Welcome to the third part of the series of this article. If you haven’t read the first and second batches of this article, do so from the links provided. Ensure you read through down to the end to know exactly why some women face marriage crises and how you can avoid it especially as you prepare for your wedding and marriage life.
13. Marrying a man who can’t stand up for you
Your true lover and husband would stand for you no matter what you’ve done notwithstanding where he is. He would always stand by you even if you were on the wrong. He may condemn and rebuke you in private, but never in public. He’d be very protective of you and would like to receive a call or text from you to assure him that you had safely got to your destination when you are taking a trip by yourself or driving out with friends. If your man can only relax after knowing that you’re safe, irrespective of where you are, he certainly has a special spot for you in his heart. It is a great mistake to marry a man who can’t stand up for you.
14. Marrying a man who you hardly know his mind or what he is doing
Your true husband would open up to you and tell you what his thoughts, feelings, fears, and desires are. He would open up to you about things like his childhood memories, most excruciating moments, his background and he feels comfortable with it. He would even go to the extent of sharing with you what he has never shared with anyone else and he would want the best for you; even if it is not the best for him.
15. Marrying a man who is still having affection for his ex woman
Often, a breakup is accompanied by a considerable amount of time used up thinking about your ex and wondering whether or not you made the right decision to part or not. Depending on how long you were together, these doubts can resurface again and again. If you when you are with your current lover and hardly remember your time with your ex, the he is the right man for you. Also if your man while with you hardly remembers his time with his ex, it is a clear indication that he truly loves you and you mean to him more than hi ex or anybody else. Marrying another man when you still feel affection for your ex and he too does same for you is a huge mistake. You’d better reconcile with your ex than be with your current guy.
16. Marrying a man who has not shown signs that he loved you either in words or in deeds
Some men are good at expressing their feelings of love in words while a great majority of them aren’t good at voicing out their love for you. You must look out for the signs of love from the man to be sure that he is your man. You can try to dig romantic answers out of the man you love, but may still be left confused. But there are ways to know exactly how much he loves you without forcing words out of his mouth. For these types of men, all you need to do is read the signs, although girls love to hear the word ‘I love you’ from their partner as a sign of his commitment to them to reassure them.
If your guy or husband doesn’t express his romantic side as often as you’d want him to, it doesn’t mean he’s getting bored of you. He may essentially be indulging in a lot of other ways to put across his true love for you. But you must look out for the signs. They will assist you to know your guy better and even make you see the extent of his love for you. Marriage not built on love is bound to fail.
17. Marrying a man under duress
Marriage ought to totally be a thing of choice. A marriage done under duress is not marriage but slavery. The two people going into the relationship must know each other very well. They must know the characters, likes and dislikes wishes and aspirations of each other as well as their strengths and weaknesses and in spite of everything they know about each other good and bad, still love the other for whom he/she truly is. They must as well be able and willing to tolerate each other. Marrying a man because you want to please him or your parents and when it is not perfectly your wish is a grave mistake. People who tread this road would tell you. Remove the string of you and run before it is too late!
Women who have learnt this truth about common marriage mistakes know that there is an easier and less complicated way to get the vital information they require about their would-be husband. Learning from the mistakes of others will set you on the right path to finding and experiencing true love and please do remember to share these rare to find truths with every woman close to you. They will forever remain grateful for your kind help.