Your Relationship Will Be Lots Better When You Avoid These Bad Habits
Often times, we look for how we can actually improve our relationship with our significant other or partner, which is very encouraging but as we continue to look for ways to improve our relationship, we forget to let go of some habit and these habit is inhibiting our relationship progress.
These bad habit sometimes, have become part of how we live our life which make it difficult sometimes to do away with but is not allowing us to really nurture our relationship in the best possible ways we so much desire.
Go through these common habits and honestly review them to see which one of them you’re guilty of and then resolve to turn thing around by never giving in for such relationship destructive habits.
Ignoring your partner
Ignoring your partnerMost time all of us are guilty of this destructive habit because, we feel that is the best we can treat out significant other especially when we are angry. Whenever we display this habit, instead of getting the benefit of improving on your relationship, we tend to create more gaps and further weakening the bonding between our partner. Using silent treatment is really a pain in the ass for some people, and you may have to work extra before getting your partner to communicate with you without holding on to any form of resentment.
Stop ignoring your partner, bring on issues and be ready to trash it together and be a better couple. There’s no way either you or your partner will not wrong each other but each time it comes up, you both need to address, learn from it and forge ahead in your relationship.
Being unappreciative
Nothing gets a striving and healthy relationship to a faster declining than being ungrateful to one’s partner. If you take the effort no matter how small, that your partner is imputing into the relationship to make things work for granted, you’re causing more harm to your relationship and it won’t be long before your significant other cease to do the little things that’s helping your relationship. Since his or her effort is not being appreciated, what’s the need trying to do something that’s never notice by one’s partner?
So, stop taken your partner for granted, whatever appreciation your significant other deserves, give it to them with a thankful heart. Express your gratitude and appreciate him or her, start from today, to find something your partner has been doing in other to help your relationship or marriage and show appreciation for the effort.
Comparing your relationship
This is another big issue that ruins lots of relationship, it never healthy to compare your relationship with other people’s relationship. You’ll always have issues in your relationship if you do the comparison every time. You’re just only seeing the positive part of other people’s relationship, you don’t even know what they are going through in other to portray what you’re seeing outside and wanting to use that to compare your own relationship.
This comparison do happen mostly on social media with beautiful updates, colourful events and lots of other positive things every partner will always love to see their own relationship with such positive and image boosting standard everyday of their life.
It is never like that, you can work your relationship gradually to that level where other people will use your relationship as a standard for theirs. This is not going to happen over the night, it is a gradual thing where you will learn and unlearn every day to move your relationship to the next level you desire.
Relationship are complex because the nature of individual involves, this is why you need to nurture it constantly by avoiding the above mention points. These will help you to sustain your relationship and live a healthy relationship.
