3 Sure Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To Marry You

3 Sure Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To Marry You

There are several men out there who are only interested in you keeping them accompany. Of course, you will believe you’re dating and you’re in a relationship with him, but in his mind, you’re just keeping him accompany.

You may have been promised heaven and earth but when it gets to some certain issues, often times, he will switch the topic to another topic in which he will be more relaxed.

Ways To Know If A Man Is Going To MarryIf you’re not the type that really observe this trend, and allow him to always have his ways, in diverting important issue like marriage to another less important issues, such as taking you out to fast food joints, museum, and other recreational centers. You’ll remain in such attachment for many years to come.

Until you will one day stand your ground and determine to know, why he is always changing marriage talks to other less important issues, you may never get married; he will just waste your time.

You as a woman don’t have much time to waste because, when it get to certain stage in your life, you may lose those charming beauty that get more men attracted to you. He might even decide to dump you when he sees that you’re already getting old.

So, how do you know if a man is going to marry you and not a time waster?

I will be sharing with you 3 sure ways to know is a man is a marrying kind, there may be other pointer to prove that, but these three will give you a clue of how any guy will welcome the issue of marriage and get set for the preparation in earnest.

1. A marriage minded man will always be positive about marriage

At any time you raise the issue of marriage, a marriage minded guy will surely speak positive of it as well as other people’s marriage.

He will be open to such discussion and how both of you can quickly find ways to get it settled. On the other hand, if he speaks negative of it and condemn other people’s marriage, be sure, he’s not the marrying kind of man you want.

If he’s seeing marriage troubles rather than the benefit, he’s not a kind of man that will accept marrying you even though; he may profess it with his mouth. He is never going to be committed and you should just gently find you way and get out of his life before he waste the good part of you

2. Getting along with woman is not his problem

Don’t wonder away with what is being written up there, what that statement really mean is that, a marriage minded man will trust women in general.

This kind of man is the one who have had a positive relationship with woman in his life, from his mother to elder and younger sisters. He finds it easy going with his female friends as well as female co-workers.

He has developed the necessary skills to maintain healthy relationship with woman. These men have a greater understanding of women, or at least have come to peace with gender differences, and are less likely to see women as the enemy.

3. A marriage minded man is ready to settle down

This kind of man has passed the stage of life where all he wants is just the fun and freedom of relationship. I’m not saying here that, the man does not value freedom and fun in relationship but what I’m trying to put across is that, he does not take them as his main focus in the relationship.

He will think of finding a soulmate rather than just the fun dating someone. He will be more interested in building a home. On the other hand, if a man jokes about marriage and often advice people to value their freedom above woman, just be sure he’s not the type you need, he’s not of the marrying kind.

That is it, the 3 sure ways to know if a man is going to marry you, if in all what you observe about, it fall short of any of these 3 ways above, you will need to redefine your relationship with such man.

If you enjoy this post, I will want to hear from you, what you think, what was your experience with some of these men that don’t want marriage for now but to just enjoy the freedom and fun of relationship?

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  • Amanda

    Hello,
    I have just met a guy, and this guy started to chat with me, and after a while he asked me if I wanted to marry him. He asks me if I have any problem with that, and I tell him no.
    He speaks to me about his plans for have babies, and how much he wishes to see me carry his babies.
    As the chat goes on, he starts to talk sex, like if he is really about to do it on the time of the chat, continues the sex talk like if it was a real act.

    Does this guy really mean to marry me? Does this act seem to be from a serious man who really wants to marry?

    Please, I really need your advice about this matter.

    Thanks.
    Amanda

    Posted on March 20th, 2014
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Probably not, I don’t think so but come to think of it, whatever he’s talking about when you guys were chatting does not mean it is real. However, when he started talking about S.ex, as in seriously, I don’t think he mean it to marry you. He may just hit and run.

    Posted on March 21st, 2014
  • Agreement Uwah

    can I partner with you?
    I’ve written thousands of books on love/relationship.
    #facebook/agreementuwah.com#

    Posted on February 16th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    It depend on your offer, though I hardly go into partnership with an individual on this blog because of their offer, I’d rather do it as affiliate or better still as a sponsor ads or article.

    It is not about having thousands of books on love and relationship but it’s about knowing what the people really want and not what you think they need.

