again because she cant lovè two guys,actualy she told me she have a boy friend before i toast her and
    she agreed … I had sex with her since then she has been flurtuating but i love her i dont wanna loose her,evrything
    have been going well for since the day i slpt with her,….,,,, please help me sir i dönt wanna let her go off me i love her(08162591674)that my number sir help me

    • You have an issue at hand now, I can’t help you to her to leave her relationship with the other guy, that’s not ideal on my part. If she not ready to leave the other guy as she has told you, why not let her go, it is matter of time before you find another girl and which you have left her early enough to see other beautiful and useful girls around that will meet nearly every of what you want in a girl.
      Let her be and stop giving yourself unnecessary headache.
      If you’re the one in the position of the other guy, will you be happy is this kind of situation?
      Remember, what goes around comes around. She’s is not enjoying her relationship with the other guy, that’s a different case, and it can be easy for you to convince her to leave the relationship.

  84. Hello bross, There s dis guy dat hs been distobng me 4 relatonship 4 som 3years back but i keep rejectn hm becaus of hs moda and his brodas nd sisters are nt gud 2 lev with nd h’s d lst born, Although i did’t tll hm all dis. But his moda hs now chang nd d sisters hs gotten maried far away 4rom d family house. So i’ve began 2 love hm nd he hs anoda girl. Wat should i do?

    • It is better for you leave him as his family will still remain his family. If you don’t see them then as people you can live with, you cannot see them as change people in the name of you’re falling in love their son.
      I’ll advice you to go look for other guys and let him be.
      Don’t put yourself into unnecessary trouble trying to tell him you love him now, he may even just use you and allow you to leave since he’s already in love with someone else.

  85. Prince Ajibade Olawale says:

    My brother well done I pray for more grace for u IJN. Just come across dis site, looking forward to hear from u. God bless u

  86. I love sex be cause it’s one part of life. Be cause I realy want to give a lady number one sex. Wanted

  87. It has dis girl i asked out and she said i should wait till shes out of skul and i knw she has a boifriend but she is a church member so she came to my auz and wen we were talking we actually kissed xo i apologised for wat happened xo she wount feel i forced her but it has her very best friend i told cos two of dem do every ting togeda dey even live togeda xo dis her friend told me d reason she didnt tell ha was bcos a fight arouse abt her boi friend and her about her kissing anoda guy xo her best friend adviced me dat i should just let her go dat shes nt my type and i love dis girl. PlEASE WHAT DO I Do

    • I think her friend has given you the hint, to let her be and focus on her relationship with her boyfriend. That should be an ideal things to do, but something is might be real that she has a boyfriend, in case like this, you will need to pursue her to a satisfactory end.
      This particular issue is NOT like that, you’ve already said she has a boyfriend, so why not let her be and look for other girl elsewhere. Girls are everywhere if you know how to calm yourself down and make proper observation, you will surely see the one you like and give her a try.

  88. Gud evening boss mi, am ADEGBOYE 4RM OAU, infact am deeply in love wt ur site and ur prompt response to pplz issues, Mr Anthony i think i will be needing ur help olso, there’s dis lady am crazy in love wt but she never seems to understand me or sees things from my angle but instead she will get thrown up over little issues and this is giving me concern, and there’s also another lady that has crush on me that even myself know of dis but I’ve not for a day look at her side.
    please boss i need ur advice on which way to go cause i don’t want to dive into a river and later be complaining of being shivering..

    • Sometimes, maturity matters a lot. Most girls that behave this way are not really that mature to know how to handle situation like this. The funny thing is that, she even like you but just want to let you feel as if you can’t easily get her to your own terms.

      But seriously, I think it has to do with her temperament and immaturity on her part, you need to be a person that’s full of patience before you can really get along with her. It will take her more time before she can really get you and during this time, your patience may have been worn out.

      If she’s not fort-coming, please let her be and move on with another girl that you both can understand each other. The other girl that has crush on you can even be the game changer. But ensure you’re going in for her for real relationship and also ensure she’s real because, there’s a lot of pretense out there even from female folks.

