Better Ways To Text A Girl And Make Her Overly Want You

Have you ever been trying to figure out how to text a girl you like? or a girl you just got her number and make her want you?  I know every one of us guys love sending ladies text messages because it save us some cash, fast and the messages often times will surely reach her even if she’s not at the exact place where she kept her phone.

Better Ways To Text A Girl And Make Her OverlyAs you know very well that girls response to emotion, what they hear and the way they feel about guys make girls to fall for guys. Unlike guys that just merely sighting the girl just once can make us fall for the girl.

At times, it is much easier to send a girl text and make her fall for you rather than toasting her on date and even impressing her with gift item. As long as you can create your text in a perfect balance to connect her emotion with some simple trick, you can make girls overly want you within shortest time possible inasmuch as your text is well timed.

These 8 better ways to text a girl and make her overly want you will do the magic for you.

1. The right time to text;

I have seen guys doing this in a wrong way, they don’t bother to find out the right time to text a girl and they would rather go for calling her, which often times will bugged her. So, avoid calling her when you know that she’s busy doing something very important. It will be more gratifying to text her during those busy hours, that won’t bug her but, she will be excited reading your text and that will make her smile and still continue with what she’s doing happily. [Must Read; Best Ways to Keep a Conversation Going With Woman]

2. The best time to text a girl is in the night;

Start texting the girl late in the evening and make sure you keep the text conversation going into the night when she slip into her bed. As at that time, her mind will begin to focus on you and there is something so romantic and sexy at that quiet night which is what you really want to achieve. [Also Read; Flirting Questions to Ask Any Girl and Turn Her on]

3. Tip for the first text:

If you want to text a girl for the first time, simplicity is all what you need; don’t even think about it too much looking for some sweet or complimentary words in your text. All you need do is to keep it casual and simple. Something like “Hey! Just thought I’d say hi!” is simple and just one of several ways to initiate a first text with a girl you like.

4. Don’t flirt in your text every time you text her:

Flirting her in your text every now and then even though she knows you already like her will eventually get her bored. Mix your text with everyday activities you know she would be doing and let her see that you’re not just only interested in romantic aspect of her life but also wanting to know more about her life in general.

5. Now flirt when you see the opportunity:

As much as you should not be flirting all the time in your text, you should however flirt when you see the opportunity. This will be interesting especially when you’re texting about everyday activities of her life and she makes a compliment about herself or says something good about herself or even mentioning something she’s best at doing. Cease that chance to pull her leg or tease her in whatever ways you think is interesting to you.

6. Create personal memories with your text:

Constantly look for how to create bond between you and her. Tell her about your favorite anything you want, such as; song, movie or place you like. Anytime she comes across something both of you have talked about, give her a reason to think of you and wanting you. [Read; How To Talk To Girl You Never Met Before And Impress Her]

7. Make use of emoticons in your text:

At the end of your text to her, ensure you leave some few kisses as well as smile for the goodbye. Some girls can pretend not to understand your motif behind the emoticons, all you need to do is to make jokes about it and say it was a goodbye kiss on her cheek and you’ll surprise what her response would be.

8. Get naughty in your text to her:

Try as much as you can to go wild in your naughtiness, except you know what she want to hear from you even at that, you can still go wild but not in any offensive ways. Her respond in term of how she text you back will determine how you want to play it around. You can try something like.

You: “I wish I was with you right now”

Her: “Yeah? Why?”

You: “For a lot of reasons I can’t say right now / You did say you’re in bed, right?”

With these 8 text tips, you can be sure that the girl will find ways to get into you big time. So, use the better ways to text a girl and make her like you and get a better result with your romantic text messages.

Guys, here’s something special if you want to turn any girl into your girlfriend and not making this big mistake, that anyone who made, should just forget about turning her into his girlfriend.

Here’s “The best strategy for making her your girlfriend”

Have you been trying some other texting tricks that have worked for you before now? I will love to hear from you in the comment form down there and don’t forget to hit the Facebook Like below if you enjoy what you read here. I’ll be waiting for your comment. Cheer!

