Relationship Do’s and Don’ts; Top 10 Things to Consider
Relationship Do’s and Don’ts; Top 10 Things to Consider which will help you a lot in your love and relationship life. Everybody has roles to play in relationship, but if you can put into practice these top 10 things and the do’s and don’ts of relationship, your relationship will be better and look more effective that other will like to follow your example
1. Never both be angry at the same time,
2. Never yell at each other,
3. If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate,
4. If you must criticize, do it lovingly,
5. Never bring up mistakes of the past,
6. Neglect the whole world rather than each other,
7. Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled,
8. At least once a day, say a complimentary word to your mate.
9. When you have done something wrong, admit and ask forgiveness.
10. It takes two to make a quarrel, but the one who’s wrong does the most of it.
Here are the Love Do’s and Don’ts
Don’t ever go to bed mad at your mate, sleep on the couch if you have to
Do Pick your fights, ask yourself if this is something that is going to matter in 5 years, if not let it go.
Do not speak when you are mad, wait until you calm down enough to talk, take a walk, a long bath, or whatever you do to calm down, and always, always, always stick to the subject, and do not ever attack their personal feelings, they have just as much right to them as you do to yours.
When you go out always put your partner first, a lady can open a door for a man just as easily especially if his hands are full.
Ask for their opinions on stuff, if they don’t have one, do not badger one out, it will only start a fight over nothing.
Tell your partner often that you love him/her, and try for at least 10 times a day, even if they are right after another.
If you find that you are both getting in a rut and nothing seems to be as spontaneous as it once was, first talk about it, then think of some action to take to get things into shape. Always try to understand what they are saying. And if your partner likes a certain type of sport, try to learn what the sport is about and the names of the teams and you never know you might actually like it once you understand it.
Do Show your love in the way that you take care of yourself, your partner, your children, your home your job, you would be surprising how well that works.
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