Hey now, there’s really no use hiding it. As adults, I believe we’ve all had our fair share of “adult play.” Curiosity is something that runs deep in our veins, after all. It doesn’t stop with age. In fact, as we get older, there is more about the world that we would like to know. And thanks to the internet, the world’s information is now within reach.
When you’re single (or have just recently gone back to being single) there are certain “needs” that you can no longer satisfy – or so you think. What you might not know is that there are more ways to gain sexual satisfaction other than having a lover. I’m talking about adult toys or sex toys as some people would indiscreetly term them.
There are many kinds – most of which are legally sold in adult shops (Here are countries where sex toys are banned. There is something for everyone’s taste. They may look like peculiar everyday items so you may not recognize them but I’m pretty sure you’ve seen them on display or on TV before. If you’ve ever watched the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise, you’ll know what I mean.
But because of the aforementioned movie, people seem to have the wrong idea about sex toys. They have formed a misconception about it. One pretty popular myth is that everyone who’s into using these objects are also into BDSM plays – the whole dominant and submissive thing as seen on the movie. I tell you folks, adult toys aren’t always as exciting as that.
In reality, these things just stimulate sexual fantasies and desires that would often lead to arousal and satisfaction. They are in no way sadistic (well, some are) or abusive unless the user wants to use it that way. Gag balls and such are really just for show. I doubt any sane person would use it on himself in real life. Unless it is a deeply-rooted fetish and it is done by two people or a couple.
Common types of sex toys are more “mellow” or simple. For women, these would be vibrators (often termed simply as “vibe”) or dildos while men would purchase synthetic V-holes. The extreme plays you see in movies and TV shows are more of an exaggeration of what really happens during adult play.
Now, where can these be bought? The safest and most discreet way to buy adult toys is through secure online shops. There are many legitimate adult shops online that strongly values client privacy. They make sure that all personal data of clients remain classified and that shipping procedures are secure.
They also see to it that the package is tightly sealed and protected from prying eyes. It’s not that there’s anything wrong with using such products but let’s face it; the world is not quite ready for such blatant display of sexual fetishes and fantasies. If you really don’t have the first clue about these things, then you should check out http://sextoyeducation.com/
I know that many of you are still reluctant to try these out – especially as single individuals. But hey, if you’re guilty of watching porn, then you’re more or less tapping into the world of adult play as well. There really is no shame about it. To sexually satisfy yourself is considered a need; it’s basically up there in Maslow’s hierarchy.
As we age, our needs also level up. There are some things we can’t live without now that we can live without 10 years ago and vice versa. Whether you’re single or with a partner, if you’re curious to try then why not? Just be responsible and don’t take it too far. Make sure that you practice proper sanitation as well.
You don’t want to end up with an infection for using unsanitary toys. For singles, it can probably be just the thing you need to get by. You don’t need to rush things and get a new lover just for the sake of sexual satisfaction. Sometimes, you can be alone and satisfied.
For couples, it may help spice up your relationship more; make the flames burn hotter. Whatever your reasons are, you are not obligated to explain it to the world. Just do whatever you feel like doing – responsibly. As long as nobody gets hurt, why not?