Being dumped is not a very pleasant experience any lady would love to have.
While no one anticipates being dumped in a relationship, it is good to know those signs that show when a guy is about to dump you.
Some guys are very good at pretending in their attitude towards ladies which sometimes makes it hard knowing when he is about to dump you.
In this article, you will know what those signs are.
Ladies are therefore advised not to ignore these signs but be on the look out for them so they are not caught unawares.
He treats you like trash:
If a guy is about to dump you, he will start treating you anyhow.
His attitude towards you will change and he would no longer care about the things that matter to you.
He doesn’t care anymore:
Relationships can be so funny in the sense that the guy you think loves you today can be someone entirely different tomorrow.
If he is about to dump you, you won’t be the centre of his life again.
He would not care so much about those things he used to before.
You will notice that he won’t pay so much attention to you again.
He fixes his attention on someone else:
Watch this ladies! It’s sometimes not hard to know when a guy is about to dump you. The signs will always be there unless you choose to ignore them.
If you are observant, his attention will be fixated on someone else either when making a call or when he is out.
If you find him laughing a lot on the phone and spending more time on it speaking to someone then know he might be thinking of dumping you.
He picks quarrels:
Any guy that is about to dump you will find ways of trying to let you go quickly.
He’ll start arguments and always try to blame you for things that happen even if it’s not your fault.
You’ll be surprised to find out that the things you may be arguing about don’t even make sense.
When this happens, don’t bother yourself too much as it looks like his mind is already made up.
He keeps his distance:
If a guy is about to dump you, he will want to stay away from you so it can be easy for him to let you go.
His visits will be fewer, his calls may reduce and communication with you may gradually seize.
When a guy starts keeping distance from you; then know something is wrong and know that he can’t wait to get rid of you.
Your self esteem reduces:
Being with a guy you love ought to build your self esteem and not reduce it.
So at any point in your relationship you start feeling like you are worthless when you are with him then it’s probably a sign he is about to dump you.
He is meant to make you feel good about yourself and not the other way round.
He’ll stop eating your food:
One of the ways a guy can keep himself from you is if he stops eating your meals.
If you notice him doing this then know he wants you to leave his life.
Men like to eat so if he begins rejecting your food out of the blues then he is about to dump you.
Ladies please stop trying to deceive yourselves. If you notice any of these signs you should know what is coming ahead.
I know you don’t want this to happen but it does happen and it is best to be aware of them so that if it happens to you, you will not be shocked.
Being dumped is not the end of the road for you and as such you should be wise, smart and be ready to plunge ahead in life without regrets.
I wish you all the best!