Pro tips on how to attract the girl you want to marry
I have come across many young guys in a forum asking the question of how to attract a girl, what many of them are really talking about, is not the proper way to attract a girl you want to date and even go further and marry. The point that they all agreed on in their discussion was to use pick-up lines to attract a girl in but I proved them otherwise.
Those days have long gone when you see a girl and use pick-up lines to woo her and she smiles back at you, ready to start a conversation with you. Girls are wise up now and if you try to use pick-up lines, they easily noticed and consider you not good enough for their attention.
In the modern day of how to attract a girl that you really want to marry, the stake is higher than what it were used to be. And except you too take it further, you’ll hardly see any girls that fall to your oldies tricks, not even the one you just want to flirt with, let alone the girl you want to marry.
So, how to attract a girl you want to marry at this age and time, remember don’t try it with pick-up lines. Below are what you just need to do and in no time you will get her attracted to you, from there you can start to build a solid relationship that will be culminated in marriage. [Read: How to win a girl with persistence]
1. In your approach, talk confidently and never stutter, you know what I mean. A confident guy will always get any girl’s attention.
2. Have a good look with your smile; don’t force the smile, just be natural with it. It is easier to determine if your smile is genuine or otherwise.
3. Simply be presentable with your dressing; girls love guys they can be proud of and talk about among their peers. Dress nice and you will see them noticing your movement because they take a great look at guys dressing.
4. Ensure you smell nice; be identified with a certain kind of scent. Get some perfume and apply it lightly, don’t overdo it so that you won’t piss her off. Take daily showers, brush your teeth, and wear deodorant. She will remember you with your scent even when you’ve long gone. [Read; Women traits that mostly attracts men]
5. Listen to her and use her words to keep the conversation going; it is natural for humans to talk to people who listen to them. This will make her develop more interest in you and keep the talk going as long as it could.
6. You need to be fun around her, tease her, and be flirting, have a good time with her, and remember you’re the man, so you have to be in charge.
7. Act naturally and don’t fake yourself; girls don’t like guys that are not themselves and trying to be someone else. It a total pissed-off to them
Other vital tips for how to attract a girl you will possibly get married to include:
- Don’t dictate the conversation alone, give her respect in conversation
- Don’t play with your phone, text, or dial a number when talking to a girl, always look into her eyes
- Ask her open-ended questions, the kind of questions that yes or no cannot be answered. [Read; Flirting question to ask any girl and turn her on]
- Don’t try to show off in her front
- Ensure you look deep into her eyes but not with much intensity.
- Don’t try to make any physical contact at this stage unless you’re too sure she’s going to accept, it can scare her off.
- Don’t make your first move too soon.
With these approaches and tips, the questions of how to attract a girl you want to marry have been answered. Use the tips and the ideas above to show that you’re not in the oldies anymore and the game has really changed. You’re up to the task.
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There’s this lady whom i really love dearly, though she’s older than me (some months older than me) though i don’t believe on age in love, i love her, each time i speak with her and i look into her eyes i feel not being my self. But the problem is how can i woo her and how do i make it known to her.
Hi Erica, is like you’re closer to her already, that’s why you’re able to know her age. That closeness should give you a leeway in situation like this, be bold and move towards her and let her know how you feel about her. Don’t try to cram any kind of opener with her, it will not look real but just be natural about it and take it like play but with confident and tell her. You maybe surprise, if she too is nursing such feelings about you. Go ahead and be the real guy. I wish you good luck buddy!
Thanks man. I’ll try to consider these while talking to her. I’ll be talking to her after 5 long years. Wish me luck.
There is a lady I met,and she drawn my attention.I feel she is the type of woman I want to live with but she is too strict that she can’t let someone hangout to discuss with her.she want me to say whatever I want to say at her office.should I go on with her request?
….but how much, can you say in her office.
Office shouldn’t be where you both should be discussing serious issues like this, except if she’s not doing anything in that office.
Let her know that, she needs to learn to hang-out, no matter what.
I guess, she’s not strict but somehow shy. If you really like her, you can educate her more, on the important of taking your talk outside her office.
Don’t you too have what you’re doing?
You can’t be going to her office during productive hours.
there is a girl i want to married but i don’t know what am i going to tell her since last month i have been seen her, please advice me what can I tell her.
I v dis girl that I want to marry Bt she told me earlier in our conversation that she has a boyfrnd ,so Hw do make her love me mor and to Mk her want to end up with me
It’s a difficult situation, to woo a girl, who already has a boyfriend.
I won’t advice you to even do that, go look for another girl.
There are several of them out there.
I’m sure, you will not be happy to see some other guys wooing your girlfriend as well.
I have my girlfriend 2gether with in the university, I am seeing her now a day of being not serious like before and I luv her so much n also she luv me according to her, my question is what can I do to bring her luv back to me just like when we begun our luv?
There is a girl which ilov her so much n we have been together for the last 3 months but i don’t know where can i start to tell her i loves her
Tell her now, delay confession of love might give her the opportunity to say yes to someone else.
I have this girl I love, we dated for some months, but she broke up with me saying she missed being single, but later on after the break up I went over to her house and I was surprised that we still kissed for long, things happened later on and she got cold, wat should I do to bring the love back, and as well make her feel the love of getting married to me.
Ilove agirl bt she has 2childrensboys can I forget her?