      You can also give the first girl something like, giving her some break and let her know that, the way she takes things is the reason for the break and use that opportunity to get close to other ladies and then watch her reaction. If she doesn’t feel anything about it, please don’t go back to her, she’s likely not for you and your kind of person.
      If everything work for good between you and the other girl having crush on you, you can give her a try and see how it goes. Don’t allow one girl to tie you down into what you can’t accept in your relationship.

  89. You really have an issue at hand now. The reality now is that, you have 50-50 chances of getting her especially if the other guy mean business. Assure her of your love and mean every words to her. Ensure you don’t take any chances at all by giving her room to talk deep with the other guy. Ensure you always call her and let her understand that, everything that glitter is not gold. Fine, he may have gone to UK and come back but that does not equate to success or she’s going to have a wonderful relationship and family life with him.
    You may not promise her heaven and earth but promise her your real love and let her understand how much you cherish her since ever you met her. Shower praises on her and talk about her good attributes that will make her head swell, don’t say anything that’s not real about her but say everything that you find interesting about her and tell her that, girl like her is very hard to come-by.
    If you can do all of these and she’s not after fake fame or success the uk guy try to bring to her, she’ll surely reason well and want you instead of the other guy.
    You need to let her know that, most of these guys that travel abroad, always have girlfriends around them over there and when they return, they continue their life there, while she will be here lonely even though, they may be communicating. At the end of the day, she will wait and wait and wait and along he line she’ll be fed up.
    Just try your best and if she sees that your best is not enough, well, just move on. But I believe she will reason with you

  90. Thanks and Godbless you mr Anthoni,i realy appreciate for your advice.All what you said was cool and awesom.Even when she called me about this uk guy on the tenth of this month,i had to tell her that it not everything that gliters is gold.And she ask me on phone if im jealous.And i told her that im jealous.But she promised me no one is lossing each orther.She told me the guy gave her 5thousand naira on that 10th of this month.I had to stop her,but since then she told me she had started ignoring his gift.But as for me,i always try my best in satisfying her with calls and your love text guide me along,and most of the time,i do hear from her mum and her brother.Is it adviceable to let his brother know about this issue,bkos his an understanding type.Or no need.

    • It depend on your rapport with her brother, if you guys are good friends, you can let him knows about it but if not don’t bother telling him, she might not like.
      I would rather not tell her brother about it, if it were me.

  91. i really love what i have saw here and i hope u keep it up.

  92. Thanks Anthony i realy appreciate for care brother,mimidoo thanks too

  93. please anthony i need i little advice from u. i find it difficult to talk to a woman…. what should i do about it???

    • The best advice I will give you is to face your fear, just go and start talking to women. You may fumble today, tomorrow but next tomorrow, I can assure you that, you will not fumble again.
      You will now see that, after all, they are human that has the same flesh just like you.

  94. Wow! Mr. Anthony this is great kudos.
    I will soon update you for advice.
    keep it up

  95. Brother, dre ds guy dat i love so much, we have datd 4 2yrs nw b4 he enter schol, he use to be carin nd lovin bt nw i dnt undastd if he stl lovs me or nt. Each tm i complain dat he s datin anoda gul, he wl deny dat he s nt datn anoda dat i sud remba dat i have hs blod in me (convenant), bt he dosnt cal, or talk abt love to me or evn text me. Alws clemin dat hs avin a tough time. Wat sud i do pls, am worid, i reali do lov nd care 4 hm?

  96. Good job i appreciate ur good wrk here may God give u more wisdom nd bless ur handwork

  97. Thx ver much for ur swt sms, u hv made my girlfriend luv me more thx once more.

  98. mbongo osmïsh says:

    1) how do you know you are in love or you are being loved?
    2) how can you control and direct your emotions to b particular girl at b time? thanks

  99. Melchizedek says:

    I think I am mad. I love her like it’s my breath. She does same too hers is hmmmmm. We are both perfect. We talk about sex and think it’s great but don’t partake in it. Are we normal? I think she is mad.

