Relationships have their ups and downs and for anyone who has been in several relationships, I believe you know those signs that indicate the love in your relationship is going down.
Sometimes it gets to a point in every relationship where you begin to doubt the love you have for your partner for so many reasons.
For the novices and for those who may not know, here is a perfect opportunity to learn about it.
Often times you wonder why your partner acts the way he or she does and one reason behind that is the level of love in that relationship.
Is the love in your relationship on the increase or is it declining?
Those signs are:
You lack interest:
If you find yourself gradually losing interest in your partner then the love in your relationship is probably decreasing.
If you notice that you seem less interested in things that matter to him or her then you are probably falling out of love with your partner.
You feel like staying apart:
If you ever feel like staying away from your partner for no particular reason, then the love in your relationship should be questioned.
Lovers like to spend time with each other but if you find yourself pulling away intentionally then you might not be interested in the relationship again.
When the love in your relationship is declining, there is always this urge to be as far as possible from him or her.
You feel angered by him or her:
To know when the love in your relationship is going down, you will always feel angered with anything that relates to your partner.
It’s not like it’s your fault but it’s because of how you feel towards your partner.
That emotion is what controls how you react to him or her.
In times like this, you will feel unnecessarily angry with your partner without any explanation.
You search for errors:
When the love in your relationship is declining, you tend to find faults in the things your partner does.
Faults that you probably did not notice before as a result of the love you had for him or her will now become so pronounced.
You would not even hesitate to point them out to your partner and this is because you are gradually dis liking him or her.
You compare your partner with others:
If you find yourself comparing your partner to other people then the love in your relationship is slowly reducing.
When you are dating someone, you ought to be content with him or her but if you are not freaked anymore with that person, it will be easy to compare.
You tend to look out for ways your partner is lacking that someone else can fill.
You regret meeting him or her:
If the love in your relationship is declining, you will begin to regret ever meeting him or her.
If you start questioning why you chose to date him or her, the love you feel for him or her is surely going down.
Having regrets in any relationship is the beginning of downfall for anyone in that relationship.
You don’t see your partner as important anymore:
If what your partner does no longer means anything to you then your love for him or her is declining.
If you no longer cherish your partner and do not consider his or her opinion on issues then that love is reducing.
If you no longer love your partner, he or she will not be of utmost important to you again.
You will make decisions yourself or ask others rather than asking him or her.
It is very possible for the love in your relationship to decline and it is also possible for you not to notice them.
Look out for these signs so that if you start exhibiting them you will know what is going on with you.