When you first hook up with your partner, you’re in the honeymoon phase. You’re both full of lust and are learning more and more about each other every day. You explore each other’s bodies and find new and exciting things to do in the bedroom.
Although sexual satisfaction tends to increase during the first year or two of a new relationship, it can start to decline after a few years of being together. There are several reasons why this happens, including boredom, overfamiliarity, or changes in lifestyle.
When the novelty wears off in the bedroom, it can lead to a lot of tension and dissatisfaction for both partners. You might be wondering why things are now different, or you might be concerned that your partner no longer feels the same way about you.
Luckily, there are plenty of things you can do to spice things up and start enjoying your sex life as much as you did during those first few years of the relationship.
With just a little bit of extra effort and care, you and your partner can reignite the flame once again!
If you try the steps below and still find that you are lacking the desire to have sex, it might be due to low libido or anxiety around sex. However, there are a number of supplements and medications that you can take to reduce these problems.
For example, if you’re a male, supplements like Semenax can help to increase the volume of your ejaculate and intensify your orgasms. This can make sex a more pleasurable experience for both you and your partner.
Introduce New Sex Toys
Sex toys are the perfect way to spice things up with your partner. They’re not just for solo use! You can either use multiple toys together, or you can get your partner to help you out.
There are so many toys available all of which can make great additions to your usual routine. A popular choice is the vibrator, of which there are several different variations. There are even couple’s vibrators that can provide pleasure and stimulation for both you and your partner at the same time.
If you’re slightly intimidated by the idea of using a toy, find a small and simple option to ease yourself into it.
Try Some New Positions
A lot of the time, sex can feel boring simply because you’re doing the same thing every time. Switch things up and try out some new sex positions that you’ve never tried before. If you’re usually on the bottom, try some positions where you are on top of your partner and see how it feels.
Take Things Out of the Bedroom
A great way to spice things up in the bedroom is take things out of the bedroom. Head into the living room or the kitchen, or have a slippery sex session in the bathroom. Simply changing up the scenery can be all you need to reignite your sex life