    Posted on February 17th, 2015
  • Valentine

    What if it is a woman that is playing u and dnt want to open up, what will d guy do? Cos i am into it now serious one

    Posted on May 19th, 2015
  • Mary

    my guy anytime I talk about marriage he doesn’t respond well does it mean he can’t marry me or he’s not just ready for marriage

    Posted on May 30th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    It depend but mostly, the financial implication give lots of guys some concerns and you’ll expect them to find it difficult to response well when question about marriage is put to them. This might likely be one of the thing that bother your guy Mary.
    Away from that, any guy you’re in relationship with, that does not response well about marriage discussion is probably not ready for marriage and might likely not end up with you.

    Posted on May 30th, 2015
  • Ifunanya

    My guy always talk about marriage, bt dose it means dat he ll marry me nd he do tel me if i get pregnant i should nt remove it, bt i still want 2 further my education.

    Posted on May 31st, 2015
  • Esomonu Onyinye

    What if a man does these three things and as well, tell you that his parents said you must marry in his village not from another tribe or ethnic group.

    Posted on August 5th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    That one is left for the man to determine.
    In this and time, no one should tell you where to marry from,the decision should come from ones heart and the hunger for love he or she desire.

    Posted on August 5th, 2015
  • chinenye

    Chinenye
    after my x guy break my heart since over 4 years now I hadly fall in love with some one else until I finally fall for a prayer warrior in mountain on fire but we are in love with each other ..but pretending to each other so madly in love with him to the extence DAT I want to live my working place because of him as a man he has a strong heart clause he dont do girl Frnd dou to the nature of his Christian city level I mist t confesse becous I think am dying in silent cause I HV never love someone like dis since my life before pls am dying in silent someone should tel me what to do or should I quite my job because him?

    Posted on August 5th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Please don’t quit your job even if you’re too sure about his love for you.

    Posted on August 5th, 2015
  • adaobi

    I was in a relationship Dat lasted for 3yrs, I know he loved me so much Dat he took me to his family and my family knows him too, even all his friends became mine, when I brought out marriage issues he doesn’t divert, he discussed along with me he calls me day and night for Dat 3yrs,until one day he called and said so many lies at same time to cover up and finally told me the relationship is over and said am desperate.

    Posted on August 14th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    He’s not interested in marrying you in the first place.
    After three years, how can he still see you as desperate.

    I’m sure, he’s already going out with someone else or he has another person all along.
    Please follow your heart at the stage.

    Posted on August 20th, 2015
  • Edemokon

    when a girl u lov ask u to stay away 4her on till u get marry to her,reason is’her xguy who is a cult guy treting to kill her if she do’nt come back to him so bcause of tht she when & join cult too so she can fight him is it true or she one to use that to push me out pls i need ur help pls

    Posted on August 20th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Don’t entangle yourself into trouble you may not survive to tell the real story about how it happens. Stay off and find love somewhere else, it may be painful now but it’s just for a little time, rather than sticking to her and later be agonizing for the rest of your life.
    Stay off please, that’s my candid advice for you Okon.

    Posted on August 21st, 2015
  • Juliet

    HI i am juliet i need to kwn if this guy really want to marry me,we meet jus 2days n he is demnding to sleep with me.HE started with marrige and he said he wants me to be pregnants before he takes me to the alter.PLS advice me.

    Posted on September 1st, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Run fast as far as your leg can carry you.
    I’m very sure, he wants you for sex and nothing more.

    Posted on September 1st, 2015
  • Kim nana

    Am 21yrs old am dating a guy dat is in d Sam age with me but gap me with months… Dis guy happens to love and care for me though we are in school higher institution d same level, he keeps on planning his future with me dat when we are true wihot our university level he will get married to me.. I love him bcos hewn has shown me he a guy of difference, he is really different from oda guys have dated, i don’t want to loose him, pls i want to know is it possible we can end up together

    Posted on September 16th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Very much possible if you’re meant to be together forever. Play your part well and pray to your creator to help you mold your relationship. Your guy too should play his part well too.

    Posted on September 18th, 2015
  • nella

    A guy i met about 9months now when i ask him when he is settling down though he has not being paid yet ever since he resumed his new work said when they starts paying him he wants to rent an apartment go into business plan and get a car before planning to settle down i dont just know what to do if to walk away from d relationship please advice me

    Posted on October 12th, 2015
  • Amos Blessing

    i have a friend we have been dating for two yrs now and he takes care of me since two years he hasn’t talk about marriage to me and bothered even my family members too gossip everywhere what will i do pls.

