Top Reasons For Divorce You Should Avoid To Sustain Your Marriage
Truth be told, it is not easy for two individual to come together as one. Each person has been brought up by different parenting style and often times, this particular type of parenting style has becomes individual’s way of life.
There’s no way the parenting style in which both couple are brought up can be the same, even if they are of the same tribe, race or country. Now, this individual will bring along their style into the marriage relationship,
Initially something might be ignored by the couple but as time goes on, each person will begin to feel the other person style is not too good for him or her and that might be the genesis of more trouble to come in the marital relationship.
No matter what the issue might look like, they can all be avoided provided the couple are ready to make amend and tolerate one another.
Here in this post, I want to show you 3 top reasons for divorce you should avoid in other to sustain your marriage.
1. Lack of communication
The truth is, if there’s proper communication between husband and wife, it will make them to understand each other and be willing to accept their imperfection, insofar they are also willing to make amend of whatever their partner do not really like in the marriage.
Communication is the bedrock of every successful relationship and marriage, the lack of it is always a misunderstanding of the other person which always leads to each other going separate ways.
Good communication will always help you to prevent marriage break up and you will be able to discuss issues that is affecting the marriage and find lasting solution to whatever the problem is.
2. Trust of one partner
Trust is one of the underrated causes of marriage break up that many people don’t really believe. When we talk about trust, we talk about having faith in your spouse. Truth is, trust is one of the leading factors that any relationship and marriage cannot do without. Immediately you begin to doubt your spouse, you’re already creating a kind of anxiety within yourself concerning your marriage. If you don’t trust your partner, your long term successful marriage goal cannot be attained.
3. Infidelity or extramarital affair
Infidelity is expected to be the number one reason for divorce but I don’t like placing it first because, before a partner will develop extramarital affair, there has been lack of good communication between them.
When the wife or husband cannot express his or her sexual desire to the other person, and funny enough, such partner is expecting a good response from the spouse for a better intimate moment together.
It’s never going to come easily like that, one person might be sexually high and the other person might not be as high as his or her partner. Even if the partner is high enough, the feeling can’t come at the same time and if you cannot express what you’re feeling, how do you expect your partner to know exactly what you’re feeling and be able to meet such expectation.
It is as a result of the lack of this intimate moment that drive lots of couple out into extramarital affair.
So, take note of these 3 top reasons for divorce and try as much as you can to avoid them in your marriage.
Do you think there are other causes that are of utmost important than the aforementioned 3 top reasons for divorce as stated above?
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