Do you consider yourself to be truly in love with your partner or do you think you are obsessive in nature?
How deeply do you love him or her and how sure are you that you are not an obsessed lover?
It is very easy for people to mix up love with obsession. In some relationships today, there are lots of obsessed lovers who do not know that they are.
To know if you are an obsessed lover, answer the questions below:
Do you feel like you can never be apart from him or her?
When you are an obsessed lover, you will find yourself always aching to be with him or her.
Loving someone does make you feel this way but it becomes an obsession if being apart from that person makes you fall ill or makes you feel terribly sad.
If you always long to be around such person even if it means neglecting other things that are important to you then you are definitely an obsessed lover.
Do you feel overly jealous when you see your partner with the opposite sex?
An obsessed lover always wants his or her partner for themselves alone.
They do not want to share their partner with any other person even if it’s a family member.
If seeing your partner with the opposite sex builds up hatred within you towards them then you are certainly an obsessed lover.
Do you find yourself always pleasing your partner?
If you always do things to make your partner happy at your expense and you see nothing wrong with that then you are probably an obsessed lover.
A relationship ought to be mutual but if yours seems one sided and you seem to be giving all the love and are okay with it then you are an obsessed lover.
Do you think only of him or her non stop?
You are probably an obsessed lover if all you think about is your partner.
If your thoughts are solely centred around him or her then you are an obsessed lover.
Do you seek his or her opinion before making a decision?
It’s good to seek advice on certain issues but if all you do is dependent on your partners final word all the time then you are an obsessed lover.
You should have a mind of your own but if you don’t and rely on the thinking faculty of your partner then you are surely obsessed with him or her.
Do you feel like nothing else matters to you?
If you are obsessed with someone, they are all that matter to you. If it feels like your life revolves around that person, you are an obsessed lover.
Do you dream about the future more than your partner?
If you tend to visualise your future with your partner even before he or she does then you might just be obsessed with him or her.
If you find yourself always talking about serious things like getting married and having children, you are obsessed.
Do you show so much affection?
Loving someone involves showing affection but if the way you show it is more than necessary, you are obsessed.
Especially if you express your love to your partner when you are outdoor and do not care if everyone sees you do it, you are obsessed.
Do you find yourself wanting to know every detail?
If you are an obsessed lover, you will want to know every thing about your partner including deep secrets he or she may not want to reveal.
If you find yourself digging deep to get information you are obsessed.
If you are too inquisitive and can’t stay focused until you know what there is to know about him or her, you are obsessed.
Being an obsessed lover could mar your relationship and if the answer to the questions above is YES then know for a fact that you are obsessed with your partner.