Simplest Way to Attract Any Woman You Desire
The biggest self defeating mentality many people carry around is thinking that attracting woman is a skill that is in-born. This mean if you’re not born with the skill you aren’t going to attract more women into your life and if you’re born with the skill, you will be able to attract more of them into your life.
It is all lie, it a self- defeating mentality that has many guys defeated before even started.
If you want to free yourself out of this self defeating thinking, you have to focus on learning the process that will help you demystify attraction process.
Being at the right place……..
If you want to attract woman into your life, you’ll need to get the fish out of the right water. Believing that there isn’t enough quality women out there will only make you desperate in attracting women and what that mean is that, you’ll be turned down most time by woman because you’ll look unattractive to them.
What you need to understand here is that, there is abundant of life if you know where to find it. This is the very reason why you will need to get the list of favorable place where you can find all these women. The stopping ground where you’ll be able to narrow your search down for the ideal partner.
To make this work out for you, start by getting to gym if you love women that are trying to keep fit, and as you know, women love to get slimmer these days. Hitting up early at the gym will afford you the opportunity to chart with them even before the regular exercise start.
They may not listen to you when the main reason why they are there has started. The advantage of this approach is that, you’re meeting them in the most relax place where there is no pressure on you to buy them drinks or whatever.
Still using the keeping fit at the gym, you will need to talk about or share your passion with them; sharing passion with someone could just be the perfect middle ground to help you set up rapport with the woman that is available.
This approach can also be used in other places where you share the same interest together the woman. So, go out there and look for the places where you will find women that share common interest with you.
Don’t stay around too long…..
One of the tricks to get woman wondering about you and feel attracted to you is not to look needy by staying around the place where you met them for too long.
If you’ve been in a party or any kind of social gathering where there are more side attractions and you spot a woman that interest you, your approach is to make it look like you are just passing by and notice her there.
In this kind of situation, you don’t want her to notice you hanging around before you move up to her, if she does, that will defeat this approach by the time you start the conversation with her. [Read; how to make a woman approach you]
What you need say now is just “Hi” and then make an observation about anything closer by, it can be playing bands, how the environment look like, the food or drink available at the gathering or party.
Make it funny or just say it straightforward in you comment about something and that’s enough to create a conversation and keep it going between you both.
But the trick here is not to hover around too long and move on somewhere else. For example, after a couple of minutes you could excuse yourself by saying, ‘I have to go back to my friends or going to somewhere (just mention places you’re comfortable with) but it was nice meeting you.’
Now, keeping it short and interesting, she won’t be able to come up with any excuses to end the conversation with you since you don’t drag it too long that will give her that advantage.
Besides, this little exercise will help you get a feel of her personality and let you know if she’ll be open to another brief conversation when you ‘run’ into her again later (after a decent interval of time, of course).
This method works in most events that are packed with people. You have plenty of reasons to make a graceful exit and you’ll greatly improve your chances by not looking needy.
One more thing that will help you a lot……..
Starting a conversation in a more natural way will help go far in attracting any women. The one more thing that will help you a lot here is this; look at the people around you and make sure you don’t ignore them, start talking to people around you about anything of interest in your surroundings.
This happens to be the best way to get your feet wet in learning to talk naturally and keep the conversation going and interesting.
Make this a daily habit and before you know it, you’ll be naturally good to spark a conversation with anyone especially women which of course your target in this case.
After all, attraction skills are basically the same as people skills. The better you are with talking to just about any person out there, the easier it is to talk to women you’re attracted to.
Just about everyone you run into in the course of your life is the perfect chance for you to improve your conversational abilities. Use these moments to learn how to gauge people’s reactions and talk to them in a way that keeps them engaged.
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