What is The Most Important Thing in Relationship?

What is the Most Important Thing in Relationship?

This is the question that is often asked in every love and relationship gathering, forums, group and meetings. A very large population of people actually said it is love; some is trust and to other is humility. But none of the aforementioned attribute above is the most important thing in every relationship. The most important thing in every relationship is …..huh! Did you raise your hand up? Ok tell me, hmnn hmnn amm……???? Ok ok ok, it is not what you think, it is actually COMMUNICATION. Yes you heard me right; communication is the most important things in every relationship.
The Most Important Thing in Relationship

Without communication, no relationship will ever stand, even if there seem to be love, it will falter as times goes on. When I said communication, it is not any type of communication but an effective communication and it is on this that love stand, you cannot love someone and fail to communicate with the person. Immediately there is communication gap in a relationship, just know that, the relationship is gradually heading to the rock.

No wonder lover will want to stay on phone and talk and talk and talk as far as time permit, even if there is any kind of discomfort, they wouldn’t mind. If one party mistakenly cut the call, when next the call is initiated, the first question that will be asked is why did you cut the call? That is why effective communication in very important in every relationship. The level of your communication with any kind of person will determine how important that person is to your life.

You can’t even claim to love God without effective communication with Him, let alone man. If you love me, then we have to communicate well. So, if you have not been communicating well with your partner? Just try and give it a try, you will be surprised on how deeper your love with your significant other will goes. If you are having trouble in your marriage, it is because of communication gap in between both of you, try to look for a medium where you can communicate and make sure you communicate well, in no time the problem will be over.

What did you think? Did you think there is another thing that is much more important in relationship than effective communication? Please share your thought using the form below and let every other people reading this article learn something today from you. I will be glad to hear from you. Don’t forget to click on the Facebook Like below if you enjoy this article today.

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  1. I have a guy we have dated for 6yrs,he has being gud to me & he promised marriage from day one bt he has noting doing & dis yr i told him i dt need sex again until i got married he aspected bt his cals reduced & he did’nt invite me to his house anymore for abt 2 mnths nw.p/z what does dt mean?

    • You’ve dated him for 6 good years and during this period, you have been sleeping with one another, but now you don’t want sex anymore until you get married.
      There’s something you need to understand here, once you’re in a relationship and you have started having sex, it is very difficult to stop, it is better you never start it initially.
      For you to put an end to it now, it’s never going to go well with him, except you sit him down to let him see reason why you want it this way.
      I think both of you should sit down to discuss this matter, I’m sure a lot of thing would have gone underneath within this 6 years of relationship and by now, both of you should have understand yourself better.
      I just hope, your guy is not hanging in there all these while just because of sex and now that, you don’t want sex until you get married, he starts to distance himself from you.
      I think you don’t even need invitation to his house if you have been having it real good for six years.
      You just need to tell me you’re coming or even going there when you know he will be around without informing him. If he has no hidden agenda, he should always welcome you to his house whenever you visit.

      Get him to talk with you and discuss this issue at length.
      Wish you good-luck.

  2. Honestly ur post is intersting, bt I hav a question. there is d guy I started dating not quite long, he does nt talk much and his bn honest to some extent bt d issue I hav wit him his dat am scared to love him cos he does less of talking to me and I call him most of d time. he seems invisible to me. I need an advise cos I dnt want to turn out been d nagging type that complain he does nt call. pls reply me on my mail

    • YOu’ve got to wait on him, don’t be too forward about.
      Please try and take your time about it, relationship with person like this takes special attention and observance from you.
      You’re free to let him know how you feel about it though.

  3. I have been datin my guy nw is a year nd half bt i am nt used 2 him much bcuz afta a month we meet we did nt stay in d same state again,he use 2 complain abt me of keepin quite if we meet nd he has changed hw he use 2 behave of resent we meet last pls i need ur advise

    • Try and engage him with talk about himself, the surrounding, the government or politics, sports and anything other talk or discussion you can use to engage him.

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