How To Overcome Relationship Frustration
Having gone into different relationship, from white guys to black and to other colour, your relationship seems not to be working out. Is it something is wrong with you or something is not alright with the guys you have been dating before frustration set in.
I know how it feel like, having gone from one relationship to another without get the relationship satisfaction you want, can be like a bit of hell and every time you remember those past relationship, the discomfort still stare you at the face even though you’re no longer in it.
Don’t lose hope yet, it doesn’t mean there is no right partner for you, is just that, both of you are yet to find each other. If you give up now, and lose on your partner, it will take you to go through that whole world again searching the one once again.
Now that your frustration has reached the peak level, it is now time to overcome that frustration and be a better person you want to be. Being that better you now will give you more ample opportunities now to see past relationship as something not that bad, is just that it doesn’t work out.
Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending!
The way to recovery
It is important for you not to remember and still dwell on your past relationship. Once it has gone, let it be and focus on the getting into another one which will be the present. Once you’re able to change your focus from the past, you’ll be able to see what the future relationship holds for you. Just stop clinging to some memory that will take you backward and get you hurt.
Sometimes, we put too much passion on the biggest dreams and priorities in life that we fail to love the smallest pleasures from simple things. We search so much for the right choices, for the right paths to walk through, for the right time and for the right reasons. But life isn’t about searching for the things that can be found. It is about letting the unexpected happen and finding things you never searched for.
Believe in the present and start a new relationship that will not remind of the past. Life itself is full of challenges and struggles. Sometimes, struggles are exactly what we need in life. If God allow us to go through life without obstacles, we would not be as strong as what we could have been.