A lot of couples most especially the women folk would have so many stories to tell about their in laws.
Some women enjoy their relationships with their in laws while some struggle with theirs.
I am not saying that those who have a good relationship with their in laws do not have issues with them occasionally, they do but for some others it is much worse.
Do you know that you can detect both positive and negative vibes from your in laws? How you may ask.
How do you know when your relationship with your in laws is turning sour?
What are those signs that show that something is amiss?
In this article, you’ll be able to detect negative vibes from your in laws. You’ll be able to know those negative signs your in laws portray so that you can know the next step to take in making amends where necessary.
When your opinion is not sought after:
Situations sometimes make a couple live with their in laws and when this happens, a lot of things could go wrong.
In times like this and from experiences and stories that are told, it is often the woman that goes through a lot in the hands of her in laws.
You can detect negative vibes from your in laws when they stop seeking your opinion on matters that concern your children or husband.
Imagine your in laws taking your children out without telling you where they are taking them to.
I am not saying they do not have the right to take your kids out but I believe you deserve some respect from them.
The fact that you live with them does not mean your opinion does not matter. So if you notice that your opinions are not considered important by your in laws then this is one negative vibe you should look out for.
When you’re spoken to anyhow:
Another way to detect negative vibes from your in laws is by noticing how they speak to you.
There are times some things happen that may result in exchange of words between you and probably your mother in law.
It’s normal to say what you do not mean when you are angry but when you are constantly spoken to in a rude manner then that is definitely a negative vibe.
When you’re easily blamed:
One sure way to detect negative vibes from your in laws is when you’re easily blamed for bad things that happen.
This is one thing that happens to some wives in their in laws house as they are always to blame when things go wrong in the family or relating to their husband.
One thing you should know is that the things you watch in movies are real life stories and as such constant blames on women living with their in laws is a strong negative vibe.
Being blamed constantly by your in laws for things that are sometimes not in your control does happen a lot.
When you’re not asked after:
Most times, early in marriage a bride gets all the love and affection from their in laws but sometimes the love dwindles.
If your in laws stop or limit how they communicate with you then that is certainly one of the negative vibes coming from your in laws.
If they don’t ask of you or call you to know how you are doing like they use to then watch out.
When they care more about your kids than you:
When this happens, you shouldn’t feel jealous. The only time it should bother you is if their attitude shows otherwise.
But they shouldn’t make you feel otherwise by showing more affection to your kids and neglecting you.
The points listed in this article are ways you can detect negative vibes from your in laws.
Are you married and are already noticing these negative vibes from your in laws?
What other signs would you want other women out there to know about?