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  1. I propose to a girl I love soo much and even planning if possible we should get married..I trusted her,she told m lies I believed her because of her innocent face later to find out she was dating before meeting m……she broke up with me and I stil love her. how can I let go of this love I have for her even…I did another lover and I can’t give her my whole heart because what I have been through in the past

    1. The truth is that you have to let her go, she’s lied to you and realize that she prefer the other guy to you and ended up her relationship with you. You don’t need such girl because, chances are, she will do it again even if she comes back to you.
      You just have to dust yourself up and raise your head high, look around for other girl who will love just as much as you want in a woman.
      You have to move on, your own original girl is just around the corner. Sorry for the emotional trauma she allow you to go through.

  2. i propose the boy. i love u so much. but me do not know he is sincer with me.
    plz help me what i m doing? i donot leave my love

  3. I ave a gurl I lov so much buh somtin iz tellin she is pretendin bcuz of d way she act a times somtimz she will see me online she wont even buzz me nd she hardly call me nd she will b sayin she luv me am feed up nd ave luv her more dan mah self wat shuld I do cuz iz gettin 2 much

    1. How long have you been in the relationship or you guys are just getting started?

      You don’t have to be tired for now if it has not been long you get into the relationship. She might be testing your love for her.
      Don’t worry, that’s how girls behave something until they are convince that you really love them, then they become uncontrollable. You even get tired when she keeps calling on your attention.
      Except if she’s having another guys elsewhere, situation like that can also warrant the ignoring habit.

  4. Am inlove with this girl and have told her severally and she also loves me but she says she dose not want a relationship for now meanwhile i have not tell ha anything about us going through a relationship.. But i feel am doing it.. I need to tell her before i loose it.. She doesnt stay close to me.. I need a text to convince her pls

  5. sir,there’s this girl i love so much to the extent that jst a moment of absence from each other seem like hell itself.we can do funny and sometimes stupid things under the baptism of love.the problem here is that whenever i open up for sumthing more serious like taking the relationship to another level,she immediately grow cold and wiln’t say anytin.according to her;she’s jst happy with me.pls i jst don’t understand.

    1. You wouldn’t expect her to jump into the next level with you like that, she needs to think about it if really you worth it with her. Don’t blame her, you just need to let her understand you’re the best guy for her and you’re ready to be there for her always.

      If this is not the case, she might have something hiding from you and she’s not ready to reveal it to you at least for now but at the same time she can’t keep the emotion away from you whenever you make your move. Really, she need your assurance, she won’t want someone that will hurt her on the long run. It is not about taking her there, but how long can you sustain her in the new level. This is her worry and that’s why she grows cold whenever you talk about it.
      Are you sure of what you’re telling her or just because of the Romeo and Juliet sweeties love you’re currently experiencing with her is making you to push forward for more rewarding relationship?
      Think about it and your response will determine how serious she will take you in this regards.
      Thanks.

  6. i av a gel dat she is my frd family so wen i gos 2 my frd house i show d gel and i fall inluv wit her i disturb bt she did nt agree 2 date me dn i free her bt leta we meet on watsapp and we bcm frnd she told me everytin abt her and xame tin abt me 2.she told me abt is bf dat is guy is giving her problem and i always motivate her dat she should calm down leta i see dat she use 2 call me morn and nite spending tym wit me on watsapp and i play wit her dat y she like me and she say dat she did nt like me she luv me and i say pls marry me and she say i wish she av meet me b4 she meet his bf and i say knw problem.and she always mention dat she wnt 2 see me even during there matric day in skul she invite me bt i did nt go.nw am confuse of wot 2 do and i luv her pls help me.

    1. Do what your mind tells you and don’t make it seems complicated. It’s just plain simple, follow your mind and see how it goes.

  7. sir, there is this girl I met two years ago I really love her,we do talk then or at times follow her home..but I never told her I loved her then. we eventually lost contact ,there is this her friend DAT I knw I proposed to her friend this year and she accepted and she knows I love her friend though I didn’t tell her then….we were just chatting one day and I just made mention of that her,she then gave me her number ,luckily we study in the same! school so we met….I discovered that , that feeling I used to have for her was still dea..we started talking on watsap and I just CNT stop telling her I love her not knowing DAT she do tell her friend DAT I was dating day I do disturb her …her friend later got to know and we broke up….she was d one that helped me in telling her I love her but she would say she. doesn’t love me…but we still meet and her behavior sometimes shows she loves me,becoz an ordinary friend CNT b doing such..I want u to advice me on wat to do I really love her and she knows..buy she’s giving me tough time

    1. If you really love her, pursue her to your satisfaction. I don’t think she’s really giving you tough time, though she might be proven hard to get but the ball is in your court. You can give her some times if she seems not to recognize love for her and watch how she behave when you do as if you’re not interested in her. This will give you a cue if really she’s just playing hard to get for you or she already has someone else in her life.

