Thinking You’re Not Attractive Enough For A Good Relationship? Here Are What You Need To Consider.
It happens to everyone once out of a date or good relationship, the thought of not attractive enough for a long lasting romantic relationship, and it can demoralize anyone who indulges so much in that thought.
It is difficult at times to get out such thinking in your mind when you’ve waited for long time to get into blossoming relationship but all the relationship you’re getting into are nothing but a waste of your precious time.
But it is possible and simpler to get rid of that negative thought from your mind if you give special consideration to the points you’re about reading here now.
1. You need to come to the reality that no one is perfect
If you are able to establish this fact, that every human being is not perfect, then you’re already winning the battle of the negative thought of not attractive enough for a good relationship. No matter how beautiful or handsome anybody may look like, when you get closer to them and take proper observation about the person, you will see for yourself that, after all, the person is not even perfect as he/she seems to be without him/her even telling you the area of his/her life that he/she wants serious improvement.
So, from now on, you need to see yourself as attractive as any other attractive and charming person you see out there. Because there are something that is working perfectly for you that millions of people don’t have and they want it so badly.
2. Most times, your thoughts are not the reality of things
You can imagine how many thought that ran through your mind every minute, hour and days. If all of them are said to be true, how will your life look like today?
At times you can’t just easily controlled the thought that are running through your mind, although you can entertain some thought much longer than others, but that does not mean they are the reflection of the reality of things happening around you.
So, the thought of not being attractive enough is just one of those untrue thought that you entertain in your mind. You need to get out that false state and embrace the reality of things.
You’re just as attractive as anybody out there whom you consider to be gifted with attractiveness. [Read; The truth about how self esteem affect your love and relationship]
3. You should know that your past relationship cannot determine your future relationship
One of the mistake most people who had experienced one or two not too good relationship in the past is that, they allow the thought their last relationship which does not end well, affect their thinking about themselves.
It is a great mistake which must be avoided in order to consider yourself good enough for a healthy, long term romantic relationship.
Remember that even your last relationship is not all that bad; you’ve learnt something good in it, which will enhance your future relationship.
4. The absolute law of attraction; Love yourself first before others will see the love in you and love you
There is a clichés that says; if you don’t fight your battle, who will fight it for you where everyone has theirs to fight. This simply applies to the law of attraction, if you don’t love yourself, do you think anyone will love you?
You need to love yourself first before others will love, just remember that, it is the way you present yourself, that people will take you. If you appear unloved and unattractive, nobody will love you and you won’t be attractive to anyone. It is just that simple.
I’m sure, if you take into consideration these, four points above, the feelings or thinking of not attractive enough for a long term healthy and romantic relationship will have nowhere to stay deep down in your thought as you reflect about happening in your life.