    Posted on November 2nd, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Sit him down and play with him, you can even romance him and let him feel good, then you can tell you him, you have something bothering you and you want it clear. I’m sure he’ll listen to you and waste no time since his attention has been caught, ask him about marriage that your family is interest in meeting who you want to marry.

    Posted on November 2nd, 2015
  • Ijeoma

    I met a guy for close to 3months nw and all he has been telling me z to be his life partner of wch he has conclude dt he has already taken me as that. wch i hv nt yet tod him dt i hav accepted him but frm my responds to him tells him dt am intrested nd right inside of me i have accepted him. Now he knowing dt am a student has never for one day and ask how am cooping talk of making an effort to snd me some money to help mysef.and wen u brng d issue of marriage he wil divert to another topic dt wil make him feel relax wch is less important.so plz advice me shud i live him or wait for som tyms.although he has told me that he is cuming to see my people by January 2016.how do i no he z telling me the truth when he can not even assist me with the little he can do.

    Posted on November 5th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Give him something but he has to be sensitive about your schooling since he’s aware you’re still a student. If he can’t remember to ask about how you’re coping now, it is just a sample of what is to come.

    Another way is that, you can ask him why he’s not care about your schooling, his response will determine how he value your schooling. Or are you in tertiary institution that he has never attended any before now.

    Just give him sometime and the issue of marriage should be discussed seriously and you need to ask the necessary guestion and get satisfied with his response. Three month might be too small, though if it is meant to be, then serious discussion has to take place between you both.

    Posted on November 5th, 2015
  • Lovelyn

    pls i met dis guy n we hv bin close 4 lyk 2 weeks i jst fell in luv wit hm completly bt d way he bhaves sometym he does nt always kal me always tok negative abt me though he bhave lyk a pastor bt i luv hm bt confuse coz i dnt knw if he wil reciprocate to it do u tink he luv me wat shud i do?

    Posted on December 14th, 2015
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    The period you met is too small to know if he truly loves you or not.
    Expect more complain but if it’s becoming too much, just carry yourself gently and leave him.

    Posted on December 15th, 2015
  • Folashadesusanna

    There is a guy I meant 2weeks ago on Badoo, we keep chat later he ask me out. After some days I went to his house that day we HV sex. ever since then he keep on saying he wants me to get pregnant And that he really love me which I know…… Am just 22 And he is 31 pls Advice

    Posted on January 17th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    The truth is, you’ve made one of the greatest mistake a lady can make, when visiting a guy for the very first time in his house and having sex with him. I can tell you with 100% guaranteed that, you’re going to be used and dumb.

    Please wise up and study a guy better before you can ever commit to having any kind of sexual relationship with him.

    What have you achieve or what exactly are you doing now?
    If you make the mistake to go marry someone because, he promise he loves you and you don’t have anything, you’re going to suffer from such marriage.
    Either you go learn something that can fetch you some money on your own, in case your husband don’t have much.

    The truth is, marriage in this age and time, require both husband and wife to be able to put something on the table to sustain the family.

    Don’t fall for men’s blatant lies and empty promises.

    Posted on January 17th, 2016
  • okpara juliet ogechi

    I meet a guy on fb, all of sudden find out both my best frd in secondry school know each other, he has been telling me how he loves me n he going to get me pregnant when he come back from spain in may, but d point is that i had a problem with that my Girl frd,she accused me of dating his boy friend, now she is married now, and she know d guy am dating, have already told my guy everything that conspire bw us, and he said should not worry he loves me, am in love with d guy, am still scared should i date him, n will he marry me with all this, am confused pls help me

    Posted on February 4th, 2016
  • dammy

    I av a guy dat we av been dating for almost 1and half years nw bt i dnt no any of his friend and family and me and d parent stay in d same town bt dey dnt no me wot shd i do

    Posted on February 12th, 2016
  • Jon Igu Mo

    I have smooth and excellent relationships with the female folks but most time it ends up in the bed the fact is I don’t want it so yet it keeps happening with almost all. How do I help myself from this situation or is it same with every man?

