3 Sure Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To Marry You

3 Sure Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To Marry You

There are several men out there who are only interested in you keeping them accompany. Of course, you will believe you’re dating and you’re in a relationship with him, but in his mind, you’re just keeping him accompany.

You may have been promised heaven and earth but when it gets to some certain issues, often times, he will switch the topic to another topic in which he will be more relaxed.

Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To MarryIf you’re not the type that really observe this trend, and allow him to always have his ways, in diverting important issue like marriage to another less important issues, such as taking you out to fast food joints, museum, and other recreational centers. You’ll remain in such attachment for many years to come.

Until you will one day stand your ground and determine to know, why he is always changing marriage talks to other less important issues, you may never get married; he will just waste your time.

You as a woman don’t have much time to waste because, when it get to certain stage in your life, you may lose those charming beauty that get more men attracted to you. He might even decide to dump you when he sees that you’re already getting old.

So, how do you know if a man is going to marry you and not a time waster?

I will be sharing with you 3 sure ways to know is a man is a marrying kind, there may be other pointer to prove that, but these three will give you a clue of how any guy will welcome the issue of marriage and get set for the preparation in earnest.

1. A marriage minded man will always be positive about marriage

At any time you raise the issue of marriage, a marriage minded guy will surely speak positive of it as well as other people’s marriage.

He will be open to such discussion and how both of you can quickly find ways to get it settled. On the other hand, if he speaks negative of it and condemn other people’s marriage, be sure, he’s not the marrying kind of man you want.

If he’s seeing marriage troubles rather than the benefit, he’s not a kind of man that will accept marrying you even though; he may profess it with his mouth. He is never going to be committed and you should just gently find you way and get out of his life before he waste the good part of you

2. Getting along with woman is not his problem

Don’t wonder away with what is being written up there, what that statement really mean is that, a marriage minded man will trust women in general.

This kind of man is the one who have had a positive relationship with woman in his life, from his mother to elder and younger sisters. He finds it easy going with his female friends as well as female co-workers.

He has developed the necessary skills to maintain healthy relationship with woman. These men have a greater understanding of women, or at least have come to peace with gender differences, and are less likely to see women as the enemy.

3. A marriage minded man is ready to settle down

This kind of man has passed the stage of life where all he wants is just the fun and freedom of relationship. I’m not saying here that, the man does not value freedom and fun in relationship but what I’m trying to put across is that, he does not take them as his main focus in the relationship.

He will think of finding a soulmate rather than just the fun dating someone. He will be more interested in building a home. On the other hand, if a man jokes about marriage and often advice people to value their freedom above woman, just be sure he’s not the type you need, he’s not of the marrying kind.

That is it, the 3 sure ways to know if a man is going to marry you, if in all what you observe about, it fall short of any of these 3 ways above, you will need to redefine your relationship with such man.

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  1. Hello,
    I have just met a guy, and this guy started to chat with me, and after a while he asked me if I wanted to marry him. He asks me if I have any problem with that, and I tell him no.
    He speaks to me about his plans for have babies, and how much he wishes to see me carry his babies.
    As the chat goes on, he starts to talk sex, like if he is really about to do it on the time of the chat, continues the sex talk like if it was a real act.

    Does this guy really mean to marry me? Does this act seem to be from a serious man who really wants to marry?

    Please, I really need your advice about this matter.


    1. Probably not, I don’t think so but come to think of it, whatever he’s talking about when you guys were chatting does not mean it is real. However, when he started talking about S.ex, as in seriously, I don’t think he mean it to marry you. He may just hit and run.

    1. It depend on your offer, though I hardly go into partnership with an individual on this blog because of their offer, I’d rather do it as affiliate or better still as a sponsor ads or article.

      It is not about having thousands of books on love and relationship but it’s about knowing what the people really want and not what you think they need.

  2. What if it is a woman that is playing u and dnt want to open up, what will d guy do? Cos i am into it now serious one

  3. my guy anytime I talk about marriage he doesn’t respond well does it mean he can’t marry me or he’s not just ready for marriage

    1. It depend but mostly, the financial implication give lots of guys some concerns and you’ll expect them to find it difficult to response well when question about marriage is put to them. This might likely be one of the thing that bother your guy Mary.
      Away from that, any guy you’re in relationship with, that does not response well about marriage discussion is probably not ready for marriage and might likely not end up with you.

  4. My guy always talk about marriage, bt dose it means dat he ll marry me nd he do tel me if i get pregnant i should nt remove it, bt i still want 2 further my education.

  5. Esomonu Onyinye

    What if a man does these three things and as well, tell you that his parents said you must marry in his village not from another tribe or ethnic group.

    1. That one is left for the man to determine.
      In this and time, no one should tell you where to marry from,the decision should come from ones heart and the hunger for love he or she desire.

  6. Chinenye
    after my x guy break my heart since over 4 years now I hadly fall in love with some one else until I finally fall for a prayer warrior in mountain on fire but we are in love with each other ..but pretending to each other so madly in love with him to the extence DAT I want to live my working place because of him as a man he has a strong heart clause he dont do girl Frnd dou to the nature of his Christian city level I mist t confesse becous I think am dying in silent cause I HV never love someone like dis since my life before pls am dying in silent someone should tel me what to do or should I quite my job because him?

  7. I was in a relationship Dat lasted for 3yrs, I know he loved me so much Dat he took me to his family and my family knows him too, even all his friends became mine, when I brought out marriage issues he doesn’t divert, he discussed along with me he calls me day and night for Dat 3yrs,until one day he called and said so many lies at same time to cover up and finally told me the relationship is over and said am desperate.

    1. He’s not interested in marrying you in the first place.
      After three years, how can he still see you as desperate.

      I’m sure, he’s already going out with someone else or he has another person all along.
      Please follow your heart at the stage.