  8. Hey!am in love with a girl and she too loves me, but she is playing hard to get. The last time I told her how I feel about her, she started playing the same way by telling me that she’s older than me and that we are friends now no need to be lovers. Please sir how to make her see me as a dating material or a relationship material. Thanks

    1. You need to prove to her first that, you’re older than her with your maturity except if she’s really sure, then you will find it hard to get her along with you.

  9. charbel younes

    Hey, im 17years old, finished college, and am an athletic/artistic guy. I need help to try to get a girl because im feeling so wrong in front of my friends (im not a nice guy or bad boy, just realistic). I tried with so many girls, but none gave me interest : i never kissed (lips, cheeks) or hugged a girl :/ , and i dont want to turn 18 without a girl. Please i need some hooking strategy

  10. charbel younes

    I followed other guides about what to do, but im not seeing results. I need a logical and effective way to get a girl. (I used to be a girl-independent guy, but now i cant hold it anymore).

    1. Start interacting with girls everywhere you go. I think the best kind of girls that will really have the time to interact with you are the ones that are paid to do so with you. I mean salesgirls, they will always want to talk with you about their company products and you can use them to gain confident by asking several questions, teasing and cracking jokes with them.

  11. sir, why is it that any girl that love a guy hardly expose her feelings to the guy? rather they will want the guy to walk up to them and toast them.

    1. It’s just natural.
      Women are conservative especially at the approaching stages but you will get to see the other side of them when eventually they fall in love with you.

  12. This girl and i have been a casual friend for a long time and she have a boy then but now they have broke up but i don’t know how to tell her my feelings for her. she always tell me everything about her ex boy friend and whenever they have problem i always advice her but now they have broke up i don’t know how to tell her that i love her so much

  13. Sir,I have a girl that we are friend but alone the line I ask her out due to the love I have for her and she refuse, am still disturbing her and I just went to her side one day she just huge me and I did the same to her, but to my surprise she still refuse to date me and after some few days I just heard that she just say yes to another guy. But I love this girl more than myself, pls what should I do for me to gain her heart

    1. If she has said yes to another guy, then you need not labour hard about her any more. Her heart belong somewhere and not with you now. I will advice you to go look for another girl, losing her to another guys is never going to end your world, it’s just an opportunity for you to explore more and learn more about girls, this will help you to understand them more and be able to know which girl will likely want to date you.

      You might have put yourself in friendship zone with her and she doesn’t see you as a potential lover before giving her heart out to someone else.

  14. Good evening!
    I’m apparently in a situation where my girlfriend’ who knows I’m double dating’ feels insecure, thinking I love the other one more than the way I love her. But, she’s wrong, cos I love her even more than the way I love the other one, and as a matter of fact, I’ve been doing everything within my capability jes to make her understand my actual feelings, but to no avail, she’s still not convinced… I sincerely don’t know what to do now.

    1. Not until you completely do away with the other girl, there’s no way you can convince her.

      So, do away with the girl and let her confirm that, you have nothing with the other girl again and you promise not to go back to her or any other girl as far as both of you are still together.

  15. I love a girl so much but she told me that she is been taken but she seems interested what should I do about her and I have never been in love before this is my first love. pls I need your advise

  16. I don’t have any comment but need your advice or tip to convince a lady I love so much. Have been trying to make her know that I love her and that I want to marry her but all she keep saying is that she not convince yet, have been trying to be part of her but her master program is not making it easy for me cos most of the time she go straight to school from work and on Sundays, she will definitely have something to do or preparing for Monday. Please I need your help, she still single, though she use to be in a relationship before the guy relocated to UK and the guy decided to end the relationship even though they still talk on phone.

    1. Do you have an idea of what they discuss on phone?

      Do the lady in question tells you about the break up and you’re sure of the break up truly?

      Well, I think there’s something hidden that’s not so clear to you. Of course you might not have convinced her enough for forget about the other guy in UK, there’s something still keeping them together.
      It is the things, that’s preventing her from seeing the true you and your sincerity.
      When a heart fall in love and it get deep, it takes lots of time before it can let go completely.

