Why You Freak Out Around Your Man And Unintentionally Push Him Away Further
Let me ask you this question, have you gone through any difficulty in trying to understanding your man? And do you really know what happen when you’re going through difficult situation like that?
Now this is what happens, whenever a woman is experiencing the negative side of her man in a relationship, she will freak out and continues to keeps freaking out.
Let me explain this to you, so that you can really understand what it means.
When you as a woman find yourself in difficult situation with your guy, you don’t understand what is really happening to him anymore, and then you try to assume on your own what you think is probably the reason why you’re not getting the best part of him but it doesn’t work for you. Then, you’ll feel frustrated and eventually freak out.
You see, when you have tried everything you think possible to make him reasons you desire more than what he’s giving to you, and he’s not showing any sign that he understands your situation. You will completely freak out over and over again, and the truth is that, you will mess up everything over time with what you consider as your best effort.
You can’t understand a man like that, but you know what? In the process of trying to do things in your own understanding, you do some other things unintentionally that push him away, and that is what is sabotaging your effort
Let me show you two most common approaches most women take in situation like this.
- The first one is women try to convince their men and
- If that first option does failed, the next they do is, to try and argue their way into their men’s head
The reason for this is not yet clear to me, but women generally have this inner belief that, if they can just tell a man with good explanation, how their situation is, the man will just get it somehow.
All of these do not work and it will not until you know how to understand a man before you can even take the appropriate step to make him desire you.
You see, no matter how hard you try to drill your point into his head, he won’t get it, the harder you try, the further he goes away from you.
This good example will even make it clearer to you, so that you can get it…….
When your guy is starting to get distance from you and you think that, maybe he’s trying to leave you. You will first reason why is he doing that, and in a bit to understand it, you’re getting confuse about the situation, and what that mean is that you’ll eventually freak out.
The next thing you’ll try to do is to approach him or confront him and talk to him. You’ll even make statement and say something like these….
[sws_blockquote_endquote align=”left” cite=”” quotestyle=”style01″] Honey! I don’t know why you are avoiding me like this, what have I done? Are you planning to leave me? Have you found someone else? I need answers. [/sws_blockquote_endquote]
And you still don’t get the answers you need and as a result your anxiety is starting to turn into anger. You feel that you deserve answers from him…And in the process you say things like…
[sws_blockquote_endquote align=”left” cite=”” quotestyle=”style01″]I am sick & tired of not getting answers from you. You aren’t pulling your share of weight in the relationship, I feel like I am doing all the work. You only care about yourself. [/sws_blockquote_endquote]
I think this is a better example of explaining the difficult situation
What you’ve just done is that, you’ve made a very big mistake and it can shake the foundation of your relationship.
When you approach your situation like this, your man will feel attacked and the first thought on his mind is, to go further away from you because, he want to avoid your confrontation
Please know this; you’re taking a hopeless approach by trying to force him to understand you. You can’t hold a gun to his head and make him understand you.
There are better ways to make your man understand you, things you can say, things you can do and naturally make him desire and open up to you, and then give you all the love you so much desire and ensure, he’s committed to that relationship to the end of his life.
Follow this link right now to discover how you can really get to understand your man.
