Great sex is the glue that holds a relationship together but after some time, it can start feeling habitual. You get to know each other well, you become really comfortable. The sense of excitement, the novelty and the butterflies go MIA.
Trying new stuff and exploring sex together gives you wonderful opportunities to maintain freshness.
So, what’s a good idea for people who don’t know where to get started with new sexy practices? Check out a few of the following to find your inspiration.
Getting Restrained
Something as simple as putting a blindfold on and having your hands tied while your partner is pleasuring you will add cool power dynamics to your sexual relationship.
There’s something incredibly erotic about being restrained or about having your partner submitting to you 100 percent.
You don’t have to get involved in full-fledged BDSM if that’s not your thing. A pair of cuffs or a bed restraining system will be cool additions to every vanilla sex experience. Getting such accessories will give you a taste of a brand new opportunity. If you enjoy the experience, you can start considering the incorporation of other BDSM elements in your sex routine.
Shoot a Sexy Film Together
Bringing a camera to the bedroom acts as a massive aphrodisiac for many couples. For a start, you’ll feel like someone’s watching – a super kinky sensation that will get both of you to perform your best.
Being filmed also builds intimacy and creates a sexy memento that only you and your partner will get to share.
Filming yourselves together requires trust, openness, and communication. It’s also very important to engage in such an activity with someone you trust. Both of you need to be on the same page when it comes to shooting the film. You should also share the same idea in terms of using the erotic content later on (and never sharing it with a third party without consent).
Try New Kinds of Sex Toys
Do you already own a dildo and a clitoral stimulator? If so, you may want to consider the addition of more items to your pleasure collection.
There are so many niche kinds of sex toys you’ll easily find the best variety to stimulate you intensely and thoroughly.
Start with a more specialized version of the stuff you already own. Huge sex toys give you intensity without necessarily being different from the other adult products in your collection.
A few other super exciting and kinky picks include vibrating nipple clamps, prostate massagers, strapless strap-ons, double penetration toys, and sex swings.
Try Butt Stuff
Have you been avoiding anal play over the course of your relationship? You’ve missed on an amazing opportunity to experience intense pleasure while deepening the bond you already have in place.
Some people avoid anal play because it’s still considered a taboo. There may be some shame associated with the experience. Alternatively, some fear butt stuff because they’re worried about pain or discomfort.
When done patiently and with the right partner, anal stimulation can be incredibly intense. It may even lead to an anal orgasm – a pleasure experience that many have described as tremendously overwhelming in the best way possible.
Even if you don’t feel like trying anal sex, there are other cool things to do. Anal beads and butt plugs are manageable sex toys created for anal stimulation. Some of them are really small, great for beginners who want to get a sense of the experience.
Masturbate in Front of Each Other
This sexy exercise is an incredibly great choice for people who want to learn more about their partner’s sexual preferences.
Masturbating in front of your partner may seem like an uncomfortable, even embarrassing idea. Chances are, however, that you’ll really enjoy the way they watch you. Also, seeing how your partner pleasures themselves will also be a wonderful turn-on.
While the experience is incredibly arousing in itself, it can also be very educational. Pay attention to the way your partner touches themselves, the erogenous zones they prioritize. Do they use light touch or more pressure? Which movements appear to be most rewarding? Getting this information and incorporating it in the next sexy session can lead to much more satisfaction for everyone involved.
Have Fun with Roleplay
This one is so easy to do and you have so many choices that you simply have to give roleplay a chance.
The range of scenarios is immense. From classics like the maid and the master of the house to favorite movies playing out in the bedroom, you can transform yourselves into anything.
Roleplay adds the novelty of being someone else and assuming their identity in their bedroom. Not only is it so fun, roleplay can be very liberating. It’s a great choice for people who deal with some insecurities. Acting as a completely different person has the power to set you free.
It doesn’t matter if the sexual experiment you choose is big or small. Anything that differs from your regular routine has the power to invigorate your sex life. Don’t be afraid of suggesting such novelties to your partner – they’ll probably embrace the idea as much as you do.
