If you are not yet in a relationship, there are so many things you should not do in order to be happy in all aspects of your life.
If every young guy or girl who is not yet in a relationship know what those things they shouldn’t do are, I believe it would make every transition in their life smooth.
The truth is that not being in a relationship at the time you expect is enough to frustrate you if you allow it to.
So, I think this article is needed for all those in this category.
The things you ought not to do if you are not yet in a relationship are:
Do not be frustrated:
It can be frustrating to see your friends in relationships while you are not yet in one.
At this stage in your life, try as much as possible to do away with thinking too much about your situation.
It is when you think too much, you get frustrated. So do not let it degenerate to that.
Do not make hasty decisions:
When people get desperate to be in relationships, they tend to forgo or neglect some relevant details before going into that relationship.
When this happens, they end up regretting such a decision later on in that relationship.
If you are in a hurry to start a relationship, you might just hurry out of it if you are not careful.
Rather than being hasty to be in a relationship, be patient enough so you are happy in the long run.
Do not envy people:
It is very easy to be envious of other people who are already in relationships. But if you are not yet in a relationship, do all you can so you are not jealous of people.
It is also very easy to try to put yourself in the shoes of those people. If you do this, it will make you think ill of yourself and make you wonder if there is something wrong with you.
It is not good to envy people because you do not know what they may be going through. All you see is the outward appearance of people; you do not know what goes on behind closed doors.
Be happy with who you are and be optimistic because things will not be the same forever.
Do not feel pressured:
If you are not yet in a relationship, you might feel pressured to be in one either because you are pressured by family and friends to do so or because your conscience disturbs you about it.
This is the greatest mistake you can ever make if you are not yet in a relationship.
Haven’t you heard of broken relationships? Would you want to have such? I believe not so why do you allow yourself to feel pressured to be in a relationship.
One thing I believe in is that there is a time for everything and the appointed time for you to start a relationship will come.
Pressure is not a good thing and I have seen people make serious mistakes all in the name of feeling pressured.
Do not act proud:
A lot of people lose their chances of being in a relationship simply because of their attitudes.
If you act proud and behave like nobody is better than you then how will you find the right person?
Attitude matters a lot in everything that one does and when you are single, it is a time for assessment. So if you mess up this time of your life, you’ll have yourself to blame.
So if you are not yet in a relationship, take note of these things that you ought not to do and I assure you that you will be better prepared when you eventually get into a relationship.
Do you agree with me?
