When it comes to marriage, there can sometimes be delays which may or may not be any fault of yours. Delays in marriage can come in any of these forms:
- You do not find the right person to settle down with
- You’re selective
- You’re not prepared
These and lots more are reasons many people are not yet married. It can be discouraging to see people around you getting married while you are not. When this happens, you ponder on a lot of questions, right? You wonder if you’re the one that has a problem. I do understand how you feel; glance through this write-up to discover some ways you can handle such delays you may have on the issue of marriage.
Let me ask you a question, do you want to quickly get married and then rush out of it? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with the wrong person? The answer is obvious, isn’t it? The truth is that there is really no hurry in life. Matters related to marriage should be handled with caution so you do not regret any decision you make. All your friends are married, isn’t it so? Just take things easy as you will surely marry someday. Life is short, remember.
Know that things happen for a reason:
If you’re single today, your status can change tomorrow; that is just how funny life can be. Everything happens for a reason; you just need to be sensitive and optimistic.
How religious are you?
Do you believe in luck, fate or the power of prayer? Do not let anyone deceive you. You need to pray your way into your marital breakthrough.
If you stay locked up in your home, how will people see you? You need to mix up and make connections so that you can be seen.
You want to stay attractive, right? Then, look the part as the first thing anyone notices about you is your outward appearance. If you look scruffy and unkempt, I do not think anyone would approach you. From time to time, have a different look.
Sometimes, things are outside our control. At times, you lose what you so tightly hold on to. So instead of worrying too much about your problem, try helping others. It may just be a stepping stone to achieving your heart desires.
Don’t look down on yourself:
This is the worst thing you could ever do to yourself. No matter how bad the situation looks, have a high self-esteem. If you lack self-worth then that is how others will see you. Delays in marriage have led to catastrophes like suicide, depression, and frustration; do not allow this to happen to you.
I believe this write-up has given you a ray of hope on how to deal with delays in marriage.
Do you now feel inspired? Let us know..