      What I can advice is this, try as much as possible to prevent her from reaching the other guy or if you can get the guy’s number in UK, call him as friend and find out the state of his relationship with her.
      What you get from your finding will help you a lot if you’re going to get her.
      Going from work to school is not really a barrier. The actual barrier is the connect between her and the guy in UK.

      If the guy can be completely out of her life, it won’t be long before she sees the sincerity in you.

  17. I am inlove with a girl who is also truly inlove with me,but due to the fact that her friend was my exgirl friend,she said if accept me she won,t be able to look at her friend’s face again.please help me what should i do to convince her? i love her so much.

  18. Thanks for ur post sir,

    I propose to a girl for my friend and she refused but she used to me, testing me and now fall for her myself. What should i do

    1. You’ve got to ignore her, except you want to betray your friend.

      I will advice you to keep your friendship and let the girl be.

  19. She’s my closet friend for now and her ex is actually like a friend and brother to me too. Tho they were dating before we all became friends But the guy is a flirt as in he’s very good at it. He actually older than me with about 10 years. The both of them have broken up now and he has a new girlfriend he says to us that he’ll marry and he’s still disturbing my friend, he’s ex to come back to him which she tells me but he’s not aware that she tells me and the girl is of the same age group with me and I really love her. I’ve tried my best to not think about asking her out, it’s just not working out. I don’t know what to do. My pals I shared it with said I should tell her how I feel but I’m still confused.
    Sorry it was lengthy.

  20. i proposed to a girl nd her response is dat she isnt ready for relationship, so i need ur help on how to win her heart coz i really love her so mucb

  21. i am 18 nd i have neva been in a relationship before……there was this girl i love so much buh i ddnt knw if she love me too buh wot i just notice is dat anytime another guy is tryin to toast her and she see me around she will leave d guy and come and meet me…….

  22. I have been following this girl for 2months now , each time I asked her do she love me? she will keep quiet, but d very first day I made my intention known to her, she then said she has a guy that she can’t serve two masters but 1week later she kept telling me to give her time, but just yesterday I called her asked her for out, so I then asked her again if she loves me? then she still told me that she can’t serve two masters,, this morning again she called me very early to say good morning to me,,,,, pls help me for I don’t know what to do pls,,,, I love the girl so much

  23. please sir,there’s this girl I met last week. I tried to show her how I care but she’s turning everything down. telling me to go and look for a girl that will take care of me…. pls what’s needed of me

    1. YOu’ll continue to let her see reason why you actually want her and not another girl.

      But if she has been taken, I’ll advice you to go look for another girl as she has said.

  24. Sir, was just going through your page, well I need you help on this. I have a gf and we have been dating for about 3 years and we broke up and came back again after 8 months and I gave her everything a man would give to his woman. But rcently she came up with some funny attitude in any little quarry she will say let’s just break up, though she cheats but I don’t care and she’s not honest and don’t act to other guy mostly her ex that she’s in a relationship. Recently she told me that she does not love me that’s she has been pretending that she do that the love is not working. And she ended the relationship. But am still surprised because I did her no harm and no fight she has be the one cheating with married men sending nude pic. Sir plz I need you advice of to let her go or not thanks I have lot to say but can’t just type much .

    1. My best advice to you as brother and friend is to LET HER GO!

      Honestly, if these few words you wrote here is true, you shouldn’t have anything to do wit her.

      Please run as fast as your leg can carry.

  25. Hello. Am avin a problem with this new gurl i met, i seriously luv her but i dont really know mayb she luvs me too. I met her nd she gave me her number, we do talk on fone but she dont seem to get intrested in me, sumtim she wont pick my call nd sumtims wen she does she has 1 complain to make soundin lyk am disturbin her. She lives in my street most tym we see each oda, we do talk lyk we had sumtin betwin us but wen i asked her out she said she has sum1 else, i dont tink shes sayin d truth. pls tel me wat to do, cus i really luv her.

    1. You need to still have some patience, since you met her newly.
      Give her some time, I’m sure she’s understudying you too, that is if she has nobody already.

  26. I have a girlfnd we stayed close by and as we packed off de area she is sayin am cheatin on her because I do not cll her every day and do not com to her place regularly now she is saying if I am no more interested in her I should just open up tll her an m thinkin she’s gotten someone

    1. She might not necessarily has got someone else but she just need your attention.
      Although she’s supposed to understand that you’ve moved away from her, where you do see her every time you wish to see her, even when you don’t, you still go out and meet her.

