5 Statement Your Guy Don’t Want To Hear From You
The bedrock of a good relationship is proper communication, the more you communicate with your man, the more you understand him and the better for your relationship. It is always good to share everything with your partner, it will make him trust you the more. However, there is some statement you shouldn’t say to your guy. No matter your level of communication, such statement really hurt. As much as you want to be talking every now and then, avoid making statements that are hurtful to your guy, if you value your relationship.
These 5 statements should be avoided when you want to talk to or communicate with him, don’t say it to his hearing.
I will be ok, don’t worry about me
Words like this are so much annoying, you will get your guy pissed off, if you make statement like this. Why is he your boyfriend in the first place if you don’t want him to care about you? Of course, he has his own life and lots of other things to worry about in his life, but since you have come into his life, you have been included among the top priority thing to think about. So, why telling him not to worry about you; If you are guilty of this type of statement, you need to stop it now, if you want the progress of your relationship. This type of statement is so much hurtful, you need to completely do away with it.
You’re just a “man up”
What this statement mean is simply, you are not man enough. You can imagine what kind of damage such statement will do to any man’s ego. Even if your guy lack any things that you thing all men should have, you shouldn’t tell your guy that, he’s man up, not from you at all. Maybe your guy is not the toughest or muscular or manly enough compare to some other guys out there. He does not need you to point it out to him.
Do you still think about your ex?
Talking about ex is one of the many talks you’re going to talk about when you’re just starting up a new relationship, but when you’re already in it, you should never mention anything about his ex or even yours too. Wanting to know more details about his ex is a complete turn off to him. You’ll be better off talking about presence in his life and how you’re going to be the real woman instead of making his ex a treat in the relationship, which it wasn’t. other similar comment like this are; “my ex was just like that” “do you like me better than you like your ex” “did your ex do thing like this for you”…. Just stop any form of comparison with ex’s, he doesn’t want to hear them from you.
I guess they were right about you
When you make statement like ‘I guess they were right about you’, you’re making your man feel less than he is. You have low expectation about him and that’s what makes you succumb to that kind of statement, that you guess people are right about the negative perception about your guy. You will only be putting him in defence mode with this kind of harsh comment, make him feel he’s not good enough for you and anyone else. What a derogatory statement!
Nothing’s wrong when there’s something wrong with you
This statement is so irritating when you made it to your guy, that you’re already going out. You might have let it out to him unknowingly, and you’re now telling him nothing’s wrong when actually, something is wrong. The statement does not help you in any way and what you’re trying to tell him is that, he’s useless; he can’t help you out with what is wrong with you.
Seriously, you should try as much as you can to avoid hurtful statement like these 5 mention above, your guy don’t want to hear it, especially from you.
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