  8. when a girl u lov ask u to stay away 4her on till u get marry to her,reason is’her xguy who is a cult guy treting to kill her if she do’nt come back to him so bcause of tht she when & join cult too so she can fight him is it true or she one to use that to push me out pls i need ur help pls

    1. Don’t entangle yourself into trouble you may not survive to tell the real story about how it happens. Stay off and find love somewhere else, it may be painful now but it’s just for a little time, rather than sticking to her and later be agonizing for the rest of your life.
      Stay off please, that’s my candid advice for you Okon.

  9. HI i am juliet i need to kwn if this guy really want to marry me,we meet jus 2days n he is demnding to sleep with me.HE started with marrige and he said he wants me to be pregnants before he takes me to the alter.PLS advice me.

  10. Am 21yrs old am dating a guy dat is in d Sam age with me but gap me with months… Dis guy happens to love and care for me though we are in school higher institution d same level, he keeps on planning his future with me dat when we are true wihot our university level he will get married to me.. I love him bcos hewn has shown me he a guy of difference, he is really different from oda guys have dated, i don’t want to loose him, pls i want to know is it possible we can end up together

    1. Very much possible if you’re meant to be together forever. Play your part well and pray to your creator to help you mold your relationship. Your guy too should play his part well too.

  11. A guy i met about 9months now when i ask him when he is settling down though he has not being paid yet ever since he resumed his new work said when they starts paying him he wants to rent an apartment go into business plan and get a car before planning to settle down i dont just know what to do if to walk away from d relationship please advice me

  12. i have a friend we have been dating for two yrs now and he takes care of me since two years he hasn’t talk about marriage to me and bothered even my family members too gossip everywhere what will i do pls.

    1. Sit him down and play with him, you can even romance him and let him feel good, then you can tell you him, you have something bothering you and you want it clear. I’m sure he’ll listen to you and waste no time since his attention has been caught, ask him about marriage that your family is interest in meeting who you want to marry.

  13. I met a guy for close to 3months nw and all he has been telling me z to be his life partner of wch he has conclude dt he has already taken me as that. wch i hv nt yet tod him dt i hav accepted him but frm my responds to him tells him dt am intrested nd right inside of me i have accepted him. Now he knowing dt am a student has never for one day and ask how am cooping talk of making an effort to snd me some money to help mysef.and wen u brng d issue of marriage he wil divert to another topic dt wil make him feel relax wch is less important.so plz advice me shud i live him or wait for som tyms.although he has told me that he is cuming to see my people by January 2016.how do i no he z telling me the truth when he can not even assist me with the little he can do.

    1. Give him something but he has to be sensitive about your schooling since he’s aware you’re still a student. If he can’t remember to ask about how you’re coping now, it is just a sample of what is to come.

      Another way is that, you can ask him why he’s not care about your schooling, his response will determine how he value your schooling. Or are you in tertiary institution that he has never attended any before now.

      Just give him sometime and the issue of marriage should be discussed seriously and you need to ask the necessary guestion and get satisfied with his response. Three month might be too small, though if it is meant to be, then serious discussion has to take place between you both.

  14. pls i met dis guy n we hv bin close 4 lyk 2 weeks i jst fell in luv wit hm completly bt d way he bhaves sometym he does nt always kal me always tok negative abt me though he bhave lyk a pastor bt i luv hm bt confuse coz i dnt knw if he wil reciprocate to it do u tink he luv me wat shud i do?

    1. The period you met is too small to know if he truly loves you or not.
      Expect more complain but if it’s becoming too much, just carry yourself gently and leave him.

  15. Folashadesusanna

    There is a guy I meant 2weeks ago on Badoo, we keep chat later he ask me out. After some days I went to his house that day we HV sex. ever since then he keep on saying he wants me to get pregnant And that he really love me which I know…… Am just 22 And he is 31 pls Advice

    1. The truth is, you’ve made one of the greatest mistake a lady can make, when visiting a guy for the very first time in his house and having sex with him. I can tell you with 100% guaranteed that, you’re going to be used and dumb.

      Please wise up and study a guy better before you can ever commit to having any kind of sexual relationship with him.

      What have you achieve or what exactly are you doing now?
      If you make the mistake to go marry someone because, he promise he loves you and you don’t have anything, you’re going to suffer from such marriage.
      Either you go learn something that can fetch you some money on your own, in case your husband don’t have much.

      The truth is, marriage in this age and time, require both husband and wife to be able to put something on the table to sustain the family.

      Don’t fall for men’s blatant lies and empty promises.

  16. okpara juliet ogechi

    I meet a guy on fb, all of sudden find out both my best frd in secondry school know each other, he has been telling me how he loves me n he going to get me pregnant when he come back from spain in may, but d point is that i had a problem with that my Girl frd,she accused me of dating his boy friend, now she is married now, and she know d guy am dating, have already told my guy everything that conspire bw us, and he said should not worry he loves me, am in love with d guy, am still scared should i date him, n will he marry me with all this, am confused pls help me

  17. I av a guy dat we av been dating for almost 1and half years nw bt i dnt no any of his friend and family and me and d parent stay in d same town bt dey dnt no me wot shd i do

  18. I have smooth and excellent relationships with the female folks but most time it ends up in the bed the fact is I don’t want it so yet it keeps happening with almost all. How do I help myself from this situation or is it same with every man?

    1. It’s not the same with every man, though most men end up this way, but it is a thing of the heart.
      If you really determine not to let it happen, it won’t happen.
      Besides, the type of girl you meet too, may determine if you will end up in bed with her, within such short period.

      Just talk to yourself and learn self-control.
      You can also put off any act, that can lead to romance, because from there, it’s very possible you will end up in bed with any lady if you cannot control yourself.

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