      Just give her some attention and see how the tune will change.

  27. sir am in love wth a girl in my church but i havent talk to her one on one but we do talk on whatsapp and wenever i text her she do read but dont reply me nd am very shy to talk to her one on one sir wat shld i do?

    1. Face your fear, that’s the only way to learn and become master in toasting girls anywhere.

      Just chart up with her and tell her you want to meet her.
      It is something you can’t shy away from.

      Once you meet her, you may not necessarily tells her you love, just be familiar with her, getting to know more information about her, crack jokes and make yourself interesting to her so that, she can always respond when next you want to see her.

      If you are able to meet her one on one for the first time and you talk like even 5 minutes, the pressure will let you off.
      You may feel more pressure when you’re about meeting her, but the truth is that, she might also be feeling the same pressure, but if you allow yours to be too obvious, she may want to gain confidence over you.

  28. sir, i met with a girl at my jamb tutorial right back in 2014, she colleted my note and she is absent 4 about 1week, i inform her friend 2 let me inform her to return my note and she do so and appaulogise, but i love but then i don’t understand luv. we wrote jamb i gain admission into futminna she into kwara state college of health tech. i later got her no true searah engine and add her on whatapp but when ever i text her she do ignore me and i luv her more than any other female in this world except my mum and is likeness.please!!! help me, cos my equation of life is not complete without her please!…

  29. sir i hav a gal dat luv me nd i luv her bt i dnt knw how to ask her out. The day i write a leta to her she camed to me nd insult me. Bt i was just calm sir please advice me.

    1. The days of writing letter has long gone, you can’t be doing that in the 21st century.

      Be bold and talk to her what you really want, she can’t slap you and each time you try, you’re getting more confidence
      approaching woman.

      For a better approach, where you can not get any rejection from any woman, go get my guide, the one I called “No Rejection Approach System”

      Learn more about it HERE

      https://iloverelationship.com/attract-woman-turn-girlfriend/

      You will be glad you get the guide because, you’ll become master toaster, that I can assure you.

  30. i have a girl i wooed first day she told me she wouldn’t like to dissapoint me nor her present bf,latere i knw she live around my area whe she too knw she been visit me and spend time with me have fun together most time rock how she drasticall end up with those guys,so i try my 2nd chance which she say No nor Yes and keep visit around me,pls come to my aid

  31. pls sir ,there is dis I met through a friend of mine .we went out together .and since after that day I set my eyes on her .I av always admire her

    but I need ur help on how to win her heart .please

    1. You’ve got to know about her first and get closer to her, be her friend but don’t get into friendship zone, that she think nothing of you, except being your friend.

      Be friendly, show care and she will reciprocate by getting to closer to you.

  32. Sir there’s this girl I love so much and she loves me too but the problem is she has refused to accept my relationship proposal due to the fact that her heart has been broken before, how do I prove to her that I am a different guy who won’t do same to her?

    1. How will you too guarantee her that, you will never leave her, even when things goes wrong between the two of you?

      You see, she does not want to have such excruciating experience anymore and that’s why, she’s going to take lots of her time.
      Yes, over time, she’ll get heal and understand that, she cannot continue to stay lonely. Your present in her life should be to care for her and let her see you as true friend.

      Stay around her whenever you get the chance, don’t try to force her accepting your proposal, just ensure she likes and talk with you.
      Let her see you as someone she can call if she feels like talking to a guy.

      Gradually, she’d let down her guard and sees you as someone she can actually relied on.
      At this stage, you’ve already won her heart, because she will be longing for your call when you’re not around.

      If you do these things, you’ve proven a point to her that, you’re different guy and when you bring up the topic, it will be hard for her to reject you.
      If fact, she would have been expecting you to talk about it.

      This is how to prove to her, you’re different guy.

      Cheer.

  33. Hello sir, there is this girl i have known for about for years online without seeing, and just last week i saw her and she has be very nice to me for the past 4 years as a friend and when we met we meet out, but after that day she was angry she said she wanted to date me that we already meet out already. but the problem is this she said she love me and she still love another of her best friend but she don’t know whom to choose inside both of us and she shares same feelings for both. and both of `us and she has meet out with the both of us too. and i don’t want to let her go what should i do? she said shes confuse that she doesn’t know whom to choose and me i don’t want to let her go i watched her grow because i knew her since 17. what should i do?

