When your relationship first started, there is so much energy flowing to and fro between the two you that are in that relationship. This energy is in form of attraction and in fact, it almost takes all of your time in that relationship. It is natural for attraction to flow in that way, but as times goes on, you will become familiar with your partner and some of those things that got you attracted to your partner will start to fade away. Some other circumstance will too will arise and they all have negative effect on your attraction toward your partner.
It can be very hurtful when your partner made it known to you that isn’t attracted to you anymore, it will be like, what do you mean? Is something wrong with you? How can you tell me that or you’ve been seeing someone else outside of this relationship.
You know, the hurtful nature of such feelings can make anybody to get annoyed, and voice out in anger. You don’t have to blame your partner if perhaps you fall in this type of mess. What you need right now, is to find out how to bring back the feeling of attraction into your relationship.
These few pointers will help you in bringing back your lost attraction into your relationship
When there is too much familiarity between people in relationship, it can cause loss of attraction, because you don’t feel his or her absence anymore, your body tends to get familiar with the same feeling every now and then, and before you know it, the attraction will no more be there.
In situation like this, you may need to get away with friends for weekends, stay a night out with friends and let your absent be felt, by the time you will be returning home, there will be a kind of reunion. You have been missed and your partner will long for your returns, so when you come meet him or her, the excitement will create the lost attraction once again.
Create gratitude list of all what you admire in your partner, especially all the non-physical qualities that endear you to him or her. Take a look at your list and begin to appreciate it one after the other, be sincere about all of these and before you know it, you’ll be getting more attracted to your partner and that mean there is an increase in your feelings toward him or her.
Start doing project together with your partner, join him in recreational activities, since recreational activities are often done for enjoyment, amusement, or pleasure and are considered to be “fun” and it also facilitate the refreshment of your body and mind after work. Both of you will begin to feel that attraction spark come alive again.
At times, you can’t just do it all alone; you will need to involve your partner in it. Communicate it with him or her about your concern and seek for how you both can work together to bring back the spark you’ll always experienced at the beginning of your relationship. If there is any way each of you could improve in the way you’ve been living your life since the attraction has gone, you need to start moving on the part of that improvement now. It is all about changes to a better person that your partner wants to see and be happy.
Sometimes, neglecting your facial appearance can somewhat affect the attraction your partner have for you. Looks do matter, it has a very big role to play in attraction for the opposite and it is one of the very first things that endear you to your partner. So, why neglect and making yourself unattractive to your partner.
Following these few pointers on how to bring back the loss of attraction in your relationship, you’ll be a better for it. Sure, you just need to get back to it now and start implementing all of these changes as it affects you.
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