The Secrets to Happy and Prosperous Marriage
All of us desire to be happy and prosperous in our marriages and I don’t think it is negotiable. But this desire sometimes faces many difficulties that prevent our marriage not to achieve the state of happiness we desire for it and thus making our marriage an everyday challenges. To be happy and successful in marriage is not what you and I cannot achieved, though it may require of us to put some certain things in place for us to truly reach that stage of joyful marriage.
If you observe the life of men and women who are truly happy and prosperous in their marriages, they all have many common secrets that keep their marriage going and they never look back since they’ve discovered the secret.
I want to share with you here now those secrets that keep their marriage always in a happy state even though some little challenges do come, they don’t bother about them because what they have going on well for them is more than the little challenges they sometimes experienced.
Below are the secrets to happy and prosperous marriage, the top 10 of them.
#1. You must be a good listener as your partner communicates with you. Even if you felt carried away by something else, show concern with affirmative signs that you’re with him or her. Nobody will want to continue talking when they know that the person they are talking to don’t appreciate their talking together or suggestions.
#2. For your marriage to happy and successful, there must be regular Communication which must be shared equally (50/50)
#3. It is a must you understand each other emotional makeup and shortcomings, when you do this, you’ll know how to appreciate your spouse even when they feel angry, down or upset.
#4. Don’t you ever jump into conclusion even if you know much more than your partner, allow his or her input, hear from your spouse first before your conclusion. That will show that you give them consideration before making your decision or conclusion.
#5. Just as point number 4 above, it is necessary you consult with your Mate before making any family or Personal Decision. It is much more appreciative in this way than you solely making the family decision.
#6. Learn to settle issues mostly at cool evenings or late night. If thing still not work out, try to wake your partner at the middle of the night if and only if your partner is not the type that doesn’t play with sleep. I know some people can’t sleep when they have issues bugging their mind, but you have to endure it till the early morning, make your spouse that very early in the morning to discuss thing. Another day sun must not shine on your misunderstanding, or grudge, it will continue to build up if you allow that and when it will eventually busted, you’ll hate your marriage. [Also Read; Happy couple habits you need to learn today]
#7. Don’t allow for whatever reasons, a third party to come into your family issues. Settle it only with your partner.
#8. Even though you may not know how, try as must as you can to cook together, eat together, visit places together, play together and Pray together
#9. These words should not be far from your mouth; “I LOVE YOU” “I AM SORRY” “THANK YOU” “YOU’RE THE BEST” and so on.
#10. Above all else, consult the Originator of your Marriage, your God and ensure you read your Bible if you’re Christian and read your Quran if you’re Islam.
That’s it, the very secret that will keep your marriage happy and prosperous, remember that, there are lots of them but these are just the top 10 of them all.
What has been keeping your marriage happy since you got married? What else apart from the 10 mention above you’ve heard or read somewhere that you think will also keep marriage happy and prosperous? Please leave a comment in the comment box below, I love to hear from you and don’t forget to like my Facebook Fan Page as well as share this post with any of the social media icons below.
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thank you Mr Anthony may God continue give u wisdom and understanding, though am a single but I learned here everyday and it will help me in future.
You’re welcome JOycee