    Posted on March 23rd, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    It’s not the same with every man, though most men end up this way, but it is a thing of the heart.
    If you really determine not to let it happen, it won’t happen.
    Besides, the type of girl you meet too, may determine if you will end up in bed with her, within such short period.

    Just talk to yourself and learn self-control.
    You can also put off any act, that can lead to romance, because from there, it’s very possible you will end up in bed with any lady if you cannot control yourself.

    Posted on March 23rd, 2016
  • Jon Igu Mo

    Is it posible for two real lovers to end it and become just friends without strong feelings towards each other?

    Posted on March 23rd, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Very possible, if there’s a condition that can’t be met by both friend to become lover forever.

    Posted on March 23rd, 2016
  • Omolewa gift

    Hello i hav just met a guy dis guy is a lecture nd he as marry he two son’s dey ar living in different places dis guy promise to marry me differ dat he tell me his past and we hav being in relationship he care for me he concern about my schooling if i do wrong tin he should to correct me pls say he can marry me or he is pretending?

    Posted on April 16th, 2016
  • precious

    My relationship is exactly 1year nd 1month nd my bfrnd is d one talk to me abt marriage, i nw his family he calls me more dan i do he always want me to b around him doesn’t want any man to call or even chat me if possible but still cheat on me do u tink he will me or his pretending?

    Posted on June 29th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    It’s difficult to say if he still loves you or not.
    Men always love the chasing game because they prefer to always be hunter.

    But the truth is, if he really loves, he doesn’t need to go cheating on you.
    Has he been asking of something from you that you denied him?
    Don’t let another woman take away your man from you, do something and show him that, you really love him and you have come to stay and be his only wife.

    Posted on June 30th, 2016
  • Comfort

    Am 19 and i started dating this 33yrs amazing guy we r getting to 8months since we started and he’s already talking about marriage. But am scared that my parents won’t let me marry cos of my age. The relationship is godly and straight forward.

    Posted on July 25th, 2016
  • Ejura Yusuf

    We met at a Bakery. Exchange numbers. We kept talking. I told him I am a single mother, and he said he was I celebrate married with three kids. Divorced his wife when he found out she was dating her boss. He also advice ne to be careful with neb and life in general. I begin to like him. I hv gotten used to him dat I don’t want to loose him. But there was break in communication wen he ask me to visit him. Of which I said No. He promised never to ask again since dat will make me angry. Now I really want to see him. I told my dad about him n daddy said he wants to see him first. I told him n he didn’t say anything about it . Wat do I do? I don’t want to loose him.

    Posted on August 6th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    You can tell him how you know your dad will react, the kind of question he’s possibly going to ask him and tell him to just be free in his presence.

    Posted on August 8th, 2016
  • Divine favour

    My guy is serious about our marriage but he doesn’t have money at hand now what will I do

    Posted on August 18th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Marriage is not about having too much money before it can happen.
    Don’t let that be an excuse for you.

    If you love him, you can have your marriage and things will get better if both of you are not lazy.

    Both of you can make do with what you have now to get married if you’ve achieve the marriageable age.

    Posted on August 18th, 2016
  • Mma God

    Pls dear, der z a guy I grew up wt n right 4rm childhood they call us husband n wife. As we were growing we neva saw again till some yrs. later. Somtyms he talks abt having future with me bt doesn’t show seriousness and somtyms he discusses it with my mum & calls my mum his in law. He once introduced me 2his friend as his betrothed wife. Does it mean he’s serious…

    Posted on August 22nd, 2016
  • Mma God

    haven’t gotten response yet

    Posted on August 22nd, 2016
  • Omolola

    I av a guy wit me, he has been callin me since last yr bt d most confusin part is dat i dnt know how he got my numba, if i ask him he will say dat am d one dat gave him my no,he works at Lagos bt i lived in Ibadan, he comes to Ib sometimes once in a month bt d guy isn’t straightforward, anytime we want to see each oda,we always meet at a bar/coolspot,afta little discussion he will say dat we shuld go inside to av sex, he neva made mention of marriage, bt i use to tell him dat if he really wants to marry me, i will av my own shop coz am a chemist nd still in my higher education, he use to tell me dat he didnt av a lady in his life bt he do carry prostitutes,pls should i continue wit d relationship/quit?

