Love works in mysterious ways. When we fall for another person, our entire being works itself up into this puzzling new state of mind – we feel dizzy, forgetful and absentminded to the point that we mix up days and dates. And our body follows suit.
In fact,there’s a myriad of signals that our body sends off in order to communicate all these changes. If you pay close attention to them, you may learn a thing or two. But if you want to date a cougar, then be sure to come fully prepared when it comes to body language!
Start with Her Hands
Hands are actually a great telltale sign when it comes to decoding body language. Begin by inspecting her handshake and pay attention to how often she turns her palms up and down during conversation. If she’s constantly hiding her hands or turning her palms down,this might mean she’s not ready to open up to you or commit just yet.
Lean in and Discover Tons
You don’t have to be a genius to find out whether she feels comfortable in your company or not. Just take a good hard look at her body posture. If she’s turning sideways and away from you, then she might not be that much into you. However, if she’s facing you all the time, eager to take your every word in, then you’re up for a real adventure with this yearning lady!
Eyes are the Mirror of the Soul
But if you’re still at loss feeling like a total newbie at this body language game and you’re just dying to know what’s on her mind, then look her straight in the eye. Don’t look away. Don’t blink. Keep at it for a tad bit more than what is customary. People are usually caught off guard by this and are likely to reveal more about themselves.
Hear Her Out – Literally
You are both testing each other out at first and what better way to tune in than to actually listen to what she has to say. And while you’re at it, pay attention to the tone of her voice. Which words does she stress in speech? Is she deliberately forgetting to say something or making you think twice? There is a lot of guesswork here, so don’t get carried away. Even so, you can learn a lot about your new cougar partner simply by noting the tone of her voice.
She’s Copying Me – Yay or Nay?
This is the only time we are ever going to say it – copycats are more than welcome here! If she’smirroring your body posture, your facial expressions, and hand gestures, then you have just hit the jackpot, sir! Body language experts claim that this is an absolute must, a pre-requisite in bonding. It goes without saying that it’s an auspicious sign when it comes to relationships.
Even though there is no fully reliable, foolproof method in decoding body language, you can discover a great deal if you pick up one of our tips. The great news is that you’ll be able to use them wherever, whenever and with whomever.
Some people are naturally good at interpreting body language signs and it looks as if they can see through you intuitively, but don’t let that dissuade you from ever trying it yourself.