What do you do if you’re super horny and don’t have a date for the night? You need to find yourself a consenting adult who is into having sex in the same way you are, obviously, but this has been one of mankind’s oldest problems – how to get your rocks off when you don’t have a consenting adult who’s feeling horny and into you.
Sex sells, but what about when what is being sold is sex? In many countries this isn’t an issue at all, but for most Americans, most states have laws that make buying or selling sex illegal with differing penalties that range from a small fine through to lengthy prison sentences. This is why you should read things like the adultsearch.com review and decide for yourself what the risks are and if they are worth it for an orgasm.
OK, so these sites all exist to help people like you meet someone who is quite willing to do all sorts of exciting and crazy sex acts, or just enjoy good old missionary, but why are these sites popular despite the concern around legal issues?
For the most part they’re really easy. In the old days you may have had to go for a drive in less than pleasant areas to find a woman hanging out curbside, risk being seen going in to (or coming out of) a brothel, or call an escort and have them try to avoid being seem by the neighbors when they visit you in your home.
Searching for an escort through an online site means that you not only have a pretty good idea of who they are and what they look like (although, see this), but you will usually be able to get some indication of the price and what they are willing to do before you book them.
For example, some women may offer anal sex, others are only available for vaginal intercourse, whereas you may find that some are strictly blowjobs and hand-jobs. It is this sort of information that you’ll want to know before you whip anything out, but most importantly before you whip out your credit card.
Like most things on the internet, what you see online may be vastly different to what you see in real life. Great lighting and clever angles can make all the difference to a photograph, but there are also the people that use stock images that in no way resemble the person in the flesh.
Websites do get hacked, (you may have been effected by the Ashely Madisen data breach a few years ago in 2015 https://www.forbes.com/sites/zakdoffman/2019/08/23/ashley-madison-is-back-with-30-million-cheating-spouses-signed-since-the-hack/#508795de3878), and some sites sell their lists and client data to third parties for a range of reasons, usually marketing and spam. With the type of site that provides a search engine for local prostitutes and escorts you are certainly putting your data at risk, although some providers are significantly more secure than others, you will generally be paying for what you get. If you’re signing up to a free service, then chances are that you have just become the product to be sold.
You also run the risk of the profile being completely fake and set up as either a scam, or worse, a sting. Unfortunately, there is not much you can do to avoid either scenario beyond simply not using these sites. However, you can try to keep your language generalized, talk in terms of how much for a glass of wine, but this runs the risk of your genuine escort having absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You may also like to consider have a very low limit credit card that is not attached to any of your normal bank accounts set up specifically to use on potentially dodgy sites.
Join a church, find a nice person, settle down and live wedded mundaneness for eternity? No? Well, there are a range of hook-up aps designed to connect horny adults, and these all have different purposes, from the ‘right here, right now’ type to ones where you can chat for a bit, have video sex or arrange a time and place for later on.
Read the reviews and see which one (or ones) will best suit your needs.