    1. Prove to be different by your care, get to know about her whereabout every time, give her call in the morning, afternoon and night.
      Show her that you really care for her and that she will not be making any mistake by choosing you over the other guy.

  34. Hello sir good afternoon and hope you having a blessed Sunday? Thanks for your nice response regarding to what I asked. Sir there’s another thing about this girl I wrote about that have known for over four years and finally we met this year. Sir the problem about our friendship now is this 1, the guy in the meddle and 2, we have had sex and I don’t feel her friendship like I use to before because she said the guy that’s in the middle also had sex with her too and now her attitude changed kind of because she said I don’t know how to talk most times.she talk to me rudely sometimes and also said that I should go with my feelings that she doesn’t need it. But am confuse because I love her and she does too the problem here is this I don’t know if I should let her go or stay because she always say she needs space . anytime I tell her how much I love her she don’t reply with it or even say thanks but she don’t want to let me go. She said she want to come and see me and she knows when she comes we gonna have sex again and she don’t want that and she’s going back to Nigeria so she’s coming to see me before she lives. Sir the thing here is this I love her and another guy loves her too and she’s in love with both of us but she’s closer to that other guy. What should I do?

    1. If you feel it that she’s closer to the other guys, then ask me, who is she going with.

      She can’t keep both of in the relationship, definitely she’s going to love one person than the other person.

      If she want to stay with you, she will let you know, if she doesn’t want, you can even know from her interaction with you.

      Whatever be the outcome, just follow your heart. Leaving her does not mean, you’re not going to meet another lady.

      Thanks

  35. Thier is dis girl i love so much, i approach her nd tell her my mind, she said dat she like me but she had a boy friend, i tell her not to vex dat i should ab knw dat a pretty girl like her no supose to dey single, as i wan leave she call me back nd ask me my name i tell her, we exchange numba…after few months she tell me dat her bf no care abt her anymore, dat he dont call or pick her calls, i asked her wat she s intend to do she say dat she dnt knw, she say sometin like she need my advice, so i tell her not to gv up on d guy dat he will cum back.she say ok, after weeks she cm back nd tell me dat she av made up her mind to break up wit him, i didn’t say anytn, she start coming close to me dat even make my guys calling her my girl..after weeks she ask me sometn like if i still love her like befor, i reply her wit suprise voice “yes” she say dat she love me, we start datin, but my problem is dat she keep on telling me about the guy..sometims if i stay wit her she will tell me dat she call d guy but he did not pick..bro wat should i am..am even tired

    1. Tell her that, inasmuch as she want to remain in relationship with you, she should stop calling the guy. Abi she wan double date ni?

      Let her know, you’re not comfortable with her anymore, since she started talking about the other guy and if she continue, the love you have for her will be getting reduced everyday.

  36. There’s this girl i admire alot and would want to date her if given an opportunity, but the thing is that the girl knows am dating someone else

  37. Is it possible for a girl to accept gift from the guy that proposed to her nd her answer was NO,if she had no feelings for him

  38. I proposed to dis girl,she said we can’t b dating coz guys r wicked, wen given chance dey will later change from loving dier girls nd start cheating on dem so I tried xplaining dat am different after sometime she saidwe r on d same street nd even living next to each other dat I shuld let go,after xplaining ow much I love her den she later said she has some1 she is dating bt I do sensed it dat she is lieing coz she do pick up my calls wenever I called her nd she always read my love text dat I send bt since den she hasn’t said anything abt aving some1 else..d fact is dat I love dis girl so much dat I can’t let her go..shuld I keep on trying..?

  39. Sir,,am in higher institution, i met a girl last week,though she is not in my department,,but as we was going to general course lecture,i set my eye on her,i started developing interest for her,i collected her number on that day,but later i toast her,but the girl is telling me that she is not interest in relationship for now. what should i do?? i love the girl,even i don’t know the reason why i love her,i just did. please help me..

    1. If you’re sure she’s not in any other relationship, you can still press on.

      Show her that you care by your gesture, gist with her, talk to her often, the closer you are to her, the better your chances, but don’t loose sight on her and become too familiar, if you do, you may just end up in friendship zone.
      If both of you are actually having a nice time out, laughing, you can always bring the talk about how much you really want he in your life.

