What Do You Really Want From Relationship
The title of this article, what do you really want from relationship is a tough question that must answer by all who want to go into a serious relationship. Have you ever thought of asking yourself this kind of question and look into yourself and provide the exact answer of what you really want from relationship. I know you will say you want love, right! Fine.
Everyone want love but come to think of it, every now and then so many people go online to search for the word love, how to love, quality of a perfect love, love poems, romantic love messages and lots of love related searches online with just the use of cell phone.
Whether you realize it or not, you spent most your time looking for where to be loved enough, the truth is getting to be loved enough is never easier as you may think.
Money can’t buy you love and what this mean is that, things someone may buy for you today or lavish you with lots of material things that money can buy will never make you feel love. What will make you feel love is people but not things. When people are involve in your life rather than things, that is when you feel love and that is when you can actually see what you really want from relationship.
Intimate relationship, nutrition and exercise are the tri fold for a good health. Pfizer Institute made it know that without intimate and loving relationship, we are at risk of diseases and depression, we die younger and generate less wealth. The fact remain that, without intimate relationship, we wither spiritually, emotionally and physically.
Attracting men is easy but attracting love is not that easy. This is the reason why the initial stage of attraction is much easier than building a committed relationship. You can easily attract men with your makeup, smiling faces here and there with perfect figure but all these are not enough to attract love, why? Because most of the attractions are sexual attraction. So, stop focusing on attracting men sexually and start to attract and speak to men on a deeper level.
If what you really want from relationship is love that is true, then you’ll need to create love and not desire. Most of what you’ve been doing is to make men desire you and really, they desire you but they do not love you. Looking prettier, wearing slim fitted clothes and looking sexy is for men to desire you, trust me, men don’t slack in this area, and they will want you around them in no time. If becoming prettier were the answer to attracting men, then supermodels would have amazingly fulfilling love lives. Instead, the Kate Mosses of this world can hook up with losers as easily as any of us.
[sws_pullquote_left] If you want to have more love in your life, you’re going to have to make yourself more lovable and more loving. And it’s a lot harder than you might think. [/sws_pullquote_left] From what I discover through numerous researches and reading, I can confidently says what you really want from relationship is (1) to be known by another person so intimately and completely that you have nothing you need to hide, and (2) to feel their love and acceptance no matter what.
Think of parental love, no matter what the children do, the parent will still love them and can’t withstand anything bad happening to them. Even if you’ve grown up and have left home for sometimes, parental love doesn’t die, it remains forever for their children. Such love is what you really want from relationship.
What do you think? Do you still see some other things you really want from relationship other than this discussed above? What is your perception on this little article? I will want to hear from you, I love feedback from readers.
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