    Posted on September 14th, 2016
  • dammy

    I av a guy dat we av been dating for almost 1and half years nw bt i dnt no any of his friend and family and me and d parent stay in d same town bt dey dnt no me wot shd i do
    Posted on February 12th, 2016

    Posted on October 12th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    I guess your guy is hiding something from you and it really proves he does not love you.
    Please get off from the relationship now, he’s just wasting your time.

    Posted on October 16th, 2016
  • ayo

    have been dating Dis guy for a year and nine month now he has a child an d baby mama want to com back but he said he doesn’t love her DAT it me he loves I also love him. an I didn’t mind marrying him but few days back a pastor (white garment church) gave me a revelation DAT he is goin to leave me I told him abt it and he said it a lie unless I want to leave him and I jst meet someone new DAT am beginning to like but he is a Muslim and am a Christian we have started seeing each other like a month back now and my boyfriend find out and was really hurt but he is willing to forgive me if I still want him back but am confused.

    Posted on November 15th, 2016
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Ayo try to follow your instinct.

    If you believe they guy is not going to leave you, you can both pray about and ask God to take control of everything.

    As per the new guy, I don’t have any issue with marrying another person with different religious believe, but you should be ready to become Muslim just like the new guy.

    In the African setting, 90% of times, it is the husband religion, that the wife will have to accept.

    Posted on November 20th, 2016
  • Tettehkie

    I met this guy on Eskimi, he’s 31 and i’m 29. We have been chatting for 41days now n he even came to visit me @ school. He’s giving me the necessary attention n care every woman will need 4rm her man. I can’t really tell if he’s in love with me but i do. I don’t want to loose him so what do i do?

    Posted on March 13th, 2017
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    He’s already building the process.
    Keep it cool, be sociable, show love, don’t pretend what you’re not.
    Let him see the kind of person you are and don’t forget to show care too.

    Posted on March 14th, 2017
  • sunebari gift kenule

    Hv dating this guy for 7yrs now, he was my first date and we are still 2geder.he family like’s me we are from desame place and we love each other very mush. Shuld I continous or wat.

    Posted on March 21st, 2017
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    What are you people waiting for after seven good years?

    If things are still going on well within both of you, then, there’s no reason why you’ll abandon him.

    You’ve been together for a very long time and by now, you should be preparing for your marriage.

    7yrs is just too long to be in a relationship and not yet married.

    Posted on March 21st, 2017
  • Mary Agana.

    If a man truly love you for marriage will he hide you away from his people or friends?
    2 since I met this guy even though my income is more than his,he has never given me anything I don’t know if he really love me.
    3′. He knows I am a widow but he is still coming to me for marriage how true is that? I have two kids is he really serious with the relationship or I should quit. Pls advice me.

    Posted on July 31st, 2017
  • CHIMAMKPA

    I met this guy for one month now and he calls some times not all the time, he always talk about how he loves me and how he wants to marry me. i don’t no if he really love me and wants to marry me pls i need advise on this
    Thanks

    Posted on October 13th, 2017
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    Depending on the man’s age, one month is too short to determine if he’s really going to marry you.
    But, you should do your home work, get to know who the guy is, his work, family and friend and have some little understanding about his personal person. Don’t give him your heart yet, the one month is just too close dear.

    Posted on October 25th, 2017
  • chimamkpa

    thanks so much for ur advise

    Posted on November 1st, 2017
  • EMPRESS

    I MET A GUY AND HE CLAIMS TO LOVE ME BUT HE WANT ME TO TAKE IN (GET PREGNANT) FOR HIM BEFORE ANYTHING CAN BE DONE DUE TO THE FACT THAT HE IS THE ONLY SON, AND HE PROMISED NEVER TO ABANDON ME ONCE AM PREGNANT. SHOULD I GO AHEAD TO TAKE IN FOR HIM OR SHOULD I WAIT FOR HIM TO MARRY ME FIRST BEFORE GETTING PREGNANT FOR HIM?

    Posted on October 13th, 2017
  • Anthony

    Anthony

    How long have you met him?

    Being the only son does not make him wanting you to get pregnant before anything can be done.

    what about if your family don’t accept you being pregnant before getting you married to a man?

    Please understand him well enough so as not to commit mistake that may mar your life.

    I understand no man what to marry a woman that cannot get pregnant, that will be an embarrassment to him and his family but so many thing can happen even after getting pregnant.

    Let your decision go inline with your faith.

    I wish you well dear.

    Posted on October 25th, 2017

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