  100. Boluking says:

    I have a girlfriend and she told with her own mouth that she is double dating and i still love her what can i do? Bcoz i can’t afford to loose her pls advice me on what to do……thank you

    • You need to work more and show her, you’re the best guy she will ever meet. Go ahead and prove your authentic love for her. If she really loves you, she will stay, but if otherwise, don’t get crazy about it, there’re many more beautiful and well behave girls outside there, you just need to do your search properly.

  101. Wow,,,Mr Anthony, am become ur best reader here & i realy love ur quote always ooh, i dnt knw wht to say again but only remain bless, God “ll always keep u 4 us here,,tnx Alot:)God saint@

  102. thank you all for your comments

  103. Who is single all around teh world for me and who is the perfect guy for me<3
    What is perfect for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee<3

  104. antwi peter says:

    l am really deep in love with girl for 2 years now but she don’t allow me to have with her. pls help me

  105. antwi peter says:

    l am really deep in love with a girl for 2 years now but she don’t allow me to have sex with her. she say till we marry and when l ask her for marry she said, she is not ready.
    pls help me.

  106. Revd. Steve says:

    I appreciate your concern for the youth of this generation.. May you wax stronger.

  107. I was in a relationship for 7yrs when we started the guy had nothing but despite that I still love him, so as time goes on the he gained admission and entered school, before then we’ve promised each other marriage, but unfortunately the guy disappointed me and started calling me names that am not up to his standard that he is dealing with classic gals now that even if he want to marry me he will not see my mum’s family, at a time he call, he call me when he have had sex with other gals and he will be telling me how those gals are sweet in bed. He did so many things that got me upset and i started dating someone who can help me and my family though the person is married. Now my mind is judging me that I over reacted but people are saying that if I should go back to him am a very stupid person. Though he apologised after he had come back to his senses, before he apologise i have started another relationship .what can I do friends

    • Even if you want to let him go, you shouldn’t have gotten into relationship with a married man, no mater the circumstance surrounding.
      The mistake most guys and ladies make about issue like this when one of them gain admission into higher institutions is the promise that, when I’m through, we are going to get married. 95% of it doesn’t work and this is exactly what is happening to you right now.

      I’m not sure of his coming back to you execpt if you’re an exemptional girl who he realised you’ve got what other ladies he has been meeting don’t have.
      Don’t fall for him easily just like that, but I will beg you to get out of the relationship with the married man.

  108. Gud dy mr anthony,I love my gf but d issue is dat are parent don’t want her to marry me,am nt from there state,she is from Enugu and am from Cross River state so wot shud I do.

  109. Pls help i hav a glfd i love her and she also loves and cares for me but the problem is this she don,t want me to have sex with her and i need sex should i go to another gl

  110. HI MR.ANTHONY I AM SO IN TOUCH WIT UR LOVE QUOTES MAY GOD GIVE U MORE KNWLEDGE.sir i seriously need ur advice.it ws about a girl i met in secodary school she is in ss3 now,back den when i ws in ss3 ad she is in ss2 i proposed 2 her,buh she said she wil think over it.since den tynz stated goin smotly bftween me and her.buh d problem i hav wit her iz dat when ever i ask her of her numba she would’nt give wat iz nw d excence of lovin some1 dat could’nt give u his numba atleast

  111. Wht cn i tal my girl nexdor tht i love him?

  112. God bless u Anthony

  113. hi mr anthoni,i realy luv sum1 bt dat person is a broda 2 my frnd nd i dont knw hw 2 tel him dat i lv him,pls wat shuld i do

    • Please don’t tell him as you’re not 100% sure he’s in love with you. This is just not to embarrass yourself if he turns you down. Being your friend brother has nothing to do with it.
      What you can do is to make move that’s clear to him that you have a feeling for him and wait for him to do the talking. Just make moves that suggest you’re falling in love for him but never outrightly tell him you love him.

  114. dis is great…..more knowledge in jesus name

  115. thank u very much bro

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