  40. yahaya
    I proposed to dis girl,she said we can’t b dating coz guys r wicked, wen given chance dey will later change from loving dier girls nd start cheating on dem so I tried xplaining dat am different after sometime she saidwe r on d same street nd even living next to each other dat I shuld let go,after xplaining ow much I love her den she later said she has some1 she is dating bt I do sensed it dat she is lieing coz she do pick up my calls wenever I called her nd she always read my love text dat I send bt since den she hasn’t said anything abt aving some1 else..d fact is dat I love dis girl so much dat I can’t let her go..shuld I keep on trying

  41. sir there is this girl I love,she don’t have a boy friend and propose to her ,she said she likes me but she didn’t feel for me the way I do to her,what will I do.whene ever I talk to her she respond me in a romantic way

    1. YOu’ve got to prove to her that, you really mean it.
      Show her more care, love and joke with her.

      It’s a matter of time, she will want to be seeing you around her.
      That’s is to say, the game has just started.

  42. sir goodmorny, pls sir i receive one girl number to propose to her, due to my searching, am a somebody who work full time in the work of GOD, so i call d lady n we discuss better later he asked me what kind of job am i doing i said is the work of GOD, he said fine what of extral work i said am doing full time in the ministry, we discuss like three to four time before he change, i discover that is because i said i have no other job, later i meet her on whatzapp i send funny text to her he reply, i now ask her question d reason why he refuse to pick my call, i told her my feelings he quarel to me and said she is not instresting again, i ask her why he said she is okay for now but i really love her because her senior sister want her to marry me, pls what can i do to get her mind back to me pls.

    1. Women don’t like to hear you have no job.
      What kind of work of God are you doing full time that you’ve got no time?

      You see, that’s why she’s even asking you further, that what other extra job do you have. You can define the kind of work you’re doing in the house of God and let her see the possibilities of you taking adequate care of her.

  43. I am in love with a girl…now the thing is I don’t school in Nigeria, and we only see during my vacations which are usually 3months and sometimes a month, we are actually family friends, am sort of a good guy lol, I have actually bonded with everyone in the family and as soon as she came back from Europe we became really close and in love, it was really obvious but I noticed that when am away she becomes loose has thisb guy…and lies about it, I had to find out for myself from one of her sisters,I found out a few things. She really shows me that she loves me, gives me Compliments,she can go out of her way to make me happy …always wants me around, when we make out it really gets to her tells me how much she loves my company and how I touch her, I play piano to her sing and she so much loves it,believe me I see love blazing in her eyes but she has never really given me full details about that guy, I don’t know what to do Cuz this isy kind of girl.

    1. Inasmuch as she loves you, she will tell you more about the guy.
      It’s possible she’s afraid to talking about the other guy with you.
      You know, some guy don’t like to hear anything about another guy in the life of their woman.

      Just continue to show her love and let her understand that distance is not a barrier to the love you have for her.

  44. sir there is a girl in my school I loved buh while in school, we don’t really talk like that so when we went on summer break I toasted her buh she refuse saying that she is not ready for any guy nw. sir I sincerely love her what should I do

  45. Hi sir,dia is a girl am crushing wen we were both in secondary sch tho she is a junior to me den,I asked her out buh I gt rejected telling me dat,she dnt want to be used nd dump by any senior since I was in final class den,,recently I saw her on facebook I really wish d gel is mine,we chatted nd I asked her can she cumover to my place dat we have alots to talk on,she agreed on cuming.I opened up ma mind for her again dat I really want a serious relatnshp wt her buh she keep on saying dat she can’t date any guy of my sets frm sch bt I notice she keep on staring at ma face secretly,,,,now I need ur advice nd again dnt u tink she av smth fr me for sum reasons,,,1 she came my place. 2 she wasn’t afraid despite we were alone in my room

    1. Of course, she has interest in you and if you can prove to her further, that you’re serious about the whole thing, I’m sure, she will be yours.

  46. there is 1 girl dat am dating sir wen we first I dnt luv her but it reach sum extent she wan live me because I dnt ave sex with her I start seeing wit other guys she tink dat I can nt do nd I luv her I don’t wnt to loose her nd I start giving her face like asking she nw start pretending as if she doesn’t like sumtin like dat I don’t knw wat to do help me sir

    1. Just be yourself.

      Sometimes, ladies can be complicated.

      This is why you need to be yourself.
      If you don’t want sex, don’t let her behaviour push you to it.

  47. there’s dis girl i love in my work place but weve jus been having eyecontacts and few talks
    she always looks at me and removes her eyes immediately shes caught.she also snobs me smetimes but i know she really loves me
    plz wot can i do

    1. Approach her and tell her your feelings, she might be feeling the same way.

      Since both of your are having eyes contact, then you can just approach her and ask her for little time to have some talk with her.
      Then, tell her what you feel.

  48. i toasted a girl but she hasnt agre then we fought and since dat tym she never pick mai cals but i love her what should do

    1. Maybe, she’s not for you.
      Just let her go and look for other girl.

      There’re so much more outside there, instead of wasting your time with her, get talking with another babe.

  49. Hi there wise one pls I have been in love with this girl for some time and I have try making friend with and express my filling towards her but she said she have a guy but she will think about it but all the time she is busy texting me all the time.. I don’t kw what to anymore pls help me

    1. It’s obvious, she’s into you but she might be having a boyfriend elsewhere and the relationship is faulty, so, you’ve got a bigger chance.

      You her that you care, and actually go out to prove that care to her.

  50. hi sir,dia is a girl am dating for a year now and she is following another guy and I want to marry d girl which I told her but her respond is much encouraging.I love d so much what can I do to her

    1. You need to find out what actually happened, why is she following another guy when she’s already dating you.

      Ask her if you have done anything wrong that she doesn’t like.

      You need to find out, what’s interesting her from the other guy.

      All of these will help you to know what kind of promise you’ll need to make for her, to keep her stay with you.

      If it is something both of you can discuss, you’ve got to seat her down and discuss issue.

      No relationship with issue, you must trash out whatever it is that’s keeping distance between both of you.

  51. Hi, there is this girl that I like whom i texted that I liked her when I was drunk. She knew I was drunk and when I called later to explain myself to her, she said I should let it go. I was feeling bad so I stopped chatting with her for a while after which I later continued. If it is quite a while we’ve chatted, she texts to ask me how I am. I was wondering what the point is in asking after me is she doesn’t like me. So now am a little cautious of talking sensitive matters with her. So pls how do I go about it cos I still like her a lot even if I don’t show it to her.

  52. I have dated a girl for six years now … and we love and trust each other … she is. bit far from me … we always have date twice a years.. are my in right relationship..

  53. i love dis girl very much and i proposed to her and she said d relationship can’t work out after dat she stop Picking my calls plz wat should i do

  54. I have a girl that I truly love but she’s not reciprocate my love back have try to all I could to confused her but it not working and she’s always jealous whenever she see me with woman and she always call me but she keep on saying she can’t date me please I need your advice is she pretending or what… …?

  55. Hey quick question… Been with my girl living together for almost six years. She has a daughter that I’ve raised that whole time that adores me… Recently she said she isn’t in love with me… I moved out we still stay in contact… Is she done or is there a way to make her fall in love again? It seems like six years is a long time to just give up and throw away

    1. It means all these while, she’s just pretending to love you.
      Maybe her heart is with someone else, especially the guy she bore the baby girl for.

      I think you should just move on.
      Has she contacted you ever since she told you no more love?

  56. Desmond Emmanuel

    have been toasting a girl for the past two month n she still never look to me,she dey form porch,but me love her n want to date her,so what can I do to gain her heart

    1. Be persistent or try another approach or just ignore her and look for other babe who will not give you too much stress.
      Two month is damn too much friend.

  57. Hi sir,I need hint on how to approach that lady.though I just met her but I can feel it deep down in my heart that I really love her,I don’t want her to just think am a player cos she may just say we met recently .so sir I want you to give me clue on how to make her believe that I love her.I await your reply sir

  58. how can i make a girl in my house likes and also falls in love with me. She knows i like and i need something from her

  59. Ever since i met this girl, my heart have keeping beating. she travel the third day we met.
    Please how can i hook up with her sir?

  60. I met a girl and I tell her that I love her, she told me that she will think about it… Later she send her younger brother to me. To give me her number after I asked her about her num and she give me, and she give me time to call which I did unfortunately the immediately I call her in that time she picked my call she just told me that hey u call me I hang it and u still call me don’t you know that I’m in sad mood please what should I do

    1. Text her with romantic apologetic text, even though you’re not aware she’s was in a sad mood. This is just to smoothen